The Greatest of These

 Below is one of my very favorite passages in the New Testament. It was penned by the Apostle Paul, and it is truly a God-sent message.

On this last day of an awful year, I wanted to be reminded of the greatest gift God has given us, love, and that as bad as things can be here on earth, and as good as they can be, a wonderous life awaits us when we "see face to face."

1 Corinthians 13  New International Version

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1If I speak in the tongues^a of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,^b but have not love, I gain nothing.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

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Happy New Year, all my blogging friends. Thank you for helping me get through this last year. Most Christians believe that God puts us where he wants us to be, if we'll cooperate with him. I believe God encouraged me to start a blog back in November of 2006 because he knew I would need your love and encouragement for what I was soon to experience. Thank you all, and may God bless you and your families richly in the new year.

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On 12/31/2009, Loribelle said ...

We love you, Su-Su ((((HUGS)))) G, L, D & C

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On 12/31/2009, Pokey said ...

Happy 2010 to you, Susan! I'm praying for blessings for us all. . . .

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On 12/31/2009, Libby Dillard said ...

Thank You!! I am praying for a wonderful year full of blessings for us all!
Libby

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On 12/31/2009, Wendy said ...

Such a pleasure to start my day reading your blog. Wishing you good health and love in the new year. Give Sophie a treat!

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On 12/31/2009, Allison Brake said ...

Susan,
I recently came across your blog and wanted to encourage you as you have encouraged me. While dealing with your loss this year you have shown a real Christ-like spirit. I appreciate the honesty of your sorrow and the witness of your dependence on Christ. As a fellow Christian I pray He will continue to carry you through and give you much joy.

Allison

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On 12/31/2009, Gayle said ...

Keep writing! You have such a gift. :-)

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On 12/31/2009, Tina said ...

You are a woman of strength, courage and love and I am blessed to have you in my life. May 2010 be an incredible year full of God's love and bounty.

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On 12/31/2009, Sandy said ...

What a wonderful witness of the love of Christ you have shown us this past year in the way you have dealt with the blows life has sent you. We have all had our own faith strengthened by watching yours in action. May God's peace overflow in your life in this coming new year and may healing and strength come to you physically. For those who read your blog who do not have Christ in their lives, the start of a new year would be a wonderful time to invite Him into their hearts. That is my prayer to all those readers. God bless you Susan.

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On 12/31/2009, Rae Ann said ...

What a beautiful post! I am happy that you are my new blogging friend.
I pray that 2010 will be a year full of blessings and that you may find comfort and joy along the way.
We are so blessed to have the wonderful world of blogging friends and to be able to open up and share our hearts.

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On 12/31/2009, Kai said ...

I add my love and good wishes for a wonderful and MUCH smoother 2010! We bloggers - especially the creative bloggers because most of us are love-givers, thing-givers, caregivers - have to stay close to each other. I am extraordinarily grateful for your presence in my life! Happy New Year, lil' Susan! Big, gentle hugs to you! (Please, give sweet Sophie some from Aunty Kai, too!)

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On 12/31/2009, Debra said ...

This is a beautiful post, Susan. I know it's been tough but you have been a real trooper. We love you and want to support you!

xoxoxo

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On 12/31/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

Thanks again, for your words of wisdom, and for the wonderful inspiration you are.
Wishing you many blessings in 2010.
Love Ruth

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On 12/31/2009, Janet said ...

Thank you for such a beautiful post Susan. A lovely reminder of why I enjoy reading your blog. That is one of my favorite Bible verses.

You have had a rough year, but you're an inspiration to anyone who will have to face similar situations. I pray that none of us will and that 2010 will be a wonderful year for us all!

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On 12/31/2009, Andrea said ...

Happy New Year Susan - and thank you for all the inspiration and encouragement over the past year.

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On 12/31/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Blessing dear friend, as you move forward with the rest of us.

Love is forever.

Love and hugs!

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On 12/31/2009, CarlaH said ...

Susan, my very best wishes to you for a Healthy 2010 - may the good days outnumber the not so good as you go about rebuilding your life.

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On 12/31/2009, Christi said ...

Susan - sending you a big cyber hug, too, and lots of love and light in the New Year.

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On 12/31/2009, Pam said ...

What a wonderful picture of Vann and Sophie.

That verse touched me as it is the verse that the minister spoke at our Wedding - Nov 1994. I still remember those words. My heart goes out to you Susan and I wish you all the best wishes I can for 2010.

Hugs
Pam

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On 12/31/2009, Pat McDonald said ...

Amen! My sister is in stage 3 of cancer(below her left ear to the bottom of her neck and everywhere in between). She is 63 yrs. old and has never smoked. She is scared and I'm scared but we know Jesus as our Lord and Savior. He has given us this time to hug one another, cry together, and tell each other how much we care. Every day is truly a gift from Him. Praise God for His love and thank you for your encouraging blog.Pat

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On 12/31/2009, Kate said ...

Amen to your post. God bless you and may 2010 be kinder to you.

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On 12/31/2009, Linda J.W. said ...

Susan,My prayers are for you for this New Year and many more to come.I saw our red birds today and said a prayer for you.I will always think of you when i see them.I have my 2 youngest Grandsons to spend the night they are 5 and 1 they are such a blessing to us.My life is truley blessed with you as my Special Friend.
HUGS Linda W.

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On 01/01/2010, alexandrine said ...

All my best wishes for 2010 Susan .

Huggs

Alexandrine

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On 01/01/2010, Lallee said ...

Susan, may 2010 be full of God's continued comfort,love, and healing for you.

I loved your Christmas PJ's. What a good shopper Sophie is! I hope you enjoy your Kindle and it sounds like you will. My husband and I do a lot of audio books via audible.com, using our iPods. I still have the need to read a book, but the audible is a nice addition for when I am doing housework and for travel.

I had to Google to see who coined 'a dark and stormy night' when I realized I had no clue! I loved the little lesson it led me down.

Hugs,
Lallee

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On 01/01/2010, Alicia P. said ...

Wishing you much love in 2010 Susan. xoxo

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On 01/01/2010, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

This is one of my favorite verses, too! I embroidered this on the borders of my very first quilt! It is amazing how God watches out for us so far in advance, before we even know a trial is coming! Wishing you a blessed and joyful New Year!
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A Year of Dark & Stormy Nights

Scroll Down to Find My Reading List.

Most of you already know that I love to read. And many of you probably know, too, that my favorite book genre is the thriller/suspense/mystery type of book. I grew up reading Nancy Drew and The Hardy Boys and watching Perry Mason and Alfred Hitchcock on tv, and I've been hooked on suspense ever since.

So I've joined Book Chick City's 2010 Thriller & Suspense Reading Challenge. The goal is to read 12 books of this type in the coming year.

Now there are lots and lots of subgenres that count toward this challenge--everything from cozy cat mysteries to hard-core horror. So just because you don't like vampires and werewolves, don't think this challenge isn't for you. If you like to read books that have a element of danger and suspense, you might want to check this one out.

The rules are very loose and forgiving. And there's a subgenre list too to help you decide if this challenge is for you.

Below is where I'll post the books i read in this challenge:

1. The True Story of Hansel and Gretel by Louise Murphy
2. A Winter Haunting by Dan Simmons
3. The Gates by John Connolly
4. Shutter Island by Dennis Lehane
5. A Reliable Wife by Robert Goolrick
6. The Heart-Shaped Box by Joe Hill
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WIN A PRIZE!

Here's a little contest I just thought of that goes right along with the subject of suspense and mystery: Whoever can tell me 1) what author first penned the now famous phrase "It was a dark and stormy night," 2) the title of the book the phrase first appeared in, and 3) the year the book was published will win a prize. Everyone who gets the correct answer will receive a prize. DON'T POST YOUR ANSWER HERE!!!!! That would give it away. Instead, if you think you know, e-mail your answer to me at suscleve@aol.com. On the subject line of your e-mail, write "Contest." You have until midnight tomorrow night to get your answer in.

HINT: The author is not Snoopy.

 

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On 12/30/2009, Courtney Short-Prudhomme said ...

I just emailed you my answer :-)

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On 12/30/2009, Jan said ...

Oh shoot, I can't play cuz I'm scared of scary things (LOL). Wishing the best of luck to all those who are much braver than me tho. Love the fabric for the pillow cases below ... absolutely beautiful :) Have a good day my dear.

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On 12/30/2009, Nancy said ...

I just emailed you my guess....

What pillowcases??

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On 12/30/2009, Molly in Sumner, WA said ...

Just wanted to let you know that I love your book reviews. Because of that, I bought and am devouring "Under the Dome". I agree that it is excellent. So many story lines and characters. I also like your review of the Kindle. Someday a Kindle will be mine!

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On 12/30/2009, Vicki Cohn said ...

i just emailed you my answer, too!

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On 12/30/2009, Kim said ...

Just e-mailed you my answers.
Happy New Year!

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On 12/30/2009, Debbie said ...

Oh my goodness! You're gonna crack up at my e-mail...sorry! I was jumping up and down yelling, "I know this, I know this"! Hubby and the dog thought I'd gone over the bend. LOL at myself!

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On 12/30/2009, Ramey Channell said ...

I emailed you my answer a while ago. And, you're right, it wasn't Snoopy. Also wasn't Alfred E. Newman.

Signed,
The Mystery Woman

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On 12/30/2009, Lavender Dreamer said ...

What fun...and how scary! I think I know, too! lol

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On 12/30/2009, Bev said ...

Fun! Thanks!

Cheery wave from
Bev
http://44thstreetfabric.blogspot.com

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On 12/31/2009, Debbie Price said ...

Just found your blog yesterday and LOVE it! I think Sophie is so cute..I also have a schnauzer and now I know why she has such curly hair...she is mixed with poodle! Her name is Jasmine and she is about 8, not sure, got her from a shelter...do you have any ideas on how to cope with Fibro? I also have it and 2 types of arthritis. I don't take any meds, just Tylenol when it REALLY gets too much...you were right about some people not understanding how you can look so NORMAL and feel so bad! Thanks for this wonderful blog...it is going to be one of my daily ones I visit!
Hope you have a good year this 2010!
Hugs from Indiana...

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On 01/01/2010, Book Chick City said ...

Hi! Welcome to the Triller & Suspense challenge. Thanks for signing up and I hope you have fun with the challenge. Good luck :)

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On 01/08/2010, Marie said ...

I love mysteries too! And one day...I will read them again but not today. :)

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On 01/31/2010, LeAnn said ...

I love to read as well, so it is fun seeing what you are reading!
LeAnn
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The Girl Can't Help It

 

Look what I just ordered from 44th Street Fabric Etsy shop! I'm going to make pillowcases for my very own bed with it. I don't even own any pillowcases that I've made myself, although I'm nuts about pillowcases. I buy them at yard sales and thrift stores. I like to mix and match them on my beds. I know that fabric is not something of which I'm in short supply, but I don't have any of this--and it's gorgeous. So while I was ordering fabric to make pillowcases for a friend, I saw this and now it's going to be mine.

Only a couple more days left in this year. 2009 will take its place alongside 1977 (the year my dad and Elvis died) as the two most awful years of my life. There have been other bad years, but these were the worst. Neither year was devoid of blessings, however. 1977 was the year I decided to go back to college, one of the best decisions I've ever made. 2009 saw the election of the first African American U.S. president. It was also a year of a huge outpouring of love and caring on me and my family. It's true: God never closes a door without opening a window.

I can finally see some progress in my efforts to declutter and organize my house. There's still lots left to do; but enough has been accomplished now that I don't feel that sense of immediacy, that "the walls are closing in on me," panic that I felt a few weeks ago. 

Sophie and I are declaring this a Fun Day. No decluttering. I'm going to try to do some sewing, if she'll let me. I need to go to the grocery store, so I think I'll take Sophie on a walk in the park on our way.

I hope all of you have a fun day planned too. Or if not, that you make the very most of the day God has given you. There are blessings around every corner. Just take a peek.

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On 12/29/2009, Dandelion Quilts said ...

It has been a very difficult year for you, no doubt. I like this fabric you've picked for your pillowcases. Actually, I have been loving bird prints lately like these. Those are just the cutest little bluebirds. Your pillowcases will be darling.

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On 12/29/2009, Nicole said ...

That fabric is so cheerful! Perfect for your pillowcase project!
2009 was a dreadful year for you. 2010 can only be better.

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On 12/29/2009, Pokey said ...

Psalm 118:24 "This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it."

You changed your photo, Susan! I noticed right away. God will bless you, strengthen and encourage you, thank you for sharing the year that was. I have been blessed, and have prayed for you several times.
Your prints are so sweet. Have a good day, looking for the joy in the journey. Little things can mean a lot!

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On 12/29/2009, Pat said ...

Beautiful fabric! On my project list: make pillowcases! Glad you're having a fun day!

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On 12/29/2009, Loribelle said ...

What better way for Suzie to start her day than buying, yes, more fabric! This from a friend who has actually seen and stepped foot in your sewing room! I say go for it! Even I printed off your pillow case pattern and am considering making some for my "kids." Gee, I wonder where I could get some pretty fabric... ;-) Love you girl! You and Soph have a super fun day!!

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On 12/29/2009, Patti Koosed said ...

The fabric is just beautiful and I can just picture it as pillows on your bed. This is going to brighten up your bed so much.

Have a fun day and enjoy. Yes we all should enjoy this day that God has given us.

God Bless You Susan
Hugs
Patti

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On 12/29/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

OOOOOOOHHHHH! What delicious fabric - and calorie free, too. Yum!! You're leading me into temptation, you know ... I don't have that wonderful fabric either .... hummmm ....can I do without it?!

Thanks for the reminder that blessings abound and are everywhere whether you look or not. It's more delightful to look.

I also saw you'd changed your picture. Blessings, friend. You are really not alone at all.

Love and hugs on your FUN day!

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On 12/29/2009, Diva Kreszl said ...

The fabric is just gorgeous! Can't wait to see your finished pillowcases. Happy to hear you have made it through the holidys, I know how difficult it can be. I'm thrilled to see your review of the Kindle as I got one for my son who's an avid reader. Take care of yourself dear one, I'll be checking back soon!

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On 12/29/2009, Thelma said ...

I hope you have nothing but sweet dreams on those new pillowcases! I've had my hands full with Copper, between the snow, cold and no doggy daycare, my boy's been a pistol! NO daycare between Christmas and New Years, just like regular school!

I hope you got some sewing in today. I'm eating the last of our Christmas Eve leftovers, then it's Lean Cuisine for me!

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On 12/29/2009, Kerrie said ...

Love the material, girl! I would have to have it too if I could-ha! I have some lovely pink print flannel and I think I will make a pillowcase for myself, great idea and comforting-ha! Have a wonderfully blessed NEW YEAR! Kerrie

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On 12/29/2009, valerie said ...

I love the fabric and cant wait to see the pillow cases made. But what I loved most about this post was in the very last part about the blessings. Beautiful and true.

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On 12/30/2009, Kai said ...

What a cheerful, bright-wonderful array of pillowcases-to-come! THOSE will produce very happy dreams! And what a beautiful lady at the upper righthand side of your blog! Who IS that lovely princess? (Smile!) Hurray for FUN DAYS! I hope you do EXACTLY what YOU want to do! (Sophie, you be an EXTRA sweet doggy & let mommy sew!) 2010 WILL be better! It WILL! LOVE YOU, Susan!

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On 12/30/2009, Christi said ...

Susan, I hope you have a wonderfully fun day! And I just want to say...this year has brought me lots of challenges... but reading your blog and watching you face life's heartache with such grace and beauty has been so inspiring to me. Seriously, there were days when I was so sad...but then I would land on your blog and I always came away with something that would fill my heart. Thank you! God bless and have fun with those beautiful fabrics!
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Too Much Time at the Groaning Board

All the Christmassing is over, and I'm still alive and functioning. I ate too much, as I expected I would. So now it's time to lay in a supply of Lean Cuisine and try to lose some of the extra weight that I truly don't need.

It really wasn't all that bad, because I tried not to think too far ahead at any one given time. Just do what's on tap for right now. That seemed to work. I'm tired, but I really feel well enough to get some sewing done. Sophie, however, is not cool with that. Any time I go near the sewing room she comes after me and bugs me with her pawing and nosing until I come back downstairs with her. Then she snuggles back up in her nest on back of the sofa. Maybe the holiday season reminded her somehow of PopPop, and now she needs some special attention. I know she misses him, even though she can't tell me in so many words.

For the pillowcase instructions I promised, click on this link. I don't remember where I got these instructions. I was thinking they came from the internet, but I don't see any indication on the sheet of a website, so now I'm thinking a friend gave them to me, but I can't remember which one. Anyway, I've made lots of pillowcases using these instructions, and I can tell you they're fast and easy and make lovely pillowcases.

And now for the Kindle report I've been promising. 

When I finally found time to sit down and learn to use mine, I found that I didn't need a degree in engineering to use it, as is the case with most electronic devices. Its ease of operation is a definite advantage. Almost as easy as a real book, honestly.

Ordering books is easy too. But I have to admit that as I was perusing the bookstore, I made a misclick and ordered a book I hadn't planned to order. But I started reading it before I explored "returning" it, and decided it was entertaining enough to keep. The book is Plum Spooky by Janet Evanovich. Halfway through it, I haven't found anything spooky yet, but it is really funny. So I'm not sure how you return books you've ordered by mistake--or even if you can.

The Kindle is very light, making it easy to hold. If you have any kind of condition that causes pain in your hands or arms, as I do, this is a definite plus.

For eyes that need extra help, as mine do, the Kindle is just the ticket. No matter what book you're reading, large print is always an option with the click of a button. In fact, you have several choices for font size. I've found that with the Kindle, I don't need as bright a light as I do with books.

And no matter what size print you choose, there's no scrolling up and down or back and forth to read a page. It's all right there on the screen, then one click of the "next page" button brings up the next screen.

Probably as a consequence of all the above qualities, I find I can read much faster with the Kindle than with a book. And for readers like me, who love to read in bed, it's perfect. No propping up an unwieldy book with pillows.

There's also the advantage of having access to any book published for Kindle, which I think is most of them, almost instantly. No trips to the bookstore or waiting for the mailman to arrive. Most books cost $9.99 to download, but some are even less expensive.

But as much as I love my Kindle, I'm far from ready to give up on paper books altogether. I still have a fairly high stack of real books in my to-be-read supply. And I know there will be some books by favorite authors that I'll want on my bookshelf. And there's just something nice about holding a real book and turning pages that's nice, at least until you hand starts cramping or your arm starts hurting.

I hope this report helps those of you who've been contemplating getting an electronic reader. Of course, everyone is different, but I have no regrets about buying mine. And if I did, I suppose I could return it. So if you think you'd like one, I suggest you give it a try. And if you do, be sure to let me know how you like it.

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On 12/28/2009, Pat said ...

Looks like just what I "need!" I'm finding the larger print and the more light the better. I know my husband would not mind having books stacked all over, but I'm like you - there's just something about a paper book...

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On 12/28/2009, LaurieC said ...

I'm not sure I have ever posted on your blog, but have read it often. My feelings about the Kindle are pretty much right on par with yours. I got mine for a birthday gift - nothing I had ever thought of owning, but I find it really easy to use and read with. It does not replace the feel of a book, but reading is easy. It will be great for traveling, and I drop it in my purse whenever I have an appointment so I can read while waiting. It fits much better than a paperback!

Blessings to you in the New Year. You have handled the challenges and sadness of 2009 with grace and are an inspiration.

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On 12/28/2009, Helen said ...

I LOVE my Kindle! Not as a "replacement" for "actual" books....but as a wonderful enhancement. You can return books ordered by mistake...there is a line to click at the order acknowlegment point before you return to home. The credit takes a few days to be issued, but cancellation confirmation is immediate. I don't use the Kindle for book club reading though....the lack of page numbers (uses "locations" instead) makes it hard to quickly refer to different passages for discusion when a page # is referenced.

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On 12/28/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

My freezer door looks like that grocery photo - Lean Cuisines top to bottom. That said, we've just ordered 4 Chicago pizzas for New Years Eve from Lou Malinati's. I lived in a Chicago suburb for 7 years as a teen and love Chicago pizzas. Will take a break from Lean Cuisines for that!!

Thanks for the pillow case instructions.

Will you need to move your sewing or cutting station to the dining room to keep Sophie happy?

Call me old fashioned, but I'm not ready for Kindle as long as the public library and intra-library loan are in business.

Hugs! Barbara

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On 12/28/2009, Melinda said ...

I just downloaded the Kindle for IPhone app from ITunes and bought one book. Although the screen on the IPhone is small, it is easy to read. Since the app is free, I thought this would be a good way to test out reading electronically instead of with a book. I listen to books all the time, but sometimes I just want to read. It is great when waiting in lines or waiting at the doctors. Have fun with your Kindle.

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On 12/28/2009, Lavender Dreamer said ...

Thanks for the Kindle info. I would love to get one and think I would really enjoy it. I check out books from the library though and that doesn't cost anything. For traveling it would be great! Hope you have a restful week!

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On 12/29/2009, Rae Ann said ...

Maybe I should look into getting a Kindle after all! It sounds just like what I need.
The pillow case was darling!

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On 12/29/2009, Kai said ...

First of all, I am DELIGHTED to read that you are planning to sew, spend quiet time with lil' Sophie, and allow Stouffer's to take care of your meals for a bit. Lean Cuisine & I are old friends, & I could LIVE on the fish & rice one or the butternut squash ravioli! Sooooo yummy. I like almost ALL of them! Second, you are so generous to give us the pillowcase instructions! THANK YOU! I intend to try one, and if I find I can actually DO it, I'll be making so many of them because cute/pretty pillowcases are my secret weakness! I could have a hundred and it wouldn't be too many. I buy sets of solid colored sheets so I can buy (now MAKE) all sorts of different cases! Finally, the Kindle. Sigh ... I can't EVER justify buying one (tho' I think they are AWESOME) because I have 2 - yes TWO - 5-LEVEL bookshelves with the books DOUBLE SHELVED (one row behind the other) of unread books. Not to mention the overflow on TOP of the rows of books and on the floor. Oh, the shame of it. Heehee - I'm not REALLY ashamed. I just think of myself as 'rich in reading material.' But I'm glad to know the Kindle is a GOOD thing just in case I ever DO run out of books to read.

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On 12/29/2009, Dandelion Quilts said ...

I loved reading about your Kindle. Mom and I talked Dad into letting us get him the Nook from Barnes and Noble. He doesn't have it yet, but did get to test one out in the store. He is an avid reader, like you. I think he will like it.

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On 12/29/2009, Debra said ...

One thing I have noticed lately is that all the electronic gizmos have helped me clear out the clutter. I keep so much more on the computer than I would in file cabinets and bookcases. It is really changing the way I store information & what I allow to come into the house. So, consequently, I don't need all the furniture or storage space once needed for normal living. Of course the style of this house contributes to that too.

I have vaguely thought about the Kindle but since I was lousy for listening to books on tape, I doubt I would actually sit down and read from a Kindle. I do think if I could get Wes to use one, he might enjoy it. He reads all kinds of articles on his IPhone & that screen is pretty small.

I know you are ready to take a break. You certainly deserve one. It's been a long year.

xoxox

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On 12/29/2009, Rian said ...

Thanks for the review on the Kindle. I think I'd like it because I could read in the dark without having to turn on the light.

I'll be joining you in Lean Cuisine-land in a week.

You have traversed a remarkable path this year, and, as LaurieC said, you have handled it with grace and inspiration. May the new year bring you a rebirth.

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On 12/30/2009, Laurie said ...

I do like the idea of the Kindle being light and easy to read. But, like you, I'm not yet willing to part with my paper books, so it will be a while before I get one. I'm glad you like yours!

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On 12/31/2009, jabner said ...

I just love reading your blog, so wonderful and full of fun and all the things I enjoy. I appreciate all the wonderful time you give doing it. Thank you.
Oh!, I think you might of gotten your pillow case information from 44th street fabric, as I just read it this morning and it was really the best I have read. Bev is wonderful and has the best fabric line around. I will be back..Jabner

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On 01/01/2010, Loree Tanner said ...

I have a Kindle and i DO love it, BUT, i still like my books, and have a great stack of TBR books that i have to have, and really do love going to Barnes & Noble to look and feel and read. It is just hard to give up paper altogether, the feel and smell of them and all the things added to them in the beginning and ads for different books in the back of paperbacks, I also got all the equipment to try to have the thing read to me and could never figure that one out!!! just beyond me apparently. but i do read thru them much faster, got the latest diana Galbadon book, (close to 1000 pages and had it finished in NO time, worried that it was condensed, but have seen NOTHING that shows or says that the Kindle books are condensed, i do NOT like condensed)

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On 01/06/2010, Judi W said ...

If you enjoyed Plum Spooky you should read all the Stephanie Plum novels -they are hilarious. Great/silly characters - easy reading for sure! If you go to www.fantasticfiction.co.uk you can look them up in order of publication.
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Pillowcase Instructions

Click on instructions to enlarge.

 
 

Continuing the Celebration

 

More goodies came in the mail yesterday--a box full of beautiful fabric treats and patterns (first photo) from my Charming Girls Quilt Club friends and a lovely card and ATCs from Joan X, an artist friend (second photo). Thank you, ladies. I am very blessed to have such good and caring friends. Whether with your gifts, cards, or comments, you've all helped make this holiday season much easier than it would have been otherwise.

My daughter Andy and I went to our friend Ashleigh's wedding yesterday afternoon. The event took place in a beautiful little country church up in St. Clair County, just north of us. Ashleigh was lovely in a blueish-grey silk gown that her talented mom Jennifer made, and a veil that went halfway down the aisle of the little church. Thomas (Ash's husband) looked good too, but not as pretty as his bride.

After the wedding, Andy and I went to Ruby Tuesday's for dinner. Then I came home, walked Sophie, and nested on the couch for several hours while watching "Golden Girls" and "Criminal Minds" reruns.

This afternoon, I'm hosting a birthday party for my sister, Joanne. It will be a small affair, just family. My nephew Jed is frying a turkey for the occasion. It will be my first taste of fried turkey.

Somehow I've managed to make it through all this fun and frivolity with family and friends, and I'm very grateful. But I'm afraid the engine is running down quickly. After today, I'm going to do some serious resting. I'm going to lay in a supply of Lean Cuisines and salad and have some home-alone time. Well, not exactly alone--Sophie will be here.

I haven't really been depressed, as I thought I would be--at least not for long periods. A few times I have been hit with that heavy feeling of loss and grief and had to wash the feeling away with a few tears. But I've been able to spring back and enjoy the blessings that God had put here for me, especially friends and family. 

I realize I still haven't posted the pillowcase instructions, but I will. And I also plan to write more about the Kindle (electronic book reader) and my experiences with it so far. But right now, I have to get off my duff and finish cleaning up my kitchen, get a shower, and be ready to party by 2:00 p.m.

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On 12/27/2009, Phyl said ...

I'm so glad you got a Kindle book!Do please share how you like using it as you try it out...I'm still undecided, but still WANT one!The thought of having ANY book immediately at my fingertips when having a bad day/week, etc. is mighty tempting!God bless you and Sophie in the New Year.....

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On 12/27/2009, Jocelyn said ...

So glad to hear that you have been doing well through the holidays. I hope you enjoy the party. It's my daughter's birthday too!

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On 12/27/2009, Beverly said ...

It all sounds good, Susan. Now I would like a bite of that fried turkey. It sounds delish!

Happy Birthday to your sister.

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On 12/27/2009, Jan said ...

Hi Susan :) I'm so glad that you experienced some joy over the past few days. I'm sure that would please Vann immensely :) Can't wait to hear how you like your new Kindle and how lovely that you went ahead w/Vann's plan for that :) Enjoy the "down time."

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On 12/27/2009, Lavender Dreamer said ...

I'm glad you are enjoying your friends and family and staying busy! Happy New Year to you!

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On 12/27/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi Susan!

By now, it's 4 down and none to go. Congratulations, you made it and did well. As you said, some tears as is expected and so normal, and on with life again thereafter. Par for this unwelcome course.

I'm joining you on the Lean Cuisine diet in the coming week and weeks.

As you cozy in, be good to you, give yourself permission to play, to snooze, to ignore what you don't want to do, and to take it all one day at a time. Shrea, shrea.

Hugs!

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On 12/27/2009, Kai said ...

You are a wonder! And I'm so glad all the people who love you have SHOWN their love! You deserve every ounce of it, Susan! I look forward to hearing about the party AND about the Kindle! But most of all, I'm HAPPY to hear you plan to rest a bit for a few days. You've more than earned that. You & sweet Sophie cuddle up and relax! I LOVE YOU!

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On 12/27/2009, Allyson in Alaska said ...

Sounds like you had a wonderful and busy weekend. I wish I could see a picture of that blueish-gray wedding gown. It sounds so romantic. I've thought about you this past week. I'm happy to hear you're doing well, keeping busy and finding some quiet time for yourself.

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On 12/27/2009, Donna said ...

Susan, I am glad you have made it well thru the holidays. You have been very busy! I have tried to stay busy as well. Love all the fabrics you received. I need to get back to my sewing room. Please post about the Kindle. Amber was thinking about one for her birthday but could never decide if she would like it or not..I guess it was meant to be that I had not purchased it yet :(
God Bless and Hugs,
Donna

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On 12/28/2009, Awtemnymf said ...

I can't wait to see the pillowcase instructions!
You do have caring friends from far and wide- we do love you!
Hugs to you & Sophie :)

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On 01/01/2010, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

You're such an inspiration to us all, Susan! I'm so glad that you're still able to find some joy! You deserve some rest -- I hope you and Sophie can get in some R & R! Oh, I love fried turkey -- did you enjoy it??
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Two Down, Two to Go

 A little crying, a lot of laughing, way too much eating. I made it through Christmas Eve Soup Night at The Yellow House and Christmas Day Dinner at my sister's house. Today is Ashleigh's (friend) wedding and tomorrow Joanne's (my sister) birthday party. Then I'm telling everyone I'm officially on hiatus for at least a week. No more cooking, partying, or going anywhere till after New Years (I hope). 

Actually, I won't need to cook. I must have thought I was making soup for General Patton's Third Army. My refrigerator is full of containers of Santa Fe soup left over from Thursday night, as well as one large container of Andy's Italian wedding soup (she only cooked enough to feed a football team). So I have to get all that in the freezer today so it won't go bad. It was much too good to waste.

I truly hope everyone had as great a Christmas as I did. The only thing that would have made it better would be to have Vann here. But what a Christmas he must have celebrated, huh?

Here are a few photos of some gifts I received from family. The photo above shows my Christmas Eve PJs, a gift from Sophie of course. She also gave Andy a pair just like them.

Vann planned to get me a Kindle for Christmas. I made sure his plan was carried out. More about my first attempts to use it later.


The makings for a new Christmas quilt for Christmas 2010 from Andy and Jesse.


Quantum Mechanics lecture series on DVD by The Teaching Company from my sister Joanne.


Very appropriate necklace from my niece Buffy (she made it herself).


Beautiful bouquet from Phillip and Carrie.
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I also want to wish my BIL Ben a happy birthday today. If you're reading this, Ben, I hope your day is delightful.

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On 12/26/2009, molly said ...

What cute pajamas!! They look very comfy!

Soup sounds wonderful, nice that you have enough to freeze. We had chopped beef barbeque from a local place for our Christmas dinner and will eat on that til its gone(we got 5 pounds). I'm having mine on a baked potato today.

Love the fabric for the Christmas quilt, I can't wait to see what you do with it!


Molly

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On 12/26/2009, Kai said ...

A girl after my own heart! I get teased ALL the time about freezing soup. Ha! But guess who laughs on an unexpected cold day when I don't REALLY want to cook & I can pull out some delicious homemade soup! Yum! And you look adorable in your cozy pjs! Sophie, what excellent taste you have. I WISH I could wear pjs but even the large lady places don't make pjs to fit ME. I have a relatively 'normal' waist size but my thighs and booty are the size of the state in which I reside. LOL! If pjs DO pull up over my thighs & hips, they fall OFF my waist. Sigh. Your other gifts are wonderful, and so are YOU! You're right, incidentally! Vann must have had a GLORIOUS Christmas celebration! Don't laugh, but when I said goodnight to you last night (did I tell you I ALWAYS say good night to you and other heart-close friends who are far away?) I also told Vann good night. Rest a bit today! You've earned it! I love you!

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On 12/26/2009, Debbie said ...

Glad you had a nice Christmas...my mother is in the same boat as you...first Christmas alone. But you can only take one day at a time, one week, one month, and so on.

I love the PJ's and am jealous of the fabric (of course...it's my addiction)!

Get some rest before the new year...and remember?...Alabama vs TX is coming up soon...Roll Tide!

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On 12/26/2009, Beverly said ...

Susan, I so happy that you had a great Christmas. And, I agree that Vann must have experienced the most amazing Christmas of all.

I received a Kindle, too. I am anxious to read more about your first attempts later. So far, I have only charged and registered mine. Baby steps. ;-)

The soup sounds delish. I will send my grandson over. That guy loves him some soup.

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On 12/26/2009, Loribelle said ...

I'm sitting here coveting your new jammies. Sophie has good taste! My soft and toasty new "lambchop" slippers from my sweet husband would look SO good with them!!
Sounds like we all had a good Christmas. Lily says hello! Love you

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On 12/26/2009, Donna said ...

Love the PJ's! Sophie has excellent taste. Sounds like you had a busy Christmas. I love your Christmas fabric too and can't wait to see what you make.
Blessings and Hugs,
Donna

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On 12/26/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

What wonderful gifts were chosen for you by those who love you! The pjs are too cute, the Kindle is choice, the fabrics are perfect, the Quantum Mechanics set is right up your alley, the necklace Buffy made (well done!!) is up another of your alleys, and the flowers are garden grown love!

Hang in there for the last two holiday season events. You can do it. Remember that water-proof mascara is your friend.

We freeze soup here, too. It just makes good sense: no wasted food and convenient quick suppers in the future.

Happy Birthday Ben!

Hugs!

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On 12/26/2009, Carol said ...

I love your new PJ's...Sophie did a wonderful job. Enjoy your Kindle...I'll be waiting to hear if it's easy...

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On 12/26/2009, Jan said ...

My sister has had a Kindle since they first came out. She takes it everywhere with her and loves it! I made her a little book cover for it from the Moda Bake Shop pattern at the site below. Quick and easy to make--I used only 3 fabrics, so you can adjust the strip colors to suit what you like! Happy reading! Jan

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On 12/26/2009, Daisy Cottage said ...

Dear Susan,

Thinking of you and wanting you to know that my heart and my prayers have been with you .... Merry Christmas and may the New Year bring you much love and joy and of course an abundance of blessings. You are so deserving.

Love,
Kim

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On 12/26/2009, Jan said ...

oops! Here's the site for the Kindle book cover! Jan

http://www.modabakeshop.com/2009/05/bookkeeper.html#more

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On 12/26/2009, YTS Mom said ...

OMG!!! Where did those squirrel pjs come from? I simply MUST have a pair. I loove squirrels. Glad you had a wonderful Christmas, even though sad.

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On 12/26/2009, valerie said ...

I have thought of you over the holidays. My sister lost her husband last Christmas so I know this was sad for her too. I pray for you both. I have to know about that necklace. Will she share how she made that? And the soup recipes? Wow. I would love to have them. And forgive me but what is a kindle?? I wish for ou so many blessings this upcoming year.

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On 12/27/2009, Laurie said ...

What lovely gifts! I'd like some of those pjs myself!

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On 12/29/2009, Dandelion Quilts said ...

That soup sounds delicious. Those jammies are darling. And you're right, what a celebration Vann must have had. My grandma (from my dad's side) died a few Christmas Eve's ago. And that is what dad and I said, what a day to arrive in Heaven, on Jesus's birthday. What a marvelous day.
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Stitches of Love

Mary Stevens estimates she's made about 700 personalized quilts for child cancer patients since she began in 1996, when her then-4-year-old son was diagnosed with leukemia.

Mary signs all her hand-sewn works of art the same way: She writes her initials inside a tiny heart that appears in a corner, where it’s easily overlooked.

Virtual anonymity doesn’t bother the 47-year-old Canton resident at all. She doesn’t need to see or meet the strangers who unexpectedly receive one of her exquisite quilts.

“I know all about their journey,” Stevens said quietly.

Stevens makes quilts for newly diagnosed young patients of the Aflac Cancer Center of Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta. Cheerful quilts whipped up in shades of pink, yellow and green, their surfaces sprinkled with puppy dogs, skateboards or flowers.

One-of-a-kind quilts personalized for Ashley or Brody or whatever other names the hospital’s nurses and social workers pass along to her on a regular basis. Cozy quilts designed to make treatment rooms feel less chilly and the overall circumstances not quite as scary.

While her son, Michael, endured long hours of chemotherapy, Mary tried to keep herself calm by stitching a quilt covered with ladybugs and strawberries.

She overheard another 4-year-old patient named Carly tell her mother, “I want one of those.”

 “When I finished, I gave it to her,” said Stevens, who works in the lunchroom at Nicholson Elementary School in Marietta and learned quilting from the grandmother of her husband, Terry. “And that’s how it started.”

Michael is 17 and in remission now. Most mornings, Stevens drops him off at Kell High School, then quilts in the Nicholson library until her workday begins. She pays for all the materials herself, which eat up her entire paycheck most weeks.

For patient confidentiality reasons, the nurses tell her only the first names and ages of the youngsters who’ll end up cuddling in her quilts. Recently, though, she became reacquainted with Carly at a social gathering.

Now a teenager, Carly didn’t recall their long ago meeting in the hospital. She still had the ladybug quilt that started it all, although that wasn’t what had Stevens so quietly elated.

“I never knew what happened to her until I saw her again last year,” Stevens said. “I was relieved. I knew she had made it.”

Excerpted from an article by  Jill Vejnoska, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

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On 12/25/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

Happy Christmas Susan.
Thankyou for sharing the story of Mary Stevens another of our angels on earth. Its amazing how many lives 1 person can quietly touch.
No white Christmas in this part of Canada, only rain to come later.
Hugs Ruth

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On 12/25/2009, Donna said ...

We never know who lives we may touch. Love the story. I hope you have a good day.
Blessings

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On 12/25/2009, Sandy said ...

The spirit of Christmas every day. How nice. We can all learn a lesson from this story.

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On 12/25/2009, molly said ...

Merry Christmas Susan, what a wonderful gift of a story of a gifter! LOVE it!! Hope you have a relaxing, love-filled day today.

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On 12/25/2009, Debbie said ...

Most quilters I know have big hearts and this was just one more example. Thanks for the story. I hope you're having a good day!

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On 12/25/2009, Linda said ...

Thank you for this inspiring story!
Blessed Christmas, Susan.

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On 12/25/2009, Kai said ...

THAT is the meaning of Christmas. Love given freely and unselfishly. Kindness shown to strangers. It's the beginning to peace on earth. If everyone could do just a LITTLE to add to this world's joy, there WOULD be peace because no one would have time to contemplate war. Thank you for a beautiful reminder. Merry Christmas, dear friend! I love you!

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On 12/25/2009, Whidbey Woman said ...

Someone makes quilts and donates them to the local cancer center. My husband got to pick out one... he chose blue, his favorite color. Nice post. Thanks for sharing!

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On 12/25/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Merry Christmas, Susan!

Hope your day has been rich in love.

Thanks for the story your posted. It is inspiring in the simple step to make a positive difference that Ms. Stevens chose and chooses to take. Her quilts sing!

Hugs!

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On 12/25/2009, Jan said ...

What a wonderful story Susan and God Bless you for sharing it at the most perfect time! It truly warmed my heart :) Merry Christmas my dear :)

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On 12/25/2009, valerie said ...

This is such a gift of love. I admire her so much. Thank you for sharing this.

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On 12/25/2009, Arlette said ...

Mele Kalikimaka, Susan! I hope you and Sophie had a beautiful Christmas.
Aloha!
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Too Pooped to Pop

I spent the morning working at a local food pantry, packing and distributing food to some wonderful people. God blessed me with the ability to help with this ministry and afterward to grocery shop. But that was it. I didn't even have enough spunk left to put my groceries away when I got home. I've been on the couch ever since, except for taking Sophie out a couple of times and answering the door for several neighbors who came bearing gifts. 

Thanks, Ashleigh, for the banana nut bread, Brad for the pound cake, and my dear young friend Alex for the lovely Christmas tea towel. I can't believe the love that my neighbors are showing me this Christmas. Well, of course I can believe it. What am I saying? That's the kind of people they all are. I'm so blessed to live in this neighborhood.

Anyway, I promised I would get the pillowcase pattern out, scan it, and send it to some of you. But that's not going to happen tonight. I'll try to do it first thing in the morning before I use all my spoons* straightening up the house and getting ready for Soup Night tomorrow night.

*Christine Miserandino, author of "The Spoon Theory," suffers from lupus. Her essay contains an excellent analogy for explaining to a healthy person what it's like to have a chronic illness. Many of us with Fibromyalgia/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome have adopted her spoon theory as our own to explain to our friends and family that while we might look hale and hearty, we can actually feel like crap. If you click on my link in the paragraph above, you can read all about Christine spoon theory. Maybe it applies to some of you as well.

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On 12/23/2009, jeanne said ...

You earned a rest with all you have done. A very sweet post with the lovely gifts that are so meaningful from those you love.
May Peace be your gift at Christmas and your blessing all year through!
Christmas love, Jeanne

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On 12/23/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Thanks, Susan. I had never heard of the spoon analogy and it is so apt. I was diagnosed with lupus 10 years ago after 2 years of fatigue. I had a full time job as a surgical nurse and two teen sons. I stopped going to church because I was too tired to get there.

I am fortunate in the my lupus isn't too bad, but I have the misfortune of no longer being able to work. I'm sick too often or too tired and quickly use up my allotted absence periods. I miss being a nurse so very much.

Hope you're feeling more rested and have some of your spoons back!

Hugs!

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On 12/23/2009, Pokey said ...

Another lesson learned, from you to me, Susan. A very good spoon article, and I plan to share it w/ my dear MIL, who has Fibromyalgia, also.
A very blessed Christmas to you and sweet little Sophie. love, pokey

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On 12/24/2009, Deb said ...

Susan, hoping you are feeling a bit more chiper soon. Christmas is going to be hard for you understandably. No-one will be expecting you to jump hoops. Go with the flow and treasure your memories past.
Am sending kiwi love
hugs Deb

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On 12/24/2009, Lynette said ...

I am a great believer in the Spoon Theory, it is a very good ananlogy for those who don't understand our fatigue. Hope you have a happy Christmas and all the best for 2010.

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On 12/24/2009, Beverly said ...

Susan, you are a trooper. Good for you.

I am familiar with the spoon theory, and it is a good one. Unfortunately, we seem to have a predisposition to lupus run in our family. And, I have a dear cousin with fibro, too.

Keep heart, dear friend. I saw a cardinal this morning.

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On 12/24/2009, DarLie said ...

Hang in there dear one. I too have a chronic illness and some days can't even make it to bed so I sleep on the couch all night. Keep on keep'in on. Your blog is lovely and a ministry in itself.
LiBBy BuTTons

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On 12/24/2009, Jan said ...

Tk you so much for sharing the "Spoon Theory" Susan! I had never heard it before and plan on sharing it w/my Husband, Gene. He suffers terribly from severe multi-level spinal stenosis and and he spends the majority of his days in his adjustable bed. I don't think anyone understands the pain and agony that he has endured for almost 5 years. It also tells the story of our Daughter's life. She lived w/very few spoons for 23 long years and I so wish she had had the opportunity to read about the spoons!

Please know that you are in my prayers and I hope that knowing that Vann will be experiencing the greatest celebraton of all brings peace to your heart and warmth to your soul.

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On 12/24/2009, Kai said ...

Just look at you, Susan! Here YOU are going through so much this year, yet you take the time to share this with all of us who either HAVE chronic illnesses (you know I have Lupus and Fibro) or those who may not understand how much stamina and determination it takes us just to get through the day sometimes. Then you turn around and help out at a food pantry AFTER making pillowcases the night before, and go to the store to get items for your soup party. You are such a good person; such a loving, caring friend. How could your friends & neighbors NOT show you the same love you always show US? I hope so much that you KNOW I would do anything in the world for you. And I don't EVER offer unless I mean what I am offering. I love you, Susan, and am sending you hugs and smiles! Some are for Miss Sophie as well, of course!

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On 12/24/2009, Kelly Ann said ...

Susan...my wish for you this Christmas is a box of extra spoons...hugs to you and Sophie.

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On 12/24/2009, Nancy said ...

Susan, you have such a wonderful spirit. To make time for those that need a little extra kindness and help, especially this time of year. You truly are a special soul and in spite of everything, you are keeping the Spirit of Christmas alive and well with your actions. I completely understand the groceries not being put away and leaving other things undone in order to rest. It is so hard to make myself get up and moving sometimes and there are days that I don't make it. (Like today) I was going to go with hubby to a doctors appt, then make the 40-50 mile drive to see our youngest grandchildren (9 and 10) and our oldest daughter and take some things to them. But, I have a mean chest cold and with my Scleroderma, Sjogrens Syndrome and Neuropathy, the cold was the clincher. I just can't make the short trip and wouldn't anyway because I don't want to spread germs along with good cheer. I'm a huge fan of the 'spoon theory' too. It doesn't always work but I find that is when I just don't put my heart into it. 'Operator Error' so to speak, LOL. I do hope you are feeling better very soon. Have a wonderful Christmas Susan. My thoughts and prayers are with you this holiday season as I am certain it hurts your heart at times, yet you still set such a wonderful example for all of us. Gentle hugs and God Bless. (I'll keep the germs here at this end.) Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going back to bed, LOL.

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On 12/24/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas, Susan. I wish I could pass on a few of my "spare spoons".
Ruth

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On 12/24/2009, Phyl said ...

Wow! Thanks so very much for the "Spoon Theory".....I cannot wait to share it with friends here who tell me I look "just fine" or "not sick at all!!!" when I can hardly put one foot in front of the other. They don't realize we who are on chemo or other meds for chronic conditions suffer in dozens of little ways they take for granted EVERY single day! You save your spoons, now, you hear?!!
As for me: I've been leaving LOTS of my spoons in the drawer and not pushing myself for a good while now; and you know what? It works out just fine! Those who love us understand, and the others we don't need anyhow!Keep on resting, dear Susan! You inspire us once again.......

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On 12/24/2009, Lori in SD said ...

Boy, do I understand the spoon theory!! Sometimes I have enough spoons, sometimes I don't! I find I had to scale back my list, I usually get about half of what I put on it done. But I try to find time for the important things, like neighbor presents. Cookies.

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On 12/27/2009, Kathy said ...

Thank you Susan. I have struggled with how to explain to others just what I am going through. This is perfect. I have already passed it on to a few dear friends. I suffer from connected muscle disease which is a fancy name for "we aren't sure yet." The lastest tests are pointing toward rheumatoid arthritis and lupus. UGH! I am still teaching school and don't really have the option of quitting just now as my dear husband has been unemployed for over a year now. I will keep you in my prayers. Please remember me.
Kathy

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On 12/27/2009, Laurie said ...

It's amazing all you do, Susan. I just loved the spoon story. I can really relate to it with the foot pain I've been dealing with these last few months. So much has to go by the wayside while I conserve my spoons.
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Countdown to Christmas

 

I finished the last pillowcase, and Sophie and I delivered them to our little buddies. They weren't home, so we left the bag hanging on the inside of the storm door. 

Then we went for a long walk, and now even Sophie is tired. And I'm really really tired. I'm going to take a bit of a siesta, then I hope I feel up to baking cookies this afternoon. Tomorrow I have to clean house and go to the grocery store for soup makings for Christmas Eve.

I want to thank everyone who has sent me goodies and cards and Santas in the mail. I might not get around to personally thanking everyone right away, but you will eventually hear from me. Just know that every time Shane (my mailman) shows up with a new package or two, I'm just like a kid on Christmas morning. Sophie gets into the act too, and we usually have paper and boxes everywhere when we're finished. Thank you all, my dear friends. Your thoughtfulness is very appreciated.

Below are some more pics of the pillowcases. And after them, some photos of the Cardinal Tree, which I guess is finished. I never have hung the little red balls, but I'm not counting on them at this point.

 

   





   





   

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On 12/22/2009, Dianne said ...

those pillow cases are so cute! love them!

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On 12/22/2009, Allyson in Alaska said ...

I really like your cardinal tree. I Just bought two cardinals this year - my first two to add to my christmas decorations. I really like them. I could see how a collection might start.

Your christmas pillowcases are very cute! Is that ribbon on the trim or is it fabric? Very cute. I am sure they will be enjoyed immensely. Enjoy your nap this afternoon!

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On 12/22/2009, Courtney Short-Prudhomme said ...

i spy a little red bird that used to live at my house :-) Well he was detained here temporarily :-) He looks perfect with your tree!!

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On 12/22/2009, Thelma said ...

That quilt, have you blogged about that red and cream quilt on the wall! I love it! What is its name?

Beautiful pillowcases, I imagine they will be sleeping on them Christmas Eve!

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On 12/22/2009, Mary Flynn said ...

I found your blog by chance today and enjoyed seeing the pillowcases...they are perfect for Christmas eve dreaming! I scrolled down and also read the cat story too...amazing! Absolutely amazing!

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On 12/22/2009, Gayle said ...

I love your pillowcases. I love to make these for kiddos (and grown ups) too! These are spectacular. I especially like the main fabric...I've never seen it before...beautiful!

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On 12/22/2009, Pat said ...

Here's wishing you a very sweet Christmas among frinds, family and woderful mementos you've received - and the memories of those given. God bless you.

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On 12/22/2009, Debra said ...

What great retro looking Christmas fabric. You are a trooper to have done those for the kids.

I am always crazy about birds so your cardinal tree looks like it should stay up all year to me!

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On 12/22/2009, SewCalGal said ...

What a great gift idea for Christmas. I love them. Great fabric. You did a fantastic job.

Hymm. I wonder if I have time to make some for Christmas gifts?

SewCalGal
www.sewcalgal.blogspot.com

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On 12/22/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

The pillow cases are so cute! What set of instructions did you use?

Love the cardinal tree and all of it's wonderful adornments and ornaments. I see the little tile I sent with 2 cardinals and a shining little crystal that used to be part of my beloved chandelier. Feel the love!

Hope you feel rejuvenated by that nap!

Hugs!

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On 12/22/2009, AwtemNymf said ...

I, too, am in love with your pillow cases! I wonder what pattern you used too! Do tell! :) The fabric selections are awesome! Just perfect!
I would sleep on that all year long *winks*
ps- Shane will have to give you a box from this lil' fae :) if you haven't gotten it yet- you should any minute!
Hugs to Sophie and YOU! I love the mushy house and lil' cardinal i sent ya- i spy it too! HUGS!!!

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On 12/22/2009, Carol said ...

Oh your little neighbors are going to be just thrilled. Sleeping on those Christmas Eve will be so much fun for them. Love your cardinals.

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On 12/22/2009, Kai said ...

You are NOT going to believe this, but I - the non-sewing goofball - want to MAKE some of those pillowcases. Please - is there a pattern or did you 'wing' it? I LOVE them and I can imagine making LOADS in different fabrics. You did such a beautiful job (as ALWAYS)& I know the children will be thrilled. And your Cardinal tree? So pretty! You and Ms. Sophie get some rest now. I just love you BUNCHES!

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On 12/22/2009, Linda J.W. said ...

Well you know I love your Cardinal tree.I
have this thing now when i go shopping i am
always on the look out for our Cardinals.
The children will have sweet dreams with their new pillowcases,you are Such a special
lady.
HUGS ALWAYS
Linda W.

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On 12/23/2009, Beverly said ...

Susan, they turned out so great. I know they will love them. My grandson had a favorite red pillowcase, and he used it until it came apart in shreds. Finding a replacement wasn't easy.

Your cardinal tree is so pretty and so special. Every time I see a cardinal, I think of you.

Take care, dear friend. I know you must feel Vann's presence during your days.

Enjoy your time with your family.

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On 12/23/2009, Rae Ann said ...

Your pillow cases are beautiful. I know they will love them. I love all of your red birds! Have a Merry Christmas!

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On 12/23/2009, Inese said ...

Those pillowcases are wonderful. I love the Santa fabric. I have also just started collecting cardinal ornaments. Such a pretty bird. You didn't mention anything about the gorgeous quilt in the background! What is the pattern, please?

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On 12/23/2009, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

Those pillow cases are TOO CUTE! I love the Christmas fabric you used! And, that cardinal tree is really pretty!

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On 12/24/2009, Dandelion Quilts said ...

Aren't those pillowcases darling?? It was so good of you to work at the kitchen today, too. Susan, you are such a kind person. I hope you recover and have some blessings of your own this holiday season. You are in my thoughts.

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On 12/27/2009, Debby Pucci said ...

Wow, you are a busy lady. Love all the Cardinals, I grew up in Illinois. Thanks for stopping over at my blog. Happy New Year.
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Busy Day

 

I feel like I've accomplished lots today. I baked a rum cake and delivered it to my friend and neighbor Maria. I finished three pillow cases and almost finished a fourth. I'll finish it in the morning.

The pillow cases for for my little friends and neighbors Sissy, Sam, Andrew, and Jonathan who live around the corner from me. Last night they came with their mom and dad to deliver a giant platter of home baked bread, cookies, candies, etc., to me. (See photo above.) The oldest, Jonathan, is about 8 or 9, I think. Their mom, Becky, homeschools all four of them. She was admiring some of my quilts, and she made the comment, "I don't have the patience to do that." I said, "Becky, you're a homeschooling mom of four little kids. Don't talk to me about patience."

They are the sweetest family, and I love them every one. They really know what the word "neighbor" means. And they are good ones.

I'll photograph the pillowcases that I'm making for the kids tomorrow after the last one is finished. I'm too tired right now to do anything else except snuggle up and on the couch and listen to Sophie bark at joggers and kids playing soccer outside.

Hope everyone has a pleasant evening.

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On 12/21/2009, Courtney Short-Prudhomme said ...

that's awesome.. such lovely neighbors.. aren't we homeschoolers the best :-) I love homeschooling b/c we can teach our children to be cheerful givers like that family is.. having them at home helps that .. although you can do the same even if they go to public school.. anyway.. that's sweet of you to do the pillow cases.. I can't wait to see them.. I want to do some pillow cases for my daughter.. but that may have to wait for her bday..

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On 12/21/2009, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

My goodness -- you've been busy! Your treats look yummy. Can't wait to see the pillow cases you made -- and I'd say some rest is in order after all of that!!

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On 12/21/2009, Joyce said ...

Whew! Susan you make me tired! Think I'm gonna have to crawl into my recliner under a blanket.

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On 12/21/2009, Thelma said ...

I wave at my neighbors when we meet in our cars but that's it. I grew up in a wonderful neighborhood where folks brought food over when someone died, kids played outside until dark, and Christmas platters of wonderful goodies were exchanged. Not here, not now, I miss it.

Enjoy those goodies!

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On 12/21/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

You have been busy!

I wore myself out trekking through the snow several times today. The street is clear but the long driveway still has about 8" and some ice. It was 17*F this morning. Brrrrrrrrrrr!

It's the Winter Solstice: 1st day of winter, the shortest day, and longest night of the year.

Sweet dreams!

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On 12/22/2009, Thearica Burroughs said ...

I have been busy baking too! 11 fruitcakes so far...5 bundt and 6 medium loaves. The postal workers at our nearby post office call me their job security. I host a lot of swaps and get lots of mail as well as mail out tons. They work so hard for me that I always take over a bundt cake each year. I went in yesterday to mail out 11 boxes and they were talking about banana pudding...When I opened their cake to show it they immediately started saying that the banana pudding was going to lose out! :)

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On 12/22/2009, Ann said ...

Dear Susan,

Greetings from Central Maine! I'm glad you're keeping busy. I made pillowcases last year for my best friend--not this year, though. Making gingerbread whoopie pies instead.

I heard a poem called "Going To Bed" on NPR's "The Writers' Almanac" the other day. I think you might like it. This is the link: http://writersalmanac.publicradio.org/index.php?date=2009/12/18. (But you can just search by title on their site).

I hope your Christmas is filled with Christ's eternal peace.

Ann

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On 12/22/2009, Kai said ...

YUM to the rum cake AND to that plate of goodies! I could dive into that head-first! What nice neighbors you have! And I'm betting that's because YOU are such a nice neighbor! Looking forward to seeing the pillowcases! I know they will be wonderful! LOVE YOU!

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On 12/29/2009, Bev said ...

We love your blog! The quilt in back of your Christmas tree is awesome! We have linked to your blog from ours. Happy New Year and cheery wave from Bev
http://44thstreetfabric.blogspot.com
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Glory in the Flower

 

What though the radiance which was once so bright Be now forever taken from my sight, Though nothing can bring back the hour  Of splendour in the grass, or glory in the flower, We will grieve not, rather find  Strength in what remains behind; ~~William Wordsworth

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On 12/20/2009, Tina said ...

Beautiful.

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On 12/20/2009, Nancy said ...

Absolutely breathtaking and the words are also perfectly beautiful and filled with wisdom.

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On 12/20/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

How perfect in every way.

Hugs ...

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On 12/21/2009, Ginger said ...

This is beautiful, so is the picture.
God Bless and Merry Christmas,
Ginger

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On 12/21/2009, Debra said ...

It's OK to grieve. Really.

xoxoxox

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On 12/21/2009, Kai said ...

Strangely enough, until THIS YEAR I've never liked poinsettias! For some reason, this year I've started finding them pretty. Gee, it took me only 59 years. LOL! Wordsworth's writings are still VERY timely, aren't they? By the way, re: your previous post - I LOVE Josh Groban AND that song. I just couldn't comment because - sentimental goof that I am - I always disintegrate in tears when I hear it.

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On 12/21/2009, Beverly said ...

This made me cry. God bless you, dear Susan.

May all of your sweet memories be like splendour in the grass.

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On 12/21/2009, Gayle said ...

Absolutely Lovely

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On 12/22/2009, Philippine flowers said ...

OH! those flowers was so lovely! Wish I can also have a healthy garden like that. Anyway, thanks for sharing this post. I was inspired by this post.

♥fern♥

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On 12/22/2009, Kerrie said ...

I loved the poinsettas and I love Josh Grobin's You Raise me up! Kerrie

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On 01/19/2010, Term Paper said ...

These flower's are attractive and natural.And your article like a poetry.If you will read this song Lyrics.
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He Raised Me Up

 For more inspiration go to Spiritual Sundays. Happy Christmas Sunday, everyone.

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On 12/20/2009, Diva Kreszl said ...

I love Josh Groban...what a voice! Had to laugh at your 'Cat' tale!!!

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On 12/20/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Amen, sistah!

I came across this quote:
"This place where you are right now
God circled on a map for you."
- from "The Subject Tonight is Love: 60 Wild and Sweet Poems of Hafiz", translated by Daniel Ladinsky, p. 12

Happy Christmas Sunday to you!

Hugs!

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On 12/20/2009, Cathy said ...

Oh..Thank you for sharing this Beautiful Song!!! He has raised me up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hallelujah!

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On 12/20/2009, Yoli ~ Apron Senorita said ...

I love Josh Gorban. His music is captivating. I wish you a blessed Christmas. May the the love of Jesus Christ be your gift.

Merry Christmas,
Yoli :)

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On 12/20/2009, Beverly said ...

It just doesn't get any better than this.

Thank you, Susan.

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On 12/20/2009, Debra said ...

As we head into the home stretch of Christmas, know that I'll be thinking of you.

xoxoxo

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On 12/20/2009, Denise said ...

I love this song so much.

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On 12/20/2009, Rian said ...

Such sweet voices. I was kind of hoping the kids would break into a rousing gospel, but it was still lovely.

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On 12/20/2009, Charlotte said ...

Looks like everybody loves Josh Groban. I know I do and this is one of my favorite songs of his. Thank you for sharing and have a wonderful Merry Christmas.
Charlotte
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The Cat Came Back

 I have to get this down before I decide I'm just making it up. And I'm not. Just ask Sophie. She'll bear witness.

A few days ago, Sophie and I were enjoying a walk around the neighborhood. About half-way down our street, Sophie ran under a neighbor's front deck and started barking loudly. It was her cat bark; I know it well. So I followed her, admonishing her to leave the kitty cat alone. When I got to Sophie, however, I found that the cat wasn't a bit bothered by Sophie's barking. The cat was dead. The cat was not asleep, the cat was not playing possum. The cat was dead. DEAD! He lay stretched out in a dead-cat position with his eyes half open. Sophie was barking right in his face as loud as she has ever barked. The cat didn't move a whisker. The cat was dead.

I pulled Sophie away and came home, very sad that such a pretty kitty had died of no apparent cause. He had not a mark on him that I could see. I was so upset, I even mentioned the episode on my Facebook page.

This afternoon, about an hour ago, Sophie and I walked by the same house. The same cat, the cat that was quite obviously dead a few days ago was lying on the porch as alive as he could be. Now, don't laugh at me. I'm serious. The cat was dead three days ago. Today, the cat isn't dead anymore. 

Yes it's the same cat. Only two cats live at that house. A scruffy little black fluffy one and the bigger one that died, which looks like a siamese only with long fluffy hair. Sort of like that spooky-eyed cat in the photo above. They were both there when the big one was dead, and they were both there today on the porch when the dead one was alive.

I've heard of cats returning from the dead; but I've never seen one. My mama even told a story about when she was a child and she found her cat dead. She buried it in the garden, and the next morning, she said, the cat was sitting on the back porch washing the garden dirt out of it's fur.

I don't think I ever completely believed Mama's cat resurrection story, and for that I'm sorry. Now I know that a cat really does have more than one life, maybe even nine of them for all I know. Either that, or there's one foxy feline down the street that's an excellent actor with the ability to lie perfectly still and stiff in the face of a loudly barking schnoodle.

Below is a little ditty that we used to sing when we were kids, my sister and I. I don't remember where or when we first heard it. It's apropos of the situation that Sophie and I find ourselves in, vis-a-vis the dead cat that isn't dead anymore. The lyrics are a bit gruesome. Reader discretion is advised. It's called:

 "The Cat Came Back."

Now old Mr. Johnson had troubles of his own,

He had a yellow cat that wouldn't leave his home,

He tried and he tried to get that cat away,

Gave it to a man going far away.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

Now the man around the corner swore he'd kill the cat on sight,

He loaded up his shotgun with nails and dynamites,

He waited and he waited for the cat to come around,

Ninety-seven pieces of the man is all they found.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

Gave it to a little boy with a dollar note,

Told him to take it up the river in a boat,

They tied a rope around its neck; it must've weighed a pound,

Now they drag the river for the little boy that drowned.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

Gave it to man going up in a balloon,

Told him to take it to the man on the Moon,

The balloon came down about 90 miles away,

Where the man is now, I dare not say.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

They gave it to a man going way out west,

Told him to take it to the one he loved the best,

First, the train hit the curve, then it jumped the rail.

Not a soul was left behind to tell the gruesome tale.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away, away, away, away.

Away across the ocean he did send the cat at last,

Vessel out alone today taking water fast,

People all began to pray the boat began to toss,

A great big gust of wind came by and every soul was lost.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

On a telegraph wire, sparrows sitting in a bunch,

The cat was feeling hungry, thought she’d like them for a lunch,

Climbed softly up the pole, and when he reached the top,

Put his foot in the electric wire, which tied him in a knot.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought he was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away.

Now the cat was a possessor of a family of a own,

With seven little kittens and along came a cyclone,

Blew the houses all apart and tossed the cat around,

The air was full of kittens and not a one was found.

But the cat came back, the very next day,

The cat came back, they thought she was a goner,

But the cat came back, he just wouldn't stay away, away, away, away,

Just wouldn't stay away. 

 
 
 

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On 12/18/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

Great story. Garrison Keillor has this song on his recording of cat songs; can't remember if the lyrics are exactly the same. Having a cat in my family I know for certain that they do have many lives.
Ruth

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On 12/18/2009, Andy said ...

I saw this cat you speak of last night when I was coming to your house, and also when I was leaving. He was sitting pretty as he pleased in front of his house. But I didn't know it was the dead cat. I wondered of course, but I didn't know. I looked at it and said to myself, "I wonder if that is the dead cat Mama was talking about?" Hmmmm... weird. Just plain weird.

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On 12/18/2009, Nicole said ...

That cat must have been having some sort of fit, or was an ace at playing possum.
Your song reminds me of the old story "Taily-Po". The old man and his hound dogs keep going one by one to investigate the sound of something weird in the swamp. It calls out "Give me back my taily-po". (You have to say it in a really spooky voice). One by one they disappear into the swamp and are never seen again. After the creature gets the old man he calls out "Now I've got my taily-po".

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On 12/18/2009, Suze said ...

tricky feline! They are pretty crafty...

my auntie who always had a bunch of cats, called one day to say she buried the wrong cat..a cat with similar markings to one of hers had died in her yard (it was really dead)..she buried it and later noticed HER cat was still in the yard..to this day, she has no clue whos cat she buried...

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On 12/18/2009, Jan said ...

Your "dead cat story" made me LOL! We've never had cats, so I don't know much about them ... but if the little guy was indeed dead and is now alive, that is totally unreal! What a great story :) Love your Mom's quilt below and your "Sophie Block" is absolutely adorable :)

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On 12/18/2009, kayellen said ...

oh my goodness!

I even commented on facebook about that...

Funny and crazy Susan~~~

Cats are so different the dogs.

Well all and all~~~ glad to know the kitty is OK:)

Still giggling
Kay

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On 12/19/2009, Niki said ...

Oooooh, I know you're a fan of Stephen King and was wondering if you've read "Pet Sematary". This too features a cat who is brought back to life and it only gets worse from there. Don't know if you should read it now however. Wow, I'm getting creeped out just thinking about it.

By the way, I absolutely believe your story. You just can't make that stuff up (unless you're Stepen King of course).

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On 12/19/2009, Kai said ...

EEEEEEEEWWWWWWWW! Not sure if that's hysterically FUNNY (ESPECIALLY from the dead or possum-playing cat's perspective) or absolutely creeeeeepy!

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On 12/19/2009, Rian said ...

Cats have nine lives, dontcha know.

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On 12/19/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Well, the 9 lives story must have started long ago when this very thing happened, once, twice, or ... 8 times ... perhaps ...

Vedddddy eeenteresting!

Love the song lyrics!

Hugs!

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On 12/19/2009, Joanne said ...

Just hope he doesn't start turning up on your porch at night--dead or alive! I sort of wish little Darcy would come back. He's the only cat that Mo loved.

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On 12/19/2009, Sharon said ...

Ok Susan have you and Sophie been hitting the eggnog a little too hard over there?? lol
maybe the CAT was playing POSSUM?? If not it used up one life.
Merry Christmas Susan!!!
Hugs

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On 12/19/2009, Deane said ...

Wonderful story...I would guess it was having a seizure but who knows. SO funny.

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On 12/19/2009, Libby Dillard said ...

WOW!! About 2 years ago, I woke up with a bad feeling. Our cat was sleeping in my bed as usual but something was wrong. I put my hand on her and she was very still and kind of hard. I poked at her and she didnt move..I snatched her up and her head flopped over..(this is a cat who is mean and bites) I started shaking her as hard as I could and she was just limp..my heart sank...I wondered how to tell my kids..shook her really hard a few more times..she lifted her head up very slowly, shook her head a few times, jumped down and went to her food..I stayed up the rest of the night watching that cat..she was just fine!!
Libby

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On 12/20/2009, Beverly said ...

Susan, I would be rolling in the floor laughing, but I don't know if I could get back up.

Cats!!!

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On 12/20/2009, Tina said ...

Oh my goodness. DEAD CAT WALKING. That is so funny. I wonder if maybe the cat is deaf and didn't hear Miss Sophie barking. Just wondering?

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On 12/20/2009, Pat said ...

Maybe the cat had a stroke, and recovered. Funny little song - amazing what we remember from childhood! My grandmother used to sing a cat song to me - "I had the finest kitty cat..." She and I loved them.

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On 12/21/2009, Violette Severin said ...

Funny, funny poem. I am glad the cat is OK.

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On 12/23/2009, Laurie said ...

That is just so nuts!
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