Thursday, October 15, 2009

Gonna Chip That Stone Away

A Bdrom 2 Two more rooms to go, and the entire house will be clean and put back together. The catch is that the two remaining rooms are my sewing room and study (office). Talk about saving the worst till last!

But it does feel really good to have my entire first floor livable again.

Linda and her friend Joe came yesterday and did a lot of the heavy cleaning, scrubbed the bathrooms, cleaned the floors, dusted everything I hadn't, which was a lot.

They're back on the regular two-week schedule. I took all my blogging friends' good advice and decided I'd keep them, at least for now. Till somebody finds a cure for fibromyalgia.

Tonight is WOW Bible study night, and it's my turn, along with my friend Lori, to provide dinner. I had thought I would make beef stew, but with the fibro flaring like it is, I don't feel like doing that. So I got three large Stouffer's lasagnas and three large bags of salad, and that's what I'm fixing. Lori is going to provide bread and dessert.

More bad news yesterday. I went to my doctor last week to have my cholesterol checked. Fran in the lab called me yesterday with the news that both my cholesterol and triglycerides are up and that Dr. M wants me on Zocor. So now I have one more drug in my medicinal arsenal. I'm going to hit that insurance gap soon if this keeps up.

I have learned that stress can cause one's cholesterol to go up, and I've had plenty of that this past year. But I know that I also haven't been eating right. So I'm making a resolve today to change my diet. Lots of fruits, vegetables and whole grains. Oatmeal (hold the butter, brown sugar, and cream) or Cheerios (no honey nut, just plain) for breakfast, and much less pasta, bread, and ice cream. I'll miss the pasta, but I really like veggies and fruit, so I should be able to do it. I want to get those numbers down and get off the Zocor as soon as possible. Which might also get my blood pressure down and allow me to get off the Atenolol.

A Sophie Sophie here could probably benefit from a healthier diet too. Fewer treats at least. But that would be a neighborhood effort since almost all the neighbors keep treats for her--and she knows just who they are and where they keep them. Sometimes she even goes next door and knocks on the door because she knows Ashleigh keeps those fancy pet store treats shaped like hearts. They taste like peanut butter but don't stick to the roof of Soph's mouth. Yum yum, says the black dog.


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On 10/15/2009, Loribelle said ...

You're going to clean your sewing room? NO WAY!! ;-) I love the way Soph is laid out on the bed striking a pose!

Let's work together on that change in diet! After our chat this morning I'm feeling the same way!

Yummm...can't wait to have some of that lasagne for dinner tonight!! (tee hee)
Love you buddy!!


On 10/15/2009, Jan said ...

Your bedroom is gorgeous Susan and the quilts are stunning, as is Sophie :) I'm so glad that you chose to go back to having the housework done! It's a wonderful gift to yourself :) Hope that new meds work and the best of luck to you on that new resolve! I need to jump on that same band wagon, as my cholesterol is off the charts. I take Lipitor and I also take the Atenelol. Here's to a healthier year ahead :)


On 10/15/2009, k&c's mom said ...

You have such a cheery home! Asking God for the cure for fibro or your healing: which ever comes first.


On 10/15/2009, Pat said ...

I take Atenolol for heart rythm, have for years. My new med is for bp - diovan. As my good friend in MS says, we just put on our GBP and deal with it. Got to have bp checked soon, but it's come down some. Thank goodness for good helpers, too. My top-to-bottom house cleaning of 3 weeks ago has gone to the pits; thinking of getting my help back too. My diet could definitely use improvement! Thanks for the challenge!


On 10/15/2009, Mary said ...

Don't think I've been her for a visit in a while, but want to tell you how much I enjoy your blog very much...both what you say, and your beautiful quilts. In reading that you're changing your diet, I have read up fibromyalgia a little, and found that the best arsenal against it is diet, so glad to hear you're changing some bad habits. I'm dealing with something...perhaps kidney stones, or something else...so far, tests don't show anything, but I decided to start self medicating with proper foods, both adding healthy ones, and eliminating those that are suspect...like chocolate, sugar, which includes "white" things, like pasta...more fruits and veggies, and really important, cutting down on stress. You have had a very stressful year, and its bound to take its toll on your body, but by making changes, I really hope that you will find a stronger and healthier YOU in a very short time. Glad you're getting help with housework, too. My mom told me "you only have one body, so take care of it".

God bless,
Mary


On 10/15/2009, Pat said ...

PS That's BGP, not GBP... Anyway, I'm always reminding myself to put them on. You're doing great - keep up the great blog, great attitude; you're an inspiration to me! Sophie is beautiful, too!


On 10/15/2009, Pam said ...

Good for you keeping the cleaning ladies for a while - sometimes just getting on top of everything makes you feel so much better. When the house is a mess I always feel out of sorts as well.

That is exactly how I eat my oatmeal - butter - brown sugar and cream. I don't know if I could eat the oatmeal as just oatmeal. I think mostly I love oatmeal because I love butter, brown sugar and cream -LOL


On 10/15/2009, Nicole said ...

Your bedroom looks like a fabulous retreat. What a great feeling to have everything spic and span!
I will go right along with you and try to eat healthier. Since I have been on my own during the week I have not bothered to eat right. Chips one night, pizza another. It is not good for me!


On 10/15/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi SUsan,

Your bedroom is lovely and so tranquil! I love the quilts and that you have room for a bookcase, too. Alas, we were so taken with the woods and land here, we settled for small bedrooms and small closets and that's been hard to live with.

More power to you as you tackle the difficult rooms and the diet overhaul. You'll feel so much better on a healthier diet and as you look around your clean first floor.

I applaud your wisdom in listening to your body when is says no. Your friends in the WOW group will enjoy the lasagna, salad, dessert, and good fellowship.

Hugs, but very gentle so as not to hurt you!


On 10/15/2009, kayellen said ...

Hi Sophie!! You look so cute:)

Wow!looks great Susan!

I need to clean out my clutter too!You have inspired me...I think my closets need it the worst!This weekend I will start with mine:))
Hope I won't get swallowed up by my junk! lol

Share your scarecrows!I want to see them:))

Take Care,
Kay Ellen


On 10/15/2009, sara said ...

Good for you for making changes to your diet! Your bedroom looks fabulous and tidy, by the way. You have great furniture in there.
I'm trying to shed a few pounds and cut out excess white flours and sugars too.


On 10/15/2009, Donna said ...

Your bedroom looks so neat and comfy! I think stress upsets our entire systems. Since Amber passed away I have lost about 10 pounds. I do not want to cook things she loved because it's just too hard right now :( My two cats even miss my cooking. They love chicken and know they will have some when I cook it!
As for the medication I think we all have to take something eventually. I have a drawer full of meds I take!
Hugs,
Donna


On 10/16/2009, niki said ...

Oatmeal is the ticket. I too had the cholesterol problem and stick to oatmeal for breakfast (except for Sundays of course). I microwave it with apples, dried apricots or cranberries, whatever is on hand. It tastes great and has brought the numbers down.

Also, I wish Sophie lived next door to me. I would keep those treats for her. It would be great to have that little, black dog stop by for a visit.


On 10/16/2009, CarlaH said ...

Hi Susan, good work the house is looking good. I think that as we get older most of us seem to suffer from high blood pressure and cholesterol - I'm taking medication for both - every once in a while I try to do the diet change but after a while fall back into the same bad habits. Let's all resolve to take another stab at a healthier life style. Enjoy the results of your hard work and just think about all the goodies that are waiting to be discovered in your sewing room and office.


On 10/16/2009, Rian said ...

Soph looks like she's plotting her next move. Dogs have such wonderful facial expressions. Yesterday I had the garden hose out and Riley begged to eat the water. He just goes ape for the hose! I usually hold it down low and he can brave the stream, attacking it and biting it. But I accidentally-on-purpose squirted him (he gets wet during the game anyway) and you should have seen the looks he gave me later. He had "how could you" written all over his face!


On 10/16/2009, Lisa D. said ...

Stress? Oh no, you don't have any of *THAT* in your life! Take care of yourself Susan. Your bedroom is beautiful, by the way.


On 10/23/2009, Valerie said ...

Love this room featured above !
I should be doing like you but we are into renovation work and I'm waiting until we 're done with the current stage.
Sorry to hear about cohlesterol but yes stress can induce a significant increase. Make sure you cut on meat & eggs (egg yolk).
I've recently been diagnosed with gluten intolerance and have to give up on our oh-so-good French bread (I found gluten free pasta though) & I'll miss, but I' m sure WE can do it, can't we ?!
Take care Susan, I hope you're enjoying your quilt retreat !


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On 09/24/2010, Music_master said ...

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Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Making a Clean Sweep

Maid

"I hate housework. You make the beds, you wash the dishes and six months later you have to start all over again" --Joan Rivers

When I developed fibromyalgia several years ago, Vann and I hired sisters Linda and Sue to help me with the house cleaning. Sue was with us for only a little while before taking a full-time job. But Linda--along with various sisters, friends, nieces, and cousins--has been with us for about seven years now.

She hasn't been here to clean since Vann went into the hospital in August. With only me and Sophie to clean up after now, I was planning to tell Linda that I was going to take over all the cleaning again. But I've had to admit that I need her just as much now as ever.

I remember a time, doesn't seem so long ago, I could clean the whole house on a Saturday, upstairs and down. I'd be tired, I guess, but not incapacitated. Now I can run the vacuum and I have to lie down for the rest of the day. 

Fibromyalgia would not be the problem that it is for me if I could just give up and go to bed, like my great aunt 'Rilla did. Of course, nobody knew what fibromyalgia was back then; everyone thought she was a hypochondriacal shirker. But I suspect now she had the same problem I do, and that's why her husband had to do all the housekeeping, shopping, and cooking while Aunt 'Rilla lay in bed and read mystery novels. Mama claimed Aunt 'Rilla could rally for a dance or a singing, but I can understand my aunt's desire to hold onto some of the fun things in life, even if it hurt. I've been known to often get my act together temporarily for a quilting bee or a book club meeting. Temporarily, I say.

Like yesterday--I went to my quilt guild meeting, figuring I could handle a morning of fun and socializing. After all the initial hugs and condolences, just getting through the three-hour meeting/program was not easy. But then when I got home, I was reminded that I'd promised to bake a dessert for my Walk to Emmaus Reunion Group meeting last night. Whereas all I wanted to do was go to bed at that point, I had to walk the dogs then get in the car and drive to the store to get baking ingredients. By the time I got to the store, however, I knew that baking was not an option. So I bought a bakery pound cake, took it by my friend's house, and told her I wouldn't be able to make the meeting. Lori and Greg were coming to pick up Daisy anyway, and I needed to be here when they came.

I find I'm in a constant battle with myself. My body wants to rest, all the time. There's never a moment when I'm not hurting and tired. Not even when I first get up in the morning--especially not then. But I'm not willing to give up everything I like to do for the sake of this stupid syndrome. It isn't even a disease, just a syndrome. How silly is that?

But I guess I am willing to give up housework--at least the heavy chores. Keeping Linda on will ensure that my house doesn't become a pig stye and also leave me a bit more energy for sewing and quilting. Anyway, after seven years, Linda's like part of the family. I'd miss her if she were gone.


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On 10/13/2009, Joyce said ...

Wow, Susan. Your description of how your body feels sounds eerily familiar. I spent all day yesterday in my recliner, unable to get much rest because of the pain shooting through my legs, arms and back. I find that one days like this, I want to sleep a lot. Like you, I have been unwilling to stop doing things that I have always enjoyed. I go and do anyway. But the older I get, the less energy I have and the less motivated I become. We are having a floor to ceiling cabinet (to be used as a pantry) installed in our laundry room. In addition, we are having the doors removed from our bottom kitchen cabinets and drawers put in so that accessing items below will be easier to get to. Unfortunately we will need to paint all the new additions and the thought of that is @#*! because I know how my body will feel for days afterward. Over the past 2 weeks I have color-washed 2 rooms and I'm sure that is why I am feeling like I do now. So, you have my sympathy, friend. I understand your desire to rest. I'm agreeable with your decision..... KEEP THE CLEANING LADY!!!


On 10/13/2009, Pat said ...

Your thoughts and feelings could very well have been expressed by me! As I said, I've not been diagnosed with fibro, but feel tired so much. The weekend trip I made took everything I had to make it. I don't have a cleaning helper right now, but have had. She's moved further away and doesn't drive, but I'm thinking even once a month it would be so worth getting up earlier to go get her. I just can't go and do like I used to and I refuse to think 61 is old - yet! But I guess I'm getting there. I too used to could do the whole house in a day where it takes me a week now. But we can't give up! Just do what we can, when we can - when we feel like it - and don't leave out the things that give us joy and contentment! The dust will just come back; the time won't. Bless you.


On 10/13/2009, Joanne said ...

I love the Joan Rivers quote. That's about my speed.


On 10/13/2009, Suze said ...

Susan..
have you considered going on a low carb diet to help the fibro? I also have fibro - most of the time I don't really think about the fibro but if I stray from the low carb lifestyle, it flares up...Also, add MSM to your diet...it was like coming out from behind a dark cloud..took a couple of weeks to work its magic but when 'good' days started being more plentiful than 'bad' days, I rejoyced...
As for the cleaning lady..if I had one I liked and trusted and could afford..I would keep her too!


On 10/13/2009, Loribelle said ...

Oh pishaw! You should've told me you had dinner plans and we could've made other arrangements for the Dukester. Although she did tell me that she had a good time at your house this weekend! Greg & I collapsed on the couch when we got home - Curtis in my lap and Daisy in Greg's. Funny how we seem to have "switched" dogs! I love our furry children and missed them both very much!
Is it wrong of me to want a cleaning helper so I can spend more quality time with my awesome husband? He's a great helper but I could think of many other things I'd rather be doing with him. (You went there, didn't you? ;-P ) Love you much, L, G, C & DD


On 10/13/2009, Diane said ...

Been thinking 'bout you lately. Glad you're still making rational decisions. Give up a good cleaning assistant? Never! I wish I had one but the good ones are as scarce as hen's dentures. I can't hand over the key to my castle to just anyone. Who knows what they might move or (gasp) throw away?

I was recaulking the bathtub last night. If I do that once a year, it makes up for any of the weekly scouring I missed. I mean we just stand in there to shower, for pete's sake. It's not like we can soak in that little thing. And getting out of it afterward is a distant memory.


On 10/13/2009, Jan said ...

I really hate that you're feeling so bad Susan. We have a family member that has fibromyalgia and she suffers an awful lot from it. Chronic illnesses are so hard, and I'm so sorry about yours :(

On a happier note, your Little Happy Jack Quilt below turned out great!!! I just love it and I sure hope he's making you smile as much as he made me smile :)


On 10/13/2009, Rian said ...

Getting older, I get tired and achy all over. I thought I might have Fibromyalgia, and even asked my doctor about it. But reading your description of how it feels, I know I don't have anything that even comes close. I just get tired and achy sometimes. Life is too short to spend it doing housework if you can afford the help. Even if your house isn't that dirty, she can help you with other projects when she comes. Besides, there's nothing like having the cleaning lady come to get you off your duff to pick up stuff around the house...


On 10/13/2009, Debra Spincic said ...

I think you need someone familiar in your life right now who can come by and do miracles. Keep Linda. She's probably worth more to you than you want to admit.

I've wondered about your fibromyalgia and if it is worse when you are stressed. Be gentle. Clean houses are overrated!


On 10/13/2009, CarlaH said ...

I most definitely agree - keep the cleaning lady - she's worth her weight in gold. I had a cleaning service when we had a larger home but my husband didn't like to have strangers around so I let the service go when we moved. I don't have any health excuses for not doing my cleaning on a more regular basis (I do do it don't get me wrong) - just don't enjoy it - doing the bathrooms does wear me out though.
Do what you enjoy when you can - our health is the most important thing we have.


On 10/13/2009, Donna said ...

Keep the cleaning lady! I wish I had one. I have been going thru things in our bedroom (we had our bedroom suite painted) and I am exhausted. I found things that Amber had made and it was difficult between laughing and crying to see so many things she made us as a child.
By the way I have posted about Amber on my blog today. Let me know if you read it.
Hugs, Donna


On 10/13/2009, blop said ...

KEEP THE CLEANING LADY!! Worth her weight in gold, just to take the pressure off.
My daughter has fibro extremely bad, so she moved to AZ and loves the heat (it really helps her) and also does weekly deep tissue massage (hurts like heck) but does help.


On 10/13/2009, Diva Kreszl said ...

I am so sorry that you are struggling so with your fibromyalgia...my best friend has been battling this for several years now. I know from her experience that stress can cause major flair ups and with all you've been through lately it's not surprising how bad you're hurting. Definitely keep the cleaning help, trying to do it all will only aggrevate your situation. Keeping you in my prayers!


On 10/13/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Yep, Keep Linda! I applaud your conclusion that you still need her but wish you didn't have discomfort and fatigue as your reasons.

I'm there with you due to lupus. One hour's errand this morning to pick up my 3 little quilts from the quilter, then stood for an hour after getting home to trim the little quilts. I've been useless for the 4 hours since and have almost been to sleep in my chair. Bother!

It is annoying to the max to have to listen to your body limit what you can do or can do all in one stretch. Of course we've learned that pushing on isn't an option. For me, I'd soon feel like I'd hit a brick wall and it would take days to recover. Fortunately, cotton fabric will wait for us!

Be good to you and forgive yourself for what you cannot do anything to correct. Lord knows you're willing!

Hugs!


On 10/14/2009, Deb said ...

A fantastic decision Susan! You need to think about yourself and realise that you are number one.That is an extremely sensible choice made, don't second guess yourself at all.


On 10/14/2009, Kai said ...

Like everyone else, I am SO GLAD you opted to keep Linda! And, as you know, Lupus/fibro wears ME down, too. It just SUCKS not to be able to do all the things we used to do without giving it a single thought. But I figure it this way: I'm NOT going to let it steal all my fun! So THERE, you disagreeable old Lupus! And, HA, you nasty old fibro!


On 10/14/2009, Kai said ...

Hmmm ... I don't think your blog likes me anymore! WAAAAHHHH! I've posted comments three & four times lately that didn't go through & have had to try later. This is my third try on THIS post today. Naughty Typepad! LOL! All I said was that you know I deal with Lupus & Fibro so, like many of the others who've commented, I RELATE! I'm VERY glad you have Linda to do the cleaning so that you can do what's fun for YOU! I get frustrated at times when I find myself unable to keep up the pace I used to maintain. Then I check my grumpy self & remember I vowed NOT to let these things steal my joy! So I say, "A pox on you, Lupus! And on you as well, Fibro! Take THAT! BWAHAHAHA!" LOVE YOU, Susan! (You too, Sophie!)


On 10/14/2009, Gayle said ...

Love the quote! Take extra good care of yourself during this flare-up.


On 10/19/2009, Laurie said ...

I'm glad you're keeping Linda to help! Grieving in itself is exhausting, never mind your fibromyalgia. Spend your energy on the creative and enjoyable, right now.
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Monday, October 12, 2009

Coming Attractions

Check back later for a report from the October meeting of Birmingham Quilters Guild and also a photo of the Halloween miniquilt that I finished yesterday, thanks to Christi for sending me the pattern.
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On 10/12/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Oh, you're such a tease! I cannot wait to hear the report and to see your new little Halloween miniquilt. Well done for getting it made and finished so quickly!

Prayers and good wishes appreciated as I attempt to make a quilt for DS1 that he's waited for since ummm,,, ahhhhh ,,,, 1998. Sigh! The side center block units are like stretched flying geese and I've had a mental block about making them. Thanks!

Hugs!
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Sunday, October 11, 2009

O Captain, My Captain



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"Integrity means doing the right thing, 

even when it's not convenient."

 ~~Capt. Chelsey "Sully" Sullenberger

Neither of the fellows in the photo above is Capt. Sulley, but either one of them could have uttered that quote. My friend Tina posted the quote on her Facebook page this morning, and it reminded me so much of Vann, and also of our dear friend Paul. The photo was taken last Halloween, before we knew how sick Vann was, at the neighborhood Halloween trunk-or-treat gathering. Paul and Vann made chili. That's what's in that big pot.

I might have told you already that we have a sort of a tradition in the neighborhood that I have dubbed Happy Hour--spontaneous gatherings, usually in Paul's driveway, most evenings in good weather at twilight. Sometimes these gatherings go on into the night. Often they last only an hour or so.

Last night, Paul decided to move Happy Hour to his beautiful patio in back of his house. He had built a roaring fire in his outdoor fireplace, and he served us nachos. I brought a plate of brownies for dessert. There were about 15 neighbors and four doggies, including Sopie and Daisy, present. It was a good gathering for us all, but there was one who was very conspicuous by his absence whose presence was sorely missed: Vann. Talk frequently turned to stories of Vann. At one point Paul took me aside and told me how much Vann had meant to him and that he and Karen were still there for me and that they loved me. Another neighbor and good friend of ours had just told me the same thing a day or two ago.

I cannot write how much those assurances mean to me. I love my neighborhood, and I love my friends, the friendships Vann and I shared that I want so much to preserve. When I found out just how far the family disputes of the past month have spread, it saddened me that these precious friends had been put in the middle of a personal matter and feel that they are being asked to make choices. I hope I have assured at least some of them that no choices are required from me. I love them all, and that's all that matters.

I try to remember that I'm not the only one who lost Vann, so many people did. Each one of them grieves his passing, and not all of us handle grief the same way. Nothing he left behind--no personal property, money, nothing--is as important to me as preserving the legacy of integrity and loyalty that he spread wherever he went. I hope and pray that will become the most important thing to all of us, that rifts among family and friends will heal with the passing of time. That is Prayer No. 1 this sabbath morning.

Thank you, all my friends and neighbors, no matter how near or far, for helping me to live by the strength of my convictions.

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On 10/11/2009, Beverly said ...

There are definitely times in our lives that show us who our friends are and who truly cares about us. The numbers of those caring about you and Vann are many because you each gave so much.

I definitely believe that we reap what we sow.


On 10/11/2009, Debra Spincic said ...

I believe the same as Beverly: You reap what you sow.

You can't always pick your family but you can sure pick your friends. It sounds like you and Vann have picked well.

Sending love,
Debra


On 10/11/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

What a lovely post Susan. Vann's memory is the most important thing. You are lucky to have such dear friends who also cherish Vann's memory and all that he stood for.
Ruth


On 10/11/2009, Tina said ...

I'm honored that my post brought on such wonderful thoughts of a wonderful man. God bless you.


On 10/11/2009, CarlaH said ...

Susan, I am so glad that you have those good friends and neighbours to help you during these sad days. My brother was widowed two years ago and as much as family tried to be there for him (we're a bit far away) it was his neighbours who looked after him on a regular basis and still do - sounds a lot like your neighbourhood with impromptu get togethers. As Debra says we can pick our friends but not our families - hopefully the rift will heal with time so that the family can join together in celebrating the memory of Vann, the good father and husband that he was.


On 10/11/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi Susan,

Your stories about the neighbors gathering at Paul's driveway, then patio reminded me of our years in seminary housing (the Holy Hovel) when available adults gathered under the "coffee tree" to chat and the kids played. Outdoors was really, really larger than indoors! Where ever two or more are gathered...

I'm glad you're surrounded by God's kind of love in the faces of your neighbors. Vann is missed among you all, but you can be snug in knowing they keep him in memory, too.

Blessings and hugs!


On 10/11/2009, Pokey said ...

God bless you, Karen, for sharing your love so deeply. God will be honored. Now, where did I put my tissues? :-} pokey


On 10/11/2009, Rian said ...

That's so special. How nice to have such fine neighbors.


On 10/11/2009, Donna said ...

It is times like these that shows us who are our "real" friends. I know I have found out in the last couple of months.
Vann's legacy will live on.


On 10/11/2009, Linda J.W. said ...

My Prayers and HUGS are on your way,I have always tried to treat people the way I would wont to be treated.I always said that if I could be as half person as my Mother was I would be happy.Everyone that met her loved her she was a special Lady and that is what most of her friends called her Lady.She was a happy and loved Lady.I know that Vann was a special Man and loved
Linda W.


On 10/11/2009, Pat said ...

Sounds as though you have such a good support group - your neighbors. How wonderful to be so close and share friendships. It is difficult to wait for healing but praying it will happen...


On 10/11/2009, mandy storey said ...

Hi Susan, I am so pleased you have so many friends and support around you...Memories to share and people you can talk to to keep Vann"s memory alive...Thank you for the comments you leave me, they mean so much knowing we are on the same journey at this time...
Blessings and many prayers
Mandy


On 10/12/2009, Nicole said ...

Thoughtful post Susan. Vann left quite a legacy of character.


On 10/13/2009, Kai said ...

Seeing pictures of Vann always makes me happy because his soul shines in his eyes. AND he looks like he HAD to be the best, best hugger! I hope with all my heart that the uproar among some family members & friends will soon be settled. Either THAT, or they will EACH take some quiet moments to realize how shameful that kind of behavior is and give themselves a good shaking. I love you, Susan, and I am so glad YOU are well-grounded. Vann is smiling at you!
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Saturday, October 10, 2009

Help! Please :-)

Happyjack

UPDATE: I now have the pattern, thanks to Christi. Boy! That was fast! Ask and you shall receive, indeed--that is if you're asking God or a blogger. Thanks again Christi.

Do you have a copy of the Sept/Oct issue of Love of Quilting Magazine? I had one at one time in my life, but I can't find it now. I've looked everywhere except the place where it is, and no magazine.

I had planned to make the Happy Jack quiltlet shown in the photo for a swap. Now I can't make it. If you happen to have this magazine and have the time and equipment to scan the patterns and instructions and e-mail them to me (PDF), please let me know. Sophie and I will be eternally grateful. 


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On 10/10/2009, Christi said ...

Susan - I have it and I'm scanning/sending now. :)


On 10/10/2009, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

Do you have my e-mail, ChristI?
suscleve@aol.com

Thank you soooo much!


On 10/10/2009, Debbie said ...

A day late and a dollar short! I'm glad Christi had it for you! Loved the story about Sophie and Daisy! I went to B'ham this weekend and 'Bama Girl tried to talk me into buying a pot-belly pig...Chance would not have been happy!


On 10/10/2009, Mary said ...

That's a great quilt, and it looks like you're going to get what you need to do it...can't wait to see the end result!

God bless,
Mary


On 10/10/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Way to go, Christi!! Quilters are just the best folks!!

I look forward to seeing the photo of your little quilt, Susan.

Hugs!


On 10/10/2009, blop said ...

How nice....wouldn't mind a copy myself!


On 10/10/2009, Nicole said ...

That is just so darn cute! Be sure to show us pictures of your progress with it. I lost my Flowers For Clara pattern this last week, and just spent $12 to re-order it. Not fun.


On 10/11/2009, Beverly said ...

Susan, that is so pretty. I can't wait to see the one you create.

I am sitting here and giggling over the Sophie and Daisy story. Pets are such a gift.


On 10/11/2009, Jan said ...

I'm so glad you got the pattern :) I was ready to say I'd scan and e-mail when I got to my office on Tuesday, as our scanning system here at the house isn't working at the moment. It's a fun little something to make and I can't wait to see yours! Are you gonna get the stand too??? I'm envisioning a little something for each month of the year on mine ... of course, I've got to get 'em made first!

Loved the "doggie post" below! Wishing you a happy day :)
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Daisy and the Black Dog

Daisy and the Black Dog That's Daisy in the bottom bunk. She sometimes comes for overnights with us when her mama Lori is out of town. Recently Lori married Greg and Daisy acquired a whole new family including a schnauzer brother named Curtis.

So Lori and Greg went to Destin this weekend to visit Lori's kids, kids-in-law, and granddaugher Lily. And Daisy come to stay with me and Sophie. Curtis is, I think, with Greg's daughter.

Now this visit makes me considerably more happy than it does Sophie. Being the diva dog that she is, Sophie has a hard time tolerating another dog in the house. She pouts and fusses and has been know to give Daisy a pop upside the head, for which she gets severely scolded.

But Daisy can pretty much hold her own. She knows how to get under that black dog's fur. For instance, Daisy knows that Sophie will not eat her food or drink her water if she knows another dog has had its snoot anywhere near her bowls. So the first thing Daisy does when she gets here is to run to Sophie's bowls in the kitchen and eat and drink from them. I try to remember to put the bowls on the cabinet before Daisy arrives (and I did remember this time), but too often I forget. And Sophie can always tell.

So all through Daisy's visits I have to keep Sophie's bowls on the cabinet and Daisy's bowls on the floor. Sophie comes and tells me when she's hungry or thirsty, and I stand and watch her eat and drink, then put her bowls up again. I have to watch, because if I don't, Sophie will insist that Daisy has been in her bowls, even if she hasn't.

Daisy is a fun doggie, and smart too. She can do a little dance for a treat, and she can  roll over. But what I like most to watch her do is chase her tail. Now I've seen dogs chase their tails before, but not like Daisy. She slowly and stealthily sneaks up on her shaggy appendage, then pounces. So far, I haven't seen her catch it, but I'm still hoping.

The girls, Daisy and Sophie, and I wish you all a most pleasant weekend. We're going to work on a Halloween miniquilt.


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On 10/10/2009, Gayle said ...

I loved hearing about Ms. Daisy's visit!
:-)


On 10/10/2009, k&c's mom said ...

Please share a picture of the Halloween miniquilt!Have a good weekend.


On 10/10/2009, CarlaH said ...

Enjoy your doggy company and quilting - I declare today to be housework-free!!


On 10/10/2009, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

I'll take that declaration as law. Thanks, Carla. --Susan





On 10/10/2009, Lettie said ...

Cute post, Susan. I love hearing stories about our furry friends. I'm always amazed to hear how smart and intuitive they are. The story about her food and water dishes is so precious. That Sophie is one smart chick.


On 10/10/2009, Pokey said ...

Gotta love our pets, and our friend's pets, too.
My friend Pam has a cat named Patch. We tell time by his tummy, 8:30pm means dinner, and he sits by the fridge for you to get his can of chow out and serve it up. Now, never mind if you have to get a new can out and open it, because he will NOT eat if you don't go through the motion of opening the refrigerator and getting the can out!
Then there is our little diva dog Tori, who insists on burying her water dish!?! We cannot even put a rug on the floor near her bowl, she drags it over, and you have one wet rug and a thirsty dog. Sheesh!


On 10/10/2009, Chris P said ...

This is a hoot!! I love a dog with attitude!


On 10/10/2009, Rian said ...

But Sophie is still top dog. Physical hierarchy is important in pooch-land.


On 10/10/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Cute, cute! A doggie sleepover with bunk beds!! Leave it to the alpha pooch to figure how to still be top dog!! Our Daisy was the sweetest Basset on the planet.

Happy sewing! I'm putting borders on a 2nd LB Christmas panel - different fabrics and am listening to The Best of Peter, Paul, and Mary (sniffle), but yesterday it was Hootie and the Blowfish, so I'm not totally out of touch!

Hugs!


On 10/10/2009, Nancy said ...

What would we do without our little furry folks. LOL. Both Daisy and Sophie have style and attitude and I love it. Anyone that says dogs don't have personalitys and emotions has never owned one or at least never loved one. That chasing the tail story had me laughing so hard tears were rolling because we had a dog that did that, only he occasionally caught his tail then he would stand there, curled up like a pretzel and look at you as if asking "well, what do I do with it now that I have it?". Great post Susan...Happy quilting and have a great weekend.


On 10/10/2009, Nicole said ...

Good luck with the girls this weekend! Ozzie is home for the weekend with our Sophie, and so far so good. Last week they just about took my husband's thumb off when they got into a fight, but it's going better this week.


On 10/10/2009, Lori Jenkins said ...

Hey Suz, I hope the girls are getting along. Daisy holds her own with Curtis, too...the OTHER black dog! ;-) We had beautiful weather today in Destin. This was welcomed greatly after driving through two hours of rain on the way here last night. Greg's a trooper, though, and kept on plugging along. I am loving my time with Miss Lily. They grow up so fast!!


On 10/11/2009, Pat said ...

I was out of town this weekend as was my husband (two different directions), so Oscar went to the kennel. I don't often leave him overnight and he looked so little on his big "room." We were so glad to see each other tonight! Don't our little friends give us a lot of joy!


On 10/13/2009, Carrie said ...

What a cute little dog! I'm glad you and Sophie could have company, even if Sophie was a bit put out by it. I find that I often have to remind Churchill that he is our 'firstborn' and that we love him very much.
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Friday, October 9, 2009

Better Late Than Never--I Guess

20090910_104123_CVS Caremark Flu Shot_Rose I reminded them that I spent a couple of weeks in bed recently fighting a real case of the flu, but my doctor and nurse felt I needed to get the shot anyway--so I did, yesterday. And I can't know if that's the reason for my physical condition this morning. After all, I've had severe flares when I haven't had a flu shot. But the fibromyalgia is having a party in my body this morning. The pain and stiffness are the worst they've been since last winter. I missed Bible study last night because I didn't feel like moving. I have book club this afternoon and don't feel like going. Sophie wants to go outside, and I don't feel like taking her. She doesn't care, so excuse me just a minutes, please.

We're back. Sophie took pity on me and didn't dawdle too badly.

In the housecleaning department, I seem to have hit, not an actual a plateau--I'm making a little progress--but I sure have shifted into a lower gear. The bedroom has proved to be a bigger challenge than I even thought, and I knew it would be big. But as you have all reminded me, I just have to take it slowly and be happy with a little progress each day.Capt.b6a3d717f4fc45edaf3488a98f44e27e.aptopix_nobel_peace_prize_obama_ny117

In closing, congratulations to our President Barak Obama on his recognition as winner of the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize. And, remember, it's not just a win for the President, but for all the people of the United States. All our buttons should be popping just a little bit this morning.


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On 10/09/2009, Karla said ...

The flu shot scares me. I know it doesn't cause you to be ill but I know too many people that have gotten it and had ill effects, though I suppose the flu itself isn't much better and probably worse.

I second your congrats!

Karla


On 10/09/2009, Loretta said ...

Oh my goodness, oh my goodness....here we go disagreeing again! I was shocked to hear about Obama being awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. "Peace" amidst the turmoil in our country regarding health care, greed, deceit in the highest levels of government, and rampant corruption in politics! He has promised so much, but hasn't "peacefully" delivered. Maybe his initial promise of "change" swayed the panel to award him the prize....I just don't see this as prize-worthy.
Don't worry, we are still blog friends who respect each others ideas and differences.
Hugs to you


On 10/09/2009, Pat said ...

The one year I didn't get a flu shot (don't remember why) I was sooo sick. I'm not sure that had anything to do with it, but I have not missed a shot since. If it's raining out your way, that may be affecting your fibro. I'm not convinced I don't have it, though I've never been diagnosed. Anyway, it's playing havoc with the leg I broke this summer. Nice Sophie. My Oscar doesn't linger in the rain, thank goodness.


On 10/09/2009, CarlaH said ...

Hi Susan, sorry to feel you are under the weather again - hopefully the recovery will be faster this time round. About the bedroom - take it easy - it'll all fall into place in time.
About Obama, sorry I can't agree that he deserves it (but can't really think of anyone else who does) - I am sure his intentions are good but given the world (and political) situation the chances of "peace in our time" seem very faint to me.
I was born in Germany just at the end of the second world war and my evening prayers always ended "and please don't let there be another war", unfortunately those prayers have not yet been heard.
Wishing you improved health real soon!!!!


On 10/09/2009, Ruth Landon said ...

Hi Susan
Sorry to read that you are a bit under the weather, its your body telling you to take things a little slower.
I think that you have made great strides with your house organising; it certainly looks very nice, such nice quilts I see in all your rooms.
I am with you Susan that we should congratulate Predsident Obama on his prize. It seems like he is really trying to make the World a better place but doesn't always get coopertion from other countries. I'm a friend from N of the 49th parralel have no political allegiance in your Country.
Ruth


On 10/09/2009, Ladybug said ...

Susan, just take it easy today. You have been through so much that maybe your body is telling you to just slow down. Maybe you just need to take baby steps for a while. Rest and let your mind and body heal. Hang in there, the cloud will lift.
Ladybug


On 10/09/2009, Nancy said ...

Susan, I'm with you...no matter what our politics are, as Americans, we should all be standing tall for the recognition. I just have to say to that I also agree that blogs like this shouldn't be used for people to take offense about a statement that just happens to be directed at a politician. Please don't take offense anyone, please. I'm just saying that whether you are a group of cyberspace friends or in your face real time friends, politics are like a stick of dynamite if you start in on them they blow up every time and cause feelings. The glue that binds us together as friends is quilting. Now, on a more personal note Susan, I'm sorry your in a flare. They are so horrible. My Sclero flare started some time during the night. No storms are forcasted as that will usually start one. I'm sure yours was brought on by the flu shot, it does the same to me. I'm so glad we have doggie doors and a big yard so I don't have to get up and take Sadie Jo or Persnikety Friskie out. Hopeing you feel better soon. Keeping you in my prayers.


On 10/09/2009, CarlaH said ...

Sorry if my statement offended - it was certainly not meant to. I admire your President and what he stands for - enough said on this subject (from me at least). Bashfully, CarlaH


On 10/09/2009, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

No one has offended me here, NO ONE, and I hope that holds true with all. I just didn't want my desire to publicly congratulate President Obama and our country on this awesome honor to turn into name calling and mean spiritedness. Although we're far from perfect, I am very proud of our country tonight. I want the good feeling to last.


On 10/09/2009, Kai said ...

I'm about 20 minutes away from leaving for a three day gathering with my friends who, like me, practice and live the trditional ways. I will be so relaxed by Tuesday when I'm back on line, you will wonder where hyper-Kai went. LOL! I am hoping you have no ill effects from the flu shot, and that the mean old Fibro subsides QUICKLY. As for Obama's recognition, I am cheering. Same reason YOU are, my friend. LOVE YOU, SUSAN. Don't overdo!


On 10/09/2009, sherry said ...

Hi Susan. I'm sorry to hear you are feeling bad. I hope you feel better real soon. Take it easy with the housecleaning and take care of yourself. I'm proud as an American for President Obama. Couldn't have said it better than you did! Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers!


On 10/09/2009, hunnybunny said ...

I hope you feel better soon and take care of yourself Susan. You are too marvelous to feel under the weather.
I also agree with your sentiment on Obama. Lots of hugs!


On 10/09/2009, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

Thank you all. Y'all are so awesome--no matter which side of the aisle you lean toward. Or if you don't lean at all. You're the best!


On 10/09/2009, Pokey said ...

Your house looks great, can you come visit me with your cleaning supplies? *smile* I hope the flu shot helps, I'm in a classroom with 26 germ-y kids, today sitting at their level and the little guy next to me turns towards me and sneezes-! Yikes. Oh well. pokey


On 10/09/2009, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi girlfriend!

Sorry to hear that your fibro. has you feeling bunged up. Bother!

Did you give your babies Tempra drops when they had their immunizations (no discussion of this, please!)? I did, so when I have my flu shot each year, I kindly dose myself with two sequential rounds of a non-aspirin feel better pill just to ward off any aches.

I also cheer President Obama's award and hope this is the pride that overcomes the petty things that divide. Peace is something - like quilting - that we can all hope for, pray for, and work for.

Speaking of quilting, three little tops and their backings went off the quilter today!!!!!!!!!! Those that went are the Halloween little quilt I made during Pat Sloan's OP challenge, another just like it with some different fabrics that I made this week, and a Christmas Laurel Burch panel with borders I added. All joyfully colorful and I cannot wait to get them back! Making bindings tomorrow so I'll be ahead.

Be well, dear friend! Hugs!!


On 10/10/2009, Beverly said ...

Take it easy on yourself, Susan. But, I know getting everything cleaned and organized must feel good to you, too.

God truly has blessed our country through the ages. A sign of hope for the world can only be a good thing. Kudos!


On 10/10/2009, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

I had forgotten all about Tempra drops. Yep, we used them when I had little ones. --Susan





On 10/17/2009, megan loukota said ...

I stumbled apon your blog and I am sorry that you are feeling so crummy! I do know that I finally got sick of the guessing game that my doctors were playing when I had thyroid problems and I finally went to a naturalpathic doctor and now I am off my meds and I feel great. A multi-dose flu shot has mercury and other icky stuff in it and that may be what caused your body to revolt against you. It was to much for your system to handle after being sick and having to deal with fibro. After extensive research on how vaccines are made when my son went from a normal happy baby to having every autism symptom in the book after his Hib shot, I no longer am willing to subject my family to something that is totally unnecessary and harmful. I am thankful that we caught it early and with the help of our ND, we have totally kick autism in the butt and our baby is fully recovered and doing great. But, I hope that you feel better, you are a very talented person and your creations are very beautiful.
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