A couple of days after Vann's funeral in 2009, I came down with a raging case of flu. It was that bird flu or pig flu or monkey flu or whatever they were peddling that year. I got it. I guess because my resistance was down from the stresses and traumas of the last year, it hit my hard. Fever, chills, coughing, wheezing, sneezing, the works.
Of course, the family picked that time also to come apart, as many families do when a loved one dies. (I've never understood that phenomenon; that should be a time of coming together.) Anyway, while dealing with my illness which should have kept me in bed, I was required to make lawyer visits and financial advisor visits and have long, harrowing arguments with family members. It was horrible. Family finally cleared out and left me to my misery. And while my body finally recovered from that illness, my family never did. I am still half a family short.
All that was to say, except for the severing of familial ties, this has been worse. I can't never remember being this sick--at least not in my adult life. The doctor diagnosed me with an ear infection which had led to a case of bronchitis. Although quite improved from a week ago, I am still getting over it.
It all started the day before Andy and I left for the beach. I thought it was just a head cold. I could take some DayQuil and go about my business. By the time we arrived at the beach, it was apparent I had more than a head cold.
By the third day, Andy insisted that we go home. I hated to spoil her vacation, which had already taken a hit when her friend who was supposed to join us had family problems and had to cancel. I guess poor Andy decided that beach time with a sick mama wasn't worth the effort. Anyway we packed up and came home.
So I never stepped my feet in the sand, never went for sea food at Capt. Jack's as we had planned, never even got a hint of a tan. But I did have a wonderful view, as you an see above, while I coughed my lungs out.
Sorry about the lack of blogging. I'm using my energy right now to try to get well. So bear with me if I miss a few more days. I'm crazy to get back to the sewing room too. Quilts await.
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On 07/02/2016, Barbara Anne said ...
Bless your heart and other parts, sweet friend. So sorry you've been so sick and miserable. Your view of the sea was lovely, but in times like this, wise Andy was right: home is hwhere you needed to be.
Quilts will wait, but you
Okay, just lost my place on this white text on the whilte background so will just wish you well. Really WELL!
Hugs
On 07/02/2016, Joanne Cage said ...
I'm so glad you're on the mend. Drink lots of lemonade, hot or cold. Love you.
JRC
On 07/02/2016, Dee said ...
Susan, I am so sorry you are sick.....we've never met, but I've enjoyed your blog for years. Have admired how you "soldier on" in spite of often being in pain. I wish you lots of rest and better health.
On 07/03/2016, Arrowhead Gramma said ...
So sorry that you were not up to par for your vacation, and your daughter was right to bring you home.
Can totally understand your family issue as this has happened to me twice, once when my husband passed and more recently when my mother passed. As they say, you can't choose your family and it is what it is.
Feel better soon!!!
On 07/03/2016, Stephani in N. TX said ...
Wishing you recovery soon Susan. Nothing feels better than healthy following a joust with illness. Get back on your feet and write some more for us readers. We are part of your family now and miss you when you are down.
On 07/03/2016, Debra said ...
We just got back a couple of weeks ago from Universal Orlando. My daughter, her husband, my two grandsons and me. All the boys were sick one day or another, sometimes more. My daughter and I tried to carry on, but it was hard. Much sympathy to you for your ruined vacation. Get well soon!
On 07/03/2016, Sandy said ...
Prayers for healing and strength. We'll be here when you feel better. Rest up and recharge!!!
On 07/03/2016, Julie said ...
So sorry the vacation was spoiled, but glad to hear you are getting better. Take it easy until you fully recover.
On 07/04/2016, k&c's mom said ...
So sorry you are sick and hope your healing comes about quickly.
I'm also sorry that part of your family was not there for you in 2009 when you were in such a tender state. I've read your blog for years and I always admire how you sort things out and then make the best of them. Carry on!
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