Monday, December 8, 2008

Home

Family We're home already. Vann needed time to rest up before starting his chemo on Wednesday, so we came on back today. We're all three very tired, especially Vann. But even Sophie is a bit pooped too.

Here are photos I took while at Vann's parents' house. The one at right is (back row, from left) Vann's sister Fran and Vann; (front row, left to right) Vann's brothers Ben and Kenneth.

The second photo is Vann and his Dad Grover. His mom didn't feel like having her photo taken. And the last photo is the lady herself--Miss Sophie Belle Patterpaw.

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And here's a note that our friend Betty W. sent to Vann for his prayer quilt. It's a quote from St. Theresa of Avila:

Let nothing disturb you.
Let nothing frighten you.
All things are passing.
God only is changeless.
Patience gains all things.
Who has God, wants nothing.
God alone suffices.

Thank you, Betty. And thank you, Mary, for delivering it. May God bless you both.


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On 12/08/2008, Susan Cleveland said ...

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On 12/08/2008, Liz said ...

Thank Betty for me as well. This was a really timely message for me right now.


On 12/08/2008, Molly said ...

Fran, Vann, Ben and Ken, I LOVE it!!! And the note that Betty sent, soooo true.

Y'all have not left my thoughts and prayers in weeks and will continue to stay there.

If you get time, put your feet up and listen to this(click the player button on the right of the page):
http://www.last.fm/music/Stuart+McLean/_/Polly+Anderson's+Christmas+Party Its a hoot!

Love yall,

Molly


On 12/08/2008, Kai said ...

Beautiful family! And Vann, DO get some rest! Really! You will be very glad you did! You KNOW my heart and my prayers are with you both, and my confidence as well that everything is going to be fine! In my language, there's no real phrase for 'I love you.' Instead, we say, "Nei na su tama habi." It LITERALLY means, "I lie down & think of you." But we MEAN it as "You are always with me because I CARE." Today, those are my words to you!


On 12/08/2008, Joanne said ...

Wow! That's a good-looking bunch of siblings. I love the St. Theresa prayer.


On 12/08/2008, Gayle said ...

What an exceptionally wonderful prayer. That's a keeper. Loved the photos of Vann's family.


On 12/09/2008, Nicole Reed said ...

Wonderful looking family. Good luck today....


On 12/09/2008, Beverly said ...

Susan, I am so happy that you were all able to share this time together. The love of our families is a great blessing.
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Saturday, December 6, 2008

On Taxing the Tumescent

Cow_1 From the "Do What, Now? Department" comes this. According to the EPA, cow flatulence is the culprit behind (no pun intended) global warming. So the government is considering taxing each cow in the country. Taxes will range upwards to $175 per head. Er, well, maybe "head" isn't the right word here, but you get the drift--or you will if you stand downwind from a herd of the bloated beasts.

Now I'm no big lover of cow flatulence, or any other kind of flatulence. But is taxing really the solution to this? Wouldn't some big Bovine Gas-X tablets be a better solution? Or removing some of the roughage from the cows' diets? Everybody knows what raw vegetables can do to a digestive system when eaten in huge quantities.

I don't see how taxing the critters will stop the gaseous emissions anyway. It'll just cause steak and hamburger and dairy products to cost more. The cows will continue to produce the noxious fumes, the planet will continue to warm and the government will continue to come up with more ridiculous schemes to collect more taxes. And how would you like to be a farmer who tries to explain to his dairy herd that they can no longer pass gas because it's costing him too much money?

I say this movement has got to stop right now. Because if Uncle Sam can tax cow farts, it's conceiveable that he could extend that tax to humans. I know a few people that the government could make a mint off of in that regard. Be warned, people: Today's it's Bossie, tomorrow it might be Uncle Clyde or Grandma Clara.

NOTE: We are leaving early in the morning to drive down to south Georgia to see Vann's family. We'll be back Monday evening. Just didn't want anybody to think we'd dropped off the face of the earth.


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On 12/06/2008, Anna said ...

Susan,
what a great story - it made me laugh out loud.
Hope that Vann gets better and better. I hope that you have a great time in Georgia..
Regards,
Anna


On 12/07/2008, sherry said ...

OMG, I'm laughing so hard. That is so goofy, but I've read it too. Poor cows. I say if we tax the cows we have to tax the windy politicians who also send off so much hot wind that it has to be effecting the global warming as well. So let's be fair with this taxing. And if we have to get into taxing all those we know with "global warming tendancies" oh my! That might be a poot, I mean hoot! LOL You guys have a fun visit with Vann's family.


On 12/07/2008, Rian said ...

It's methane gas. The biggest producer of greenhouse gases. Cows. Who knew!


On 12/08/2008, Mom2fur said ...

Good grief. Maybe those cows should eat big Bean-O tablets.
They getcha one way or another. We get our electricity here from the Long Island Power Authority (LIPA). Okay, so we've been told for years to conserve. We've been turning off lights, etc.
The trouble is, the less we use, the less LIPA earns.
So they're talking about a 17% (yes, that 1-7) increase in our bills over the next few years to make up for the money lost!
Damned if we do and damned if we don't.
Hey, do you think cow essence could be put in a tank and sent to these idiots?
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Friday, December 5, 2008

Promise of Prayer

Amy & PhillipI think I must be one of the most fortunate and blessed people on this planet. Not only do I have a wonderful husband, two beautiful and loving children (Andy and Cait), and one handsome grandson (Jesse), I also have two of the greatest stepchildren in the world (Amy and Phillip, shown at left). In fact, I never even think of them as stepchildren, any more than Vann thinks of Andy, Cait, and Jesse as steps.

All our kids are talented and smart. But right now, I want to tell you what Amy did. She set up this website, Promise of Prayer. On it, she tells the story of her dad's illness and asks for prayers for his healing. She also has a blog on the site where she tracks our journey to recovery, as well as an area where you can leave prayers for Vann or request prayers for someone dear to you. Please visit Promise of Prayer and see what a talented daughter we have in Amy.

Thank you, sweet Amy. It's a great website, and you're a great young woman. We love you.

Vann's hunting buddy, Bill, came by today with a cooler full of venison. When he heard that the doctors had told Vann that he needs lots of protein, Bill knew that here at last was something he could do for his friend. He went hunting. Early yesterday morning, just before daylight, Bill was in his shooting house. He says that's when he does some of his best praying. He said that when he had finished praying for his family, he said, "Now, Lord, you know I never have asked you to let me shoot a deer, but this isn't for me; it's for my buddy Vann. If you'd just let a big old doe come by here and let me shoot her for Vann, I'd be so grateful." Five minutes later, guess what walked by Bill's shooting house? We now have a freezer full of fresh venison--protein o'plenty.

Vann is scheduled to begin his chemotherapy next Wednesday and Thursday. He'll be on a twice-a-week schedule for a while.

I can't close without thanking all of you once again for your prayers. We continue to pray for each of you every day as well as all our friends and family who are keeping us in their thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.


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On 12/05/2008, Julia Wood said ...

You do, indeed, have wonderful kids. Amy's website is beautiful. Please know that your entire family, especially Vann, are in my prayers. You are such a positive influence on so many people. Best.


On 12/05/2008, Amy Cleveland said ...

Thanks Suzie! Dad has gotten a lot more support. I've gotten several emails, he's gotten a few more comments, and there are several different churches of different religions here in Portland praying for Dad. We're trying to cover all the bases! I'm so glad Dad has you there with him! I know that your upbeat positive attitude and nurturing are going a long way to keeping him strong. I love you both and I'll see you in about 10 days!


On 12/05/2008, Amy Cleveland said ...

By the way, I only just published Promise of a Prayer yesterday, and already Dad has had 44 different people look at it (more really, that counter only counts individual ip addresses--it can't count the number of people looking at the screen)!


On 12/06/2008, Teresa said ...

I visited the site your daughter set up and it is so touching. Even now I have tears and just feel so blest to have gotten to know your family through this blog. Prayers continue at my house for you and your family and for Vann's healing. I could not find a place to leave a comment on the blog your daughter set up, but just wanted to say to her, through you, what a wonderful thing she has done. God is good and his grace is sufficient to meet all our needs.


On 12/06/2008, Rian said ...

What nice kids. And what a nice friend, I loved the hunting story--very heartwarming. I know going through chemo is challenging, especially at Christmastime--I wish you both strength and fortitude as you go through this.


On 12/06/2008, kayellen said ...

I can't wait to see the website your kids started...what a heartfelt expression of love for your husband.
I will continue to pray for all of you..and Vann with chemo...next week.
Take care,
Kay


On 12/06/2008, Beverly said ...

Susan, I just visited the site, and it is wonderful. I am so glad you all have each other in your lives. I believe God brings certain souls together for a purpose. God is surely hearing all of your names in prayer.


On 12/07/2008, sherry said ...

Hi Susan & Vann. I'm going to visit the site as soon as I post this. I'm so glad you have such wonderful children in your lives. Continued prayers & positive thoughts for you all. Loved the story of Vann's hunting friend. :)


On 12/07/2008, Kai said ...

I visited & bookmarked Amy's website. What a sweet & beautiful young woman. You already know how I feel about you & Vann, and you know that my prayers flow in a constant stream for you. I'm so glad Vann's buddy managed to provide the very thing Vann can use! PRAYER IS POWERFUL & IT WORKS. People are sometimes reluctant to pray for certain things because they feel it may be too 'silly' or 'mundane' but NOTHING prayed for from the heart is any less than important! And I think - no, I KNOW - that there are two sets of two words more important than any others - "I BELIEVE" and "THANK YOU!" HUGS to you & Vann!
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Thursday, December 4, 2008

Embarrassment of Riches

Charisma Well, actually, it's not all this wonderful fabric that's embarrassing; it's more how I came to have it all.

You'll recall that I talked about how I was struggling to resist the temptation to buy this beautiful Moda collection, Charisma, to make a quilt to hang in our living room. Well, I bowed to temptation twice, once without even knowing it apparently. Well, I knew it, I just forgot.

One day last week, I ordered the collection, along with Sandy Gervais's pattern from Hancock's of Paducah. It came the very next day. Then the very NEXT day, I got a notice from Ebay that a seller had filed a complaint against me for failing to pay for another layer cake of the same Charisma fabric. When I received the notice, I remembered (vaguely) bidding on the item. But I never received a notice that I had won the auction--not from Ebay and not from the seller, so not being someone who checks in at Ebay regularly, I forgot about it. But as I was being complained on, I figured I'd better pay for the item. I'm sure I'll find some use for the second pack.

It's very rainy, windy, and chilly here today. We've had unusually cold weather for November here in North Central Alabama. But that's ok with me. I like cold weather.

Vann is doing well today. We have an appointment with Dr. Lakhanpal on Dec. 10, but we could go sooner, if they can work us in.


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On 12/04/2008, sara said ...

Oh my, well you have had a great deal on your mind lately! I am so glad to hear Vann is feeling more like himself... What ar eyour holiday plans, who's comming to visit, ar eyou goign to visit? Etc.
All the best!
-Sara


On 12/04/2008, Debbie said ...

Hope you get an earlier appointment...I know how that can weigh on your mind. I'm glad though that Vann is doing well today. Keep happy thoughts!


On 12/05/2008, Beverly said ...

Susan, you made me grin about remembering. I have that issue quite often. And, I do love the fabric.

I know how hard waiting is. I'm praying hard.


On 12/05/2008, Gayle said ...

Saying a prayer each day for your family. :-)


On 12/05/2008, Joan said ...

Love those fabrics.
Keeping Vann and you in my prayers.


On 12/11/2008, lila said ...

Your new fabrics are beautiful! Ebay can be a bit confusing...esp. when you are dealing with many other thoughts.... I'm hoping Vann is doing well.
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Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Back in the Saddle

Vann and Soph Look who I caught sneaking off for a ride around the 'hood. Neither one of them wanted to hear any of my mothering advice, so off they went. They're out now, making the rounds.

Vann is feeling much better today. (Thank you, Father God.) The surgery sites are healing fine, and he isn't having nearly as much pain. Our visit with Dr. Wood (the surgeon) went well yesterday. Now we're waiting until our oncologist, Dr. Lakinpal calls with our time to come in and talk about treatment.

We continue to soak up the blessings of your prayers and those of countless others. We feel like "thank you" is an inadequate response to all the caring. We pray for you all daily, and we love you dearly.


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On 12/03/2008, Nicole said ...

When my dad was having his chemo treatments, I used to go sit with him and bring a light lunch. We would sit and joke with the nurses and distract ourselves. Now that he is well and I can look back at that time, I am grateful for the time we spent together, even under such odd circumstances.


On 12/03/2008, AwtemNymf said ...

Yay- good to hear the good news! He must have been tired of being bed-bound and wanted a change of scenery! Great picture of him and the dog *lol*
Glad to hear things are going well! I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers!


On 12/03/2008, Patti Koosed said ...

Wow! I have been away from reading blogs tooooo long. I have missed so much on your blog.

First of all I am sorry to hear about Vann but it looks like he is doing okay.

I love the photos of your wedding. My husband have also been married 14 years on Dec 14th.

Your knitting is beautiful as is all of your work.

Though I have been so busy and going in circles I think of you and want to wish you and your family a Very Merry Christmas and good health, love and peace in the new year.

Hugs and God Bless You
Patti
Patti


On 12/03/2008, Penny @ Lavender Hill Studio said ...

Well that is very encouraging~ Give Vann a hug from me and keep one for yourself!
Hugs,
Penny


On 12/03/2008, Mom2fur said ...

I'm so glad to see Vann feels well enough to have some fun...even if it probably freaked you out. I bet Sophie's happy to be in the saddle, too!


On 12/03/2008, Cindy said ...

Wonderful to see Hubby out and about.
I have been reading your blog for a while.
Today is Blog Comment Day. I knew today was the day I needed to comment when I saw your husband doing so well. God is truly remarkable.
I hope you have a perfect day
Cindy


On 12/04/2008, Alexandrine said ...

Goods news.

Thinking of you.


On 12/04/2008, Rian said ...

Yay! Good to see Vann and Sophie ridin' the range!


On 12/04/2008, hunnybunny said ...

That picture is so wonderful! I'm glad to see him and Sophie about. I will continue to think of you guys, I understand how dificult this is for a family. I wish you lots of happiness.


On 12/04/2008, an annomoyus prayer warrior said ...

I'm claiming God's healing power for Van, and a spiritual embrace for renewed strength for him and all those around him! Blessings ~ a prayer warrior
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Monday, December 1, 2008

For the Love of Friends

Bee Prayer Quilt Today was my quilting bee's annual Christmas party, held again at Sally's. What a wonderful morning we spent, enjoying friendship and good food. The highlight of the meeting for me was Vann's Prayer Quilt, shown at left. Sally made it, then had bee members, guild members, and other friends of mine and Vann's sign notes to him to attach to the quilt. You can see some of them on the bottom of the quilt. (Click on photo for a larger view.) Others are in a pocket that Sally sewed to the backing.

Vann was overwhelmed when I gave it to him. "The only way I can ever thank all these people," he said, "is to get well." (And the whole congregation said "AMEN!" )

If anyone reading this would like to add anything (a note, a Bible verse, a line of poetry, or just your name) to Vann's prayer quilt, e-mail me at suscleve@aol.com and I'll give you the mailing address.

We have an appointment tomorrow afternoon with Vann's surgeon. We're hoping he'll have the results of the biopsies so that we can get on with treatment.

We are so very blessed by your prayer offerings, and we lift you up to God every day. Please continue to pray.

I would like to share this comment that my beautiful friend Kai left in response to "Plucking Daisies."

"I believe maybe it's the same as with friends. We are so reluctant to allow our friends to do for US because we think we are the ones who should give to & do for them. But a friend told me once that I was being SELFISH to not allow my friends the JOY of helping ME. That stuck in my head & I've never forgotten that it IS as blessed to receive as to give. I guess I just never considered that before. And I love the reminder that we need to give God or the Great Spirit or Buddha or whatever name we call the Creator the opportunity & the JOY to prove HIS desire to care for US. I will remember to pluck daisies on my own behalf, but also continue to pluck them for you & Vann! MUCH LOVE, Susan!"

Thank you, Kai, for such a lovely comparison. I have an ornament hanging on my front-door Christmas wreath that says, "God gives us friends to show us that we don't have to walk alone." He certainly has given us an abundance of them. Thank you all for being our friends.

And this comment from a dear friend, Trudy Neill:
"Have you ever sat in front of a fireplace and watched the glowing embers? One old log can burn brightly for a while, but then as it loses its energy, the flame lessens and so does the warmth it provides. But...add another log, and the two join forces and the flame rekindles and the flames glow forth and heat in all its glory is there!!!! So it is with love, and prayer...one prayer is wonderful, but the joining of more than one prayer, gives off so much energy it flies upward to the heavens. May your week be warmed with love and the prayers of all of us.
Love,
Trudy
"

Thank you, Trudy. I love your warm and beautiful word image.

And finally, here's the annual picture of the Piecemaker's Quilting Bee.
 Bee Group

" Faithful friends are beyond price: No amount can balance their worth ."
- Bible ( Old Testament ) Sirach 6:15


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On 12/01/2008, Deb said ...

Susan ~ what a special quilt project for your friends to work on for you and Vann! And what a treasure of memories it will be to you both as you continue on with whatever the Lord has for you on this journey. What a comfort to know that so many folks all across this country are praying.


On 12/01/2008, Sherry said ...

Vann's prayer quilt is just beautiful. What a wonderful group of friends you have. Continued prayers & positive thoughts for Vann. I'll be thinking of you both tomorrow. Susan, I'll be sending you an email shortly.


On 12/02/2008, Joan said ...

What a wonderful gift. Keeping you both in my prayers and will do so especially tomorrow.


On 12/02/2008, Karla said ...

The prayer quilt is absolutely gorgeous. What a special and wonderful treasure.
Karla


On 12/02/2008, Amy Cleveland said ...

Good luck today. I sent Dad a text message because I thought ya'll might already be at the doctor. I've got you in my prayers (as well as those of everyone else I know.) I can't wait to come down for Christmas...I'm counting the days! Love you both,
Amy


On 12/02/2008, Kai said ...

That healing quilt is a generous & lovely reminder of the friends who made it & the strong, positive thoughts it holds for Vann's returned health! What a beautiful group of quilters! Much love today to you and Vann. I am eager to learn the biopsy results so we can all know EXACTLY where & how to focus our prayers!
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Iron Bowl Weekend

Heart We had a very full weekend. On Saturday, Andy (our daughter who lives near us) came over and we watched The Iron Bowl together. Bama won, something to nothing (I forget the actual score). ROLL TIDE! Can't say it was a nail-biter. Auburn never really threatened. I'm a really true Bama fan, but I think Nick Saban made an ass of himself during the game--especially considering the fact that his team was dominating. Screaming and yelling and kicking and cussing! Is that any example to set for young men? I don't know. Well anyway, now it's on to Atlanta, and let's win there! Try to get a grip, Coach.

Yesterday, I went to church. Vann's tummy is still quite painful from the surgery, so he stayed home. When I returned from church, his friends Gene and Mike were visiting.

I made chicken and rice for lunch; and then in the evening, we were all ready to watch the premier of "24," which for some reason I thought would be on. When we couldn't find it, I looked it up on the Internet and was told that the premier is actually January 11. I have no idea where I got that idea. Wishful thinking, I guess.

Oh, the heart in the photo? It's a gift for a friend.


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On 12/01/2008, Beverly said ...

Hi Susan. I'm taking a break from decorating my Christmas tree.

I wanted to let you and Vann know that you are in my prayers. And, I do believe in praying big, and in praying specific. God is hearing your names from me.


On 12/02/2008, Joan said ...

Hope Vann soon will be feeling stronger.
Sometimes I think that a programme is due to be on and get already to watch it only to find I've got it wrong. All this week on one of our channels is Jane Austen. I'm in my element. Last night was Persuasion, tonight Pride & P, then Emma ,Northanger Abbey,and so. Great.


On 12/02/2008, Kai said ...

Well, I confess I am SOOOOOO not a fan of ANY sport, so football is a mystery to me. But good sportsmanship ALWAYS applies to ANY situation, so shame on that young man! Bah, Humbug! About '24' - I WISH I had started watching that from its inception. Don't know WHY I never did because it certainly gets rave reviews! I hope Vann's tummy heals quickly. I can imagine how uncomfortable he must feel! Give him a (gentle) hug from me and be SURE he gives you one in return! And your heart is absolutely beautiful. Oh, so is the one you MADE! (Smile!)
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