Wednesday, April 29, 2015

MidWeek Message

First, I want to thank you all for the sweet condolences your sent on the passing of my good friend. It was not a shock, but still very sad. She had been ill for many years. Her family and friends take comfort in the fact that she is no longer in pain.

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Quilt show entry forms

While Anna cleans house downstairs, I'm finally working on my entries for my guild's 2015 quilt show, coming up in a little over a month. Down to the wire, as usual. I wasn't always this way. I used to get everything done well ahead of time. But these days my motto seems to be "Never do anything today that you can put off till tomorrow--or next week--or a year from now."

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Christmas quilts finally put to bed

Speaking of which, I finally got my Christmas quilts stored away upstairs this morning. They have been resting on a dining room chair since I undecorated after Christmas.

I'm having a good day today, a phenomenon that does not occur very often anymore. When I was diagnosed 13 years ago with FMS/CFS, I was told that it was not progressive, did not get worse, and in fact sometimes got better or went away. I beg to differ. Mine has actually got worse, especially in the past six years. My flares are more frequent, more severe, and last longer. And of course I have the separate back issues to go along with it, so maybe that's why I do not fit the mold. Do any or you with fibro/cfs find this to be true?

My friend Linda, the one who passed away this week, had the same back problem that I do, degenerative disc disease. She was actually confined to bed for the last ten years of her life. This makes me more and more determined to stay on my feet and keep moving. But I can certainly understand why my friend chose otherwise. Upright is often a very painful position.

OK now, back to the entry forms. Then I'm going to try to get the binding made for the Little Pink Houses quilt. Wish me luck.


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On 04/29/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

I'd say that getting things in order for the quilt show a whole month before the deadline is well ahead of time! Will you enter all of the quilts shown in your first picture in addition to Little Pink Houses?

Cheers that you're feeling so much better today and I hope this is the beginning of weeks and weeks of feeling better, if not endless years of energy and less pain!

Deep fatigue is an unwelcome part of lupus as is arthritis. With lupus, there are flares when everything worsens and times when you're just plain tired before you've accomplished much at all. It's annoying as heck. It's not classified as CFS tho.

Did you know that vaporized medicinal cannabis has been proven to dramatically improve lupus, pain problems, seizures, and many, many other medical issues. This includes the post-traumatic-stress syndrome affecting so many military personnel and others who've experienced or witnessed horrible things. Yet, laws by pinheaded, stupid, or arrogant lawmakers leave these people in utter pain and/or misery and deny all of us access the benefits of plants that can be grown in back yards. This is not about getting high either. Strains of cannabis have different properties and help different problems.
Check it out.

Hugs!


On 04/29/2015, Homebody said ...

When I was diagnosed with fibro and chronic myofacial pain syndrome (and arthritis, etc.), my dear doctor said, "You won't get better - you'll gradually get worse, and I will do everything I can to help you have the best quality of life possible!" That's exactly what she has done, bless her. She gives me verbal "gold stars" whenever I see her. Her encouragement has been very important to my coping with this boring, aggravating, frustrating condition. The changeable weather in spring is a factor in pain and fatigue. When the barometric pressure stops jumping up and down, you will feel better.


On 04/30/2015, Connie Kudsk said ...

I have Ankylosing Spondylitis and Poly Myosytis which are both similar autoimmune diseases. I was diagnosed two years ago and have progressively gotten worse despite all the medication they have put me on. Out of sheer frustration I started juicing and went to a 100% whole food, plant based diet. To my great surprise I am in total remission and feel great. I have even weaned myself off prednisone and hoping to get off all the other drugs soon. I was a total skeptic but I am a total believer now.....I got my life back!! Watch the movie called Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead and give it a try..............


On 05/04/2015, Sharon Penney-Morrison said ...

Yes, Susan I suffer right along with the millions of women who have FM. I have RH too. All of this started in 10 years ago. I am completely off Prednisone, and just take Methotrexate for the RA and 800 mg. of Ibuprofen for body pain from FM. The Stenosis in my lower back will never get better, and I am very cautious about lifting or being on my feet very long. Walking very far to shop is difficult, and I only shop where there are carts.
I keep up around the home, and garden, with help and continue to quilt, and sew.

But, at 70, I have decided it is okay to be slow, to rest when I am tired, and just relax about my health. I make a point to move every 30 minutes doing something, if I have been sitting.

I do what I can.
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Tuesday, April 28, 2015

BFFs Since Fifth Grade

Rest in Peace, Dear Friend

LindaBLinda Brasher Barrett
May 31, 1944 --- April 26, 2015

 


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On 04/28/2015, Sharon Penney-Morrison said ...

We have reached that part of our life journey that is full of goodbyes. Memories become such a treasure. May your friend rest in peace.


On 04/28/2015, Stephani in N. TX said ...

Your memories must be rich to have a friendship so long. Retreat to those memories that make you smile. So sorry for your loss.


On 04/28/2015, sillysally said ...

So sorry for your loss, Susan. What a fabulous friendship you must have had with her! "Through thick and thin" to be sure. Hugs to you and prayers for her family.


On 04/28/2015, Joanne said ...

So sorry, Suze. I know the feeling.


On 04/28/2015, Julie in WA said ...

I'm so sorry, Susan. Childhood BFF's are a blessing, to have someone who knows you for so long. I am sure you feel this loss very deeply. Treasure your memories...


On 04/28/2015, Mary in NJ said ...

I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you...


On 04/29/2015, Bonnie said ...

So sorry, Susan. It is a treasure to finish each other's sentences for a lifetime.


On 04/29/2015, gailss1 said ...

Not easy when we lose close friends and hope your memories are comforting during this time.


On 04/29/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

My sympathies on the loss of your childhood friend. What a blessing to have remained friends for all the years since 5th grade. May sweet memories of the good times, the shared laughs, recipe swaps, and all that makes a cherished friend lighten your sadness.

Big hugs!


On 05/02/2015, Pat said ...

So sorry for your loss. It's never easy to say goodbye to a dear friend.
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Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Dashing Off a Churn Dash Block

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I thought that I might work on making the binding for my Little Pink Houses quilt today. But after I got up here to the sewing room I discovered that I didn't feel that well after all. So instead, I think I'll work on the block of the month for next months guild meeting. It will be a Churn Dash block. Aren't those pretty squares of fabric? They came in my pattern packet. I'm to use a white (not off-white, pure white) from my stash for the background. Not sure I have any white.

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On 04/21/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

Churn Dash is one of my favorite blocks. I clearly remember as a new quilt who could join strips only their long sides and make HSTs that when I saw this block, I was elated to find it was one of the few blocks I could already make. Joy!

Have fun using these pretty fabrics and turning them in to your Churn Dash block. Hope you found the perfect white fabric in your stash so you didn't have to slow your momentum in order to go shopping.

Hugs!


On 04/24/2015, Dondi Murdock said ...

Dear Susan,

You are having a good day! You will have bad days. Just give yourself permission. You are so important to the world. Remember your faith in Jesus Christ. Think of what He went through so that you could have eternal life. He did it for YOU. He did it for each one of us.

You are worthy just because you are productive. You are worthy because you are Heavenly Father's beloved child. I am 20 years into fibro. I honestly feel so much better now than when it first hit. I remember the weeks of stabbing pains in my feet and the first diagnoses of arthritis in each joint in my body (wrong!). I used to awaken in the night several times with horrible pain. Now I don't. My body has made great progress.

Just keep doing deep breathing. Think joyful thoughts. If you are having a bad day, maybe remind yourself that you got though another horrible day before. Look out your window to see that plant that survived a terrible winter. Find joy in the cute cats curled up together. Keep praying.

You sound so nice. I am sure the Savior is weeping alongside you. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Monday, April 20, 2015

In Bloom

I haven't done a smidgen bit of gardening this year. And unless something unexpected happens, pain/fatigue-wise, I doubt I will be doing any. But some of my pitiful efforts from last year paid off. Look at this lovely lavender clematis blooming around the old bird feeder. When I planted it last year, I hardly got the hole deep enough to cover its roots before I had to stop digging. I thought sure it wouldn't make it. But it did. I planted the other purple thing (the name of which I can't call to mind just now) several years ago.

 


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On 04/20/2015, Dot in NE Georgia said ...

Just beautiful. I believe the dark purple is verbena.
Enjoy and thank you for sharing.


On 04/20/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

How lovely! We no longer plant annuals and choose those perennials who reseed themselves rather than need to be divided. I love plants that come back up for years and I hope to get a clematis this year.

Our azaleas and coming into bloom just as the dogwoods fade. The lilacs are in bloom about 3 weeks early and their fragrance is sheer bliss. Isn't springtime in the South just wonderful?

Hugs!


On 04/21/2015, Sue, the Florida Farm Girl said ...

Oh, I am so envious of that clematis!!! I love those things and I'm hoping that I'll be able to get one to survive here.
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Saturday, April 18, 2015

Kitty Kuddles

If Jesse ever does move out, the dogs and I are really going to miss Taco and Bella.

After a very rainy week, it seems severe weather is imminent here today, according to weather reports. And you know what stormy weather does to those fibro pain sensors. I'm afraid I'm down for the day.

I picked up my Pink Houses quilt from the quilter yesterday. It's so pretty. I'll post a photo as soon as I have it bound.

 


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On 04/18/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

Awwwwwwwwwww! What a charming photo of Taco and Bella! The red cushion compliments their coloring, too.

Hope you can take some medicine to ward off the fibro pain, my friend.

Hugs!


On 04/19/2015, Sandy said ...

What a cute picture of your kitties. Hope you feel better soon.
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Thursday, April 16, 2015

Push It!

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Cuddle Quilts on Parade at Quilt Guild

This week, I have been "pushing it real good." On Monday, I attended our April meeting of Birmingham Quilters Guild (in a horrendous rain storm). On Tuesday, I had lunch with some of my BFFs since high school. After lunch, we sat outside the restaurant in the nice humidity and talked and laughed for a couple of hours. I hated to leave.

I also made a big batch of cookies, made supper for Jesse every night this week, and did several loads of laundry. Anna is here today, doing all the stuff I didn't do. There's lots of it.

I refuse to get old, I told my sister last night. And my body replied, Uh huh. And you're also the queen of England. 

Yep, my body is paying for all the activity this week, but mentally I'm happy and loving life. Just not loving the pain and fatigue. But as I see it, I have no choice. As long as I can move, by Ned, I'm moving.

Although we didn't have our usual quilt display system up at guild meeting, we nevertheless had Show & Tell, and I took lots of pics.

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Results of a recent Cuddle Quilt Workshop


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Hawaiian Applique


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Stars!


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Wool Applique


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A Family Heirloom


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A Round Robin


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Another Round Robin


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As you can see in some of the photos, we got new t-shirts. I love the design and color. I'll wear mine to next month's meeting.


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On 04/16/2015, Joanne said ...

The quilts are gorgeous, especially the Dresden plate. Thanks for posting your pics. Glad you're outlook is positive. Occasionally I wake up in the morning feeling good. That's when I tend to stay in bed, afraid to move and spoil it.


On 04/16/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

What wonderful photos of delightful, colorful, imaginative quilts!! Gotta love the cheerful variety of cuddle quilts, the heirloom quilt, and every one of the others you've shared with us. Thanks for letting us be a fly on the wall at guild!

I have always enjoyed round robins and am pleased to own 7 with the work of fellow guild members around my centers.

Good for you in getting yourself to guild, to lunch with friends, and to the kitchen for cooking and baking. Does a body and mind good even if some body parts fuss. I much preferred it when body parts silently went about their business without making themselves known.

Wishing you good meds for the pain and good rest to restore your spoons for all that's coming up this weekend.

Oh, love the new tee shirts, too!

Hugs!


On 04/18/2015, Kathy said ...

Thanks so much for posting the pics of those wonderful quilts! Hopefully you'll be able to rest up and get some of your energy back. I love the reference "push it real good." Your sense of humor is marvelous!
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Friday, April 10, 2015

Stumblin' In

I made it through my soup deliveries yesterday, even though my vision was way off and I walked like someone suffering from severe inebriation. My eye doctor told me that the vision problem is caused by thick eye secretions, and I have read that this is common in folks with Fibro. It sure is aggravating. Makes reading and sewing hard, and I guess I really shouldn't be driving when it's bad. So I won't anymore.

My sister Ramey has the most gorgeous white azalea beside her front porch. Yesterday, when I dropped off her soup, I plucked me a few stems and brought them home and put them in a glass on the dining table. That lasted for about 16 hours until Taco spied them. I found him on the table, chewing one of the blossoms with the glass tumped over and water everywhere. So now I have them on a higher table in the kitchen. (See photo above.) Let's see how long they last there. Maybe the lit candle will keep his little royal highness away.

 


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On 04/10/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

Oh, so sorry about your vision problems. Would one of those eye drop solutions thin out the secretions and help your vision?

Ramey's white azalea blooms are lovely! I have the hardest time choosing azaleas because all are so beautiful. Most of ours are the deep pink watermelon color but in recent years the white and pale pink are calling to me.

Our male cat, Tom, views all indoor vegetation as his salad, so I have only aloe potted inside. Sigh!

I'm just in from melting (high humidity) as I sprinkled Virginia Bluebell seeds in shady spots in our garden borders. They were to be put about 18" apart which I did at first but then the last were broadcast with less care. They're wildflowers here and are said to be slow to germinate and they may not even bloom until next year. Time will tell.

Hugs!
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Thursday, April 9, 2015

Soup Day

On Easter Sunday, after church, my handsome nephew Jed treated my sister Joanne and me to lunch at Carrabbas's, one of our favorite eateries. Joanne and Jed both had pasta dishes, but I had my usual, Chicken Marsala with garlic mashed potatoes. Before our main courses, Jed and I had salads and Joanne had a bowl of scrumptious looking tomato soup. So ever since then, I've had tomato soup on my mind. This morning, I decided I would make a pot.

After you've had real, homemade tomato soup, the canned stuff loses its appeal. And the real stuff is not a lot more complicated than opening a can. Here's my recipe. Try it and see.

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Susan's Cream of Tomato Soup

  • 4 Tbsp butter or margarine
  • 1 medium onion, diced
  • 4 Tbsp flour
  • 2 (28 oz.) cans crushed tomatoes
  • 4 cups chicken broth or water
  • 1 tsp dried basil
  • 1 Tbsp sugar
  • 2 cups half and half
  • Salt and pepper to taste

In large pot, melt butter. Add diced onion. Stir and cook over low heat for 3-5 minutes, till onion is soft.

Add flour and cook 1-2 minutes, stirring constantly.

Add tomatoes, broth or water, basil, and sugar. Cover and cook on low heat for 15 minutes, stirring frequently.

Add salt, pepper, and half and half. Cover and continue cooking on low for about 5 minutes.

**Makes 10-12 servings. Recipe can easily be halved for less soup. I made the full recipe this morning as I plan to give some away.

 


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On 04/09/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

How nice of Jesse to treat you ladies to Easter dinner at Carrabbas. Yum!

This recipe looks delicious and I can just imagine how wonderful your home smells since you made a pot of this soup today. Bliss! Thank you for the recipe.

I hope you're feeling good, have plenty of spoons to put to use as you choose to. Of course, it takes no spoons at all to sit on the porch and enjoy spring before the pollen starts playing havoc with sinuses. We had a huge storm last night with house rattling deafening thunder. Don't you love springtime in the South?

Hugs!


On 04/10/2015, Stephani in N. TX said ...

I have been making tomato soup from "scratch" for years, and I agree it knocks canned soup off the shelf. Love it. Glad you felt good enough to do that much cooking, and guess what, when you have a pot full, it lasts and lasts. Enjoy. Enjoy your springtime weather. Here in N. TX, the pollen has already exploded for those with allergies, but there just is no season like Spring.


On 04/10/2015, Joanne said ...

Thanks for my soup-on-the-back-porch! It is souper delicious!
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Saturday, April 4, 2015

Never Ever

I just found this image that perfectly describes my life. Funny too. Because this morning I'm feeling so much like giving up. I've been planning all morning how to tell family and friends, that's it. I'm not doing anything else except lie on the couch, read books, and watch movies. Just can't drag this uncooperative self of mine around anymore. No more cooking, no more walking dogs, no more clubs and guilds and church, no more quilting. No more stumbling around, fighting pain and fatigue and weakness, trying to keep up with the matters of life. I'm done.

But then I saw old Mr. Frog here, refusing to go gently into the good night of that bird's gullet, and now I have new resolve. Life is too full of good stuff to give in just yet. ONWARD!

 


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On 04/04/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

You go, girl!

I love the image of the frog squeezing so hard he cannot be swallowed. I first saw this when our older son was trying to learn to write and this picture made him laugh which made everything better.

I've hit the wall in getting the house ready for our friend who was supposed to arrive tomorrow afternoon but is more than likely to arrive later today. Do men not understand profound fatigue? I cannot rev up to finish all that's on my list, no way, no how. Sigh! I gave up and took a shower. If I push, I'll just cry. Reading on the couch sounds good to me but there may yet be a nap in my near future.

Hang in there, my friend!

Hugs


On 04/04/2015, Joanne said ...

Welcome to the club, Suze. I give up about once a day and flop on the couch or in bed. But you're right--we must not give up yet. The fortunate thing for me is that I don't have the chronic pain that you suffer. I almost wish I could take some of yours. But heck, I have the depression and memories that torture me, and I know you do, too. To quote Chief George, "Endeavor to persevere."


On 04/04/2015, Pat said ...

"Never, never, never give up." Winston Churchill


On 04/04/2015, Marcia said ...

Cut back and prioritize, if you must, but never give up. So many of us struggle with chronic pain, but we need the fellowship and the laughter because it serves as our best "tonic". God Bless.


On 04/05/2015, Linda said ...

Be a couch potato when you must, but don't give up. Reading your Good Friday post, it sounds like you are more on top of things than I am. And today's cartoon is too cute for words --but it says more than words could. Thank you for the gift of that cartoon. Enlarge it and keep it where you can see it often. As a reminder. And maybe run it again now and then for us so we can be encouraged, too.

Blessings heaped up and pouring down all over you!


On 04/21/2015, Sharon Penney-Morrison said ...

Here, here Susan. We have to keep moving. I don't want to move either. Every step is torture some days. I envy those around me who move with ease, are not limping in pain. I am participating in a Bible Study at my church, and there is a long walk to the elevator, then another long hallway to the room where about 80 of us gather. I am almost in tears at the thought of walking every Thursday morning to that room, but once I get in and seated, I am always glad I did. Many friends, and the lesson we are doing is called, The Best Yes. Good advice in this lesson.
I don't want to move, but we have too and then if we can't we get a cute scooter to ride in. We will decorate it and everyone will be jealous!!
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Friday, April 3, 2015

Good Friday Greetings

It has been a busy Holy Week here at the Yellow House. Sophie got a hair cut, I found a new tax lady named Martha (my old tax lady and dear friend Doris passed away on Sunday), we celebrated Jesse's 26th birthday, Anna got the house all cleaned up for Easter, and Steve cut the grass.

I have, however, let Easter get almost here without hanging my bunny quilt or planning an Easter Sunday dinner. I'm going to get the quilt up today, at least that's the plan, but I'm not sure about dinner. I had a very bad night last night, full of pain from feet to shoulders. I think i might check out Cracker Barrel for some Easter carry out.

I hope all my blog buddies out there are having a great Holy Week and are looking forward to an Easter Sunday blessing or two.

 


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On 04/03/2015, Barbara Anne said ...

Good to hear from you and am so sorry that Doris passed away. My sympathy to all who loved her.

Well done on having your house and yard in good shape for Easter and it's certain that decorating and food will follow. Cracker Barrel food sounds like a wonderful idea (call today!) and your bunny quilt would look delightful tossed over a chair or couch arm if hanging it is too much of a bother.

Happy Birthday to Jesse, too!

I'm cleaning house like a very slow white tornado and it's clear everything will not be done when our friend arrives Easter afternoon. Oh, well.

Oh, and I love the azalea photo!

Easter blessings to you and your family from me and my family.

Hugs!
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