Saturday, May 9, 2026

Readings

In not particular order, here are here are the books I've read in the last few weeks.

Wild Dark Shore
by Charlotte McConaghy -
One of the best books I've read in a while. Dominic Salt and his three children are caretakers of Shearwater, a tiny island between Australia and Antarctica. Their mission: to care for and protect the world’s largest seed bank, Shearwater was once full of researchers, but with climate change speeding up, sea levels rising, and the island sinking beneath the sea, the Salts are now its only inhabitants, preparing the seeds for a safe relocation. During the worst storm the island has ever seen, a woman mysteriously washes ashore, and the plot thickens.

The Frozen People
by Elly Griffiths - 
Ali Dawson and her cold case team investigate crimes so old, they're frozen—or so their inside joke goes. Nobody knows that her team has a secret: they can travel back in time to look for evidence.The latest assignment sees Ali venture back farther than they have dared before, to 1850s London to clear the name of Cain Templeton, an eccentric patron of the arts who is accused of murder. For some reason she doesn't understand, Elly gets stuck in the past. But while she trusts her team to sort things out and get her home, she continues to investigate the case for which she was sent to find evidence.

The Lost Apolthecary
by Sarah Penner - 
Hidden in the depths of eighteenth-century London, a secret apothecary shop caters to an unusual kind of clientele. Women across the city whisper of a mysterious figure named Nella who sells well-disguised poisons to use against the oppressive men in their lives. But the apothecary’s fate is jeopardized when her newest patron, a precocious twelve-year-old, makes a fatal mistake, sparking a string of consequences that echo through the centuries.

A Marriage at Sea
by Sophie Elmhirst -
In this true story, 
Maurice and Maralyn Bailey long for a different life, a life of travel and adventure. So in June 1972, the couple quits their jobs, sells their house, buys a boat, and sets sail.  For nearly a year all goes well, until deep in the Pacific, a breaching whale knocks a hole in their boat and it sinks beneath the waves. What follows is a fight to survive in the wild ocean, with little hope of rescue. Alone together for months in a tiny rubber raft, starving and exhausted, Maurice and Maralyn have to find not only ways to stay alive but ways to get along, as their marriage is put to the greatest of tests. If I ever had a desire to set sail in a small yacht in the open sea, which I don't remember ever having, this book cured that longing.

The Alchemist
by
 Paulo Coelho -This story, filled with mysticism, wisdom, and wonder, tells of an Andalusian shepherd boy named Santiago who travels on a spiritual journey from his homeland in Spain to the Egyptian desert in search of a treasure buried near the Pyramids. Along the way he meets a Gypsy woman, a man who calls himself a king, and an alchemist, all of whom point Santiago in the direction of his quest. No one knows what the treasure is, or if Santiago will be able to surmount the obstacles in his path. But what starts out as a journey to find worldly treasure turns into a discovery of his Personal Legend and the truth that the most valuable treasures are those found within. Perhaps you have read this classic. I never had until my book club picked it for our April selection. I recommend it for anyone who likes a good and adventurous parable.

Anxious People
by Fredrick Backman -
 
Looking at real estate isn’t usually a life-or-death situation, but an apartment open house becomes just that when a failed bank robber bursts in and takes a group of strangers hostage at gunpoint. Each of the captives carries a lifetime of grievances, hurts, secrets, and passions that are ready to boil over. And I challenge you to think of a more irritating and whiney bunch of people held captive by a person with a gun in their faces. 
     This is an absolutely delightful book, which might be hard to believe based on the subject matter. But I promise it produces just as much, if not more, laughter as it does gasps. And not a bad ending, considering. 

Strangers
by Belle Burden -
I opened this book and started reading, thinking that it would be somewhat of a domestic thriller. I misunderstood. Instead it's a memoir written by the granddaughter of Babe Paley, 
the iconic New York City socialite and Vogue editor. It's about a bunch of rich people with too much money and too little good sense, in my opinion. But let's stick with Ms. Burden's story detailing her marriage. 
     Belle and James have been married for 20 years when the pandemic hits. As Belle is just getting used to lockdown with James and their three children in their house on Martha's Vineyard (they also have a luxury apartment in Manhattan), the phone rings. When Belle answers, a stranger states that Belle's husband James is having and affair with his wife. Belle immediately confronts James, who cries, apologizes, swears it meant nothing and that it's over, and that he loves her deeply. Shortly thereafter James tells his wife that he isn't happy and that he's leaving, which he does. The rest if the book tells of the heartaches and intricacies of dissolving a long-time marriage of two very wealthy folks. Very well written and heart rending, but really not my kind of story.

Raising Hare
by Cloe Dalton -
 True story. 
In February 2021, political adviser and speechwriter Chloe Dalton stumbles upon a newborn hare—a leveret—that had been chased by a dog. Fearing for its life, she brings it home, only to discover how difficult it is to rear a wild hare. Through trial and error, she learns to feed and care for the leveret intending to return it to the wilderness. Instead, it becomes her constant companion, wandering the fields and woods of the English countryside at night and returning to Dalton’s house by day. Though Dalton feared that the hare would be preyed upon by foxes, weasels, feral cats, raptors, or even people, she never tried to restrict it to the house. Each time the hare leaves, Chloe knows she may never see it again. Yet she also understands that to confine it would be its own kind of death. I worried constantly about the hare while reading this book, which was the only thing that kept me from enjoying the read fully.

Sleepers
by Lorenzo Carcaterra -
Another one based on a true story. This book, and the subsequent movie, available on Amazon Prime, tore my heart out. It's about four young boys, Michael, John, Tommy, and Shakes (the book's author), growing up in New York's Hell's Kitchen. They're good, though spirited, boys. To escape their troubling home lives, the four spend their days with each other, unsupervised on the streets of the Kitchen, looking for new ways to entertain themselves. One stupid stunt is all it takes to alter their lives for the worst and cause them to be locked away for years in the nightmare of the Wilkinson Home for Boys. There they suffer beating, torture, starvation, sexual abuse, and loneliness. Actually just about every horror that could be bestowed upon them was.
     The last half of the book deals with what happens to them years later after they are released from the home. Two of them, Tommy and John, join a gang and get into even more severe trouble. When they are arrested for murder, The other two, one a lawyer and one a newspaper worker, join forces to help their friends, assisted by a local priest, Father Bobby, who has been friends of the four since their boyhood. 
     If you're one of those people I've encountered lately who don't believe people who mistreat and abuse children should pay for their deeds, read this book or watch the excellent movie. You might change your mind. You might not agree with the events in the last part of the story. Truthfully, I don't know how I feel about it, but I do recognize a certainly kind of long withheld justice at work.

Brother
 by Ania Alborn
Deep in the West Virginia wilderness stands a crooked old farmhouse miles from any road or town. The strange members of the family within keep to themselves. When girls go missing off the side of the highway, the cops don’t even visit them. Which is a good thing, seeing as to what’s buried in the Morrows’ backyard. But nineteen-year-old Michael Morrow isn’t like the rest of his family. He doesn’t take pleasure in the screams that echo through the trees. Michael craves a normal life. He  and his domineering brother Rebel meet two girls in the town 20 miles from their home and begin to visit them regularly. Here the story gets more and more horrible. I can't recommend this book; it's just too disturbing. Although I have always loved scary books and movies, the violence and depravity are too much for even me. I did finish it, however. I had to keep reading to find out what happened to this monstrous family.

And that's all, folks.

Tuesday, April 28, 2026

Just a Note


 I just want to check in to let any readers I have left know that I'm not dead. I have just felt so lousy lately. The pain has been horrendous. Walking is more difficult than ever. I'm hoping the warmer weather will help matters. I hate hot, humid weather. But maybe it will be a blessing this year. Not today, however. I woke up to dark skies and thunder. Rain since then. The pain in my back, hips, and legs is horrible.

I did finally get all the credit/debit card matter sorted out. In fact, somehow I came out of it with an extra debit card account, which is helpful. I gave one to Jesse to use when I call him at work to stop by the store and pick up things. Now we don't have to switch the one card back and forth.

I have read several books since my last post. I'll try to get back soon to list them.

I haven't done a bit of sewing or quilting in weeks though. Sitting at the sewing machine is more than I can face right now. I have lots of plans for such time as I feel like implementing them. but that won't be today. 

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

The Trouble With Plastic


 "I've been hacked."

In the past couple of weeks, it has come to my attention just how addicted we are to our little plastic cards. Now unlike some folks, I don't have a wallet full of the things, just two, a credit card and a debit card. That is to say, I used to have two. At the present time I have no valid plastic.

Let me explain. Some time around my birthday, my credit card was refused by Amazon. Knowing that I had no payments past due, or even due, and that I was far away from reaching my limit, I contacted the card company to see what the problem was. (Contacting the company was a whole nuther hassle, but that's a story for another day.) I was informed, probably by an AI entity, that attempted suspicious charges had necessitated blocking my credit card. My card had obviously been hacked. So I told the entity to please cancel the card and issue me another one. It said it would, and I subsequently received and email to that effect. I was told the new card would arrive in 7-10 business days. 

Yesterday being more than two weeks since that communication with no new card showing up, I went to the credit card site, clicked on "check status of new card" button, and learned that the card had supposedly been delivered. I have no idea who might now have my new credit card, but they can't use it. Because now I have cancelled that one and am supposed to received another new one in 7-10 business days.

But that's not all of the story. As I was dealing with the credit card problem, I received a call from my bank (a real person this time). She told me that they had noticed  several suspicious charges on my debit card. I pulled up my account online and sure enough, there were numerous charges that I didn't make. After a protracted phone session with the bank rep, we got all the suspicious charges flagged and I was told I would receive a new card in 7-10 business days.

Fast forward until today. I have not yet received a new debit card. I checked my online account and, lo and behold, there are more unauthorized charges. All in all, the unauthorized charges amount to several hundred dollars stolen from my account. So I called the bank. 

It was a nightmare. The poor woman (or girl, she sounded like) had a very thick foreign accent. I was able to catch about one word out of ten.* We had to go through the whole month of March again, asking me if I recognized each charge. If she told me why my card had not been cancelled and a new card issued, it was during one of those times that I didn't understand a word she said. The call was long, very long, about an hour and a half.

Anyway, I think she told me that an investigation would begin and I would get a refund. I should also receive a new debit card within, you guessed it, seven to ten business days.

So now I'm without plastic--no credit card, no debit card. I had to write a check at the grocery store yesterday. I'm glad I remembered how. But I'm sure I'll have my bright and shiny new cards in about seven to ten business days. But, just in case, I might better order some more checks.

*Note: I have no negative feelings nor bigotry about the woman's accent. I mentioned it only to point out the nightmare this long long call was. I hate talking on the phone anyway. The woman on the first bank call had an accent too, but it was something like Brooklyn. She was also hard to understand but no so much as the one today.

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

Monday, March 16, 2026

St. Paddy's Eve

 


Tornado watch yesterday; snow today. Weird huh? But the temp is holding around 34 degrees, so the white stuff won't stay long. That makes most people around here happy. Me? I'd like to see several inches. for several days.

We celebrating St. Patrick's Day after services at church yesterday. As usual, the folks outdid themselves with eats. For some reason, I wasn't aware of the feast and I didn't bring anything. Just as well, I guess. I don't think anything else would have fit on the table.



After church I had to stop by the grocery store for just a few items. By the time I got home, my back and legs were complaining so that I could barely walk. Had to go to bed. This chronic pain thing seems to have got much worse in the past few months. If anybody out there, anywhere in the country, knows a back doctor or pain doctor that can work miracles, send me info. I've gone through all the doctors around here, I think.



The snow has stopped now, and I can tell it's already melting. I still haven't caught up on my reading, so that's what I'll be doing for the rest of the day.

Thursday, March 12, 2026

Another Trip Around the Sun Completed


Yesterday was my birthday. Andy came and brought cake and ice cream and a goody bag containing Dolly Parton's book Coat of Many Colors and some treats. Jesse joined us and we had a s scrumptious lunch from Rusty's BBQ, one of our favorite local eateries. 

After lunch we watched "Good Will Hunting," a wonderful movie that I can't believe I haven't seen in all these years. Robin Williams, Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, Casey Affleck, and Minnie Driver were just amazing. It was fun seeing them all in their younger days. Ben and Matt wrote the script. Their writing combined with the cast's superb acting make for a movie that everyone should see. I highly recommend it.

The weather here can't decide whether it wants to be spring or more winter. Yesterday, the temperature was in the 80s. Last night we had strong storms, and today it's cold (but sunny) with a brisk wind. The electricity went out early this morning and only just came back on at around 2:00 p.m. It got cold in the house, so the cats and I snugged up in bed, and I read until the electricity returned.

I think my health has returned to normal, which is not to say excellent. I still have the chronic pain in many parts of my body, especially my back. But the flu and sinus infection have left me finally.

Now I think I'll return to my reading for a little while. 

Tuesday, March 3, 2026

Seven More Months Till October


I'm already missing Autumn, so I made a Jack-o-Lantern quilt block. This is the first time I've been in the sewing room for weeks and weeks. I started it yesterday, but my hands were still shaky and my back didn't last long. I went back up today and had a little more luck. At least I finished the block. I might add a border, depending on what I decide to do with it. I have a couple of Autumn pieces started, and it might find its way into one of those.

I went to church this week for the first time since just after Christmas. It was a wonderful service with a meaningful sermon. Sister Ramey, Niece India, and I went to Cracker Barrel after church. We had a terrific lunch of fried chicken and veggies. I overdid my post-flu strength limits though.. When I got home, my back was in misery and my legs felt like rubber bands. I spent the rest of the day and night in bed. I've heard others say that it takes a long time to get your strength back after this flu. I believe it.

The flu problem is totally gone except for lack of strength, but I'm not sure about the sinus infection. I still have some facial pain and congestion. I have a couple more of the antibiotic tablets to take. When they're gone, I'll decide whether or not to go back to the doctor.

Gotta go. I have three library books due in a few days, so I have to do some speed reading.