Sunday, January 31, 2010

Books, Not Bombs

ThreeCupsOfTea_BookCover The Bloomsbury Review called this book, Three Cups of Tea, "A template for peace."

In my opinion Greg Mortenson's account of his mission to bring education to the children of Pakistan and Afghanistan should be required reading in every school in our nation, if not the world. Greg Mortenson is living proof that in order to bring peace to the world, to show other people and other cultures that the U.S. is worthy of trust and respect, we must go in peace, not in war. We must teach their children, not kill them.

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Greg Mortenson went armed only with books and building supplies. He risked his life time and again to build schools in the Islamic world, educating the children of Islam and making it harder for militant, hate-spreading jihad groups to recruit them.

"Greg Mortenson represents the best of America," says U.S. Representative Mary Bono (R-Calif.) "He's my hero."

Mortenson is also a hero to rural communities of Afghanistan and Pakstan, where he has gained the trust of Islamic leaders, military commanders, government officials, and tribal chiefs by his tireless efforts to champion education, especially for girls.

"Three Cups of Tea is one of the most remarkable adventure stories of our time," writes Tom Brokaw. "Greg Mortenson's dangerous and difficult quest to build schools in the wildest parts of Pakstan and Afghanistan is not only a thrilling read, it's proof that one ordinary person with the right combination of character and determination, really can change the world."

As of 2009, Mortenson has established or significantly supports 131 schools in rural and often volatile regions of Pakstan and Afghanistan, which educate more than 58,000 children, including 44,000 girls. Before Mortenson, education was practically nonexistent in these regions, especially for girls.

The book also points out the fact that not all Muslims are terrorists--not by a long shot. No more than all Japanese after the bombing of Pearl Harbor were our enemy. No more than all blond-haired white people are dangerous because Tim McVeigh was a homegrown terrorist.

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I thank God that there are people in this world like Greg Mortenson. I wish there were more of them. How wonderful it would be if this kind of persons were in charge of world governments. I have always believed that violence is not the answer to peace or security. I agree with Ghandi, who said, " I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent."

Read this book. Give it to your children and grandchildren to read. Tell your friends and neighbors about it. In my opinion, the road to homeland security and world peace lies in the actions of men like Mortensen and women like Mother Teresa, people who personify the words of Jesus who said, "Do unto others as you would have them do to you." 

To learn more about Greg Mortenson's work and the book Three Cups of Tea, go to http://www.threecupsoftea.com/.

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On 01/31/2010, Lynda Green said ...

Susan, Thanks for the stimulum to get the book off of my shelf and into the must read pile. After reading A Thousand Splendid Suns, I found it difficult to continue to delve into the culture but will welome an uplifting journey of education.


On 01/31/2010, Sandy said ...

Gives new meaning to "The Livng Bible".


On 01/31/2010, Ruth Landon said ...

I totally agree with you Susan. What our World needs is more people like Greg Mortensen. I heard him inteviewed on CBC radio the other morning and was very moved by what he has achieved. His second book "Stones into Schools" has just been published.
Ruth


On 01/31/2010, Debra Spincic said ...

You can never go wrong living a life of "Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You" It takes so little to be kind and generous.


On 01/31/2010, Nicole said ...

Inspiring!


On 01/31/2010, CarlaH said ...

I'm glad you enjoyed the book. You echo my feelings exactly - the world needs more people like Greg Mortensen - I'm looking forward to reading his second book in the very near future.


On 01/31/2010, Vickie said ...

Susan,
My husband loved the book and wanted you to know that the sequel "Stones into Schools' was very good too.
Vickie


On 01/31/2010, Pam Schroeder said ...

I have read the book and wholeheartedly agree - the way for the world is not through wars but through helping the rest of the world and it can start with education! PAM


On 01/31/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

Amen!

Hugs!!


On 01/31/2010, Carole Miller said ...

I loved both the King book and agree about brown's being his best yet. My dear friend, Sally McCammon's husband has his new one out. I'm eagerly awaiting "Mr Slaughter'. He writes as Robert R McCammon. I've read all his books and love them all. I always get excited by a new one. Check it all, everyone1


On 01/31/2010, Charlotte said ...

I had not heard of this book. I say God bless Greg Mortensen. The world certainly needs more people like him. Thank you for sharing.
Blessings,
Charlotte


On 01/31/2010, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

Thanks so much for the recommendation. It looks like a wonderful book!


On 01/31/2010, Denise said ...

Bless you for sharing.


On 02/01/2010, Kai said ...

I'm on the same bandwagon YOU are! Just bought the 'sequel' last week at Barnes & Noble, and have it on my next-book-to-read list! That is one AMAZING human being who has done what all the fighting through the years could not achieve!


On 02/02/2010, Sandra Clarke said ...

Hi Susan, I enjoy reading your blog. I am a quilter, live in Atlanta area and agree that Greg's work is amazing. There is a children's book on this as well as a youth book ( think). I know I saw the children's book. This book is on the reading list for United Methodist Women. Blessings to you. Sandra


On 02/06/2010, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

I've seen the children's book, Sandra, but haven't read it. A friend of mine is the UMW president at our church and she told me she read the book, found it on the UMW list.

Have a nice day. --Susan
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Saturday, January 30, 2010

The Monster Takes Another One

Images Pancreatic cancer has claimed another victim. Pernell Roberts, best know as Adam Cartwright of Bonanza fame, lost his battle this week. He was 81 years old.

Perhaps it's just because I'm more aware of this disease because of Vann's battle, but it seems that more and more people are succumbing to it these days. Roberts is the second Bonanza actor to die of pancreatic cancer. Michael Landon, who played Little Joe Cartwright, died of the same cancer several years ago.

Whether or not pancreatic cancer is becoming more prevalent, let us all pray and work as best we can for an end to this an all cancers.

4081183289_d6a45cc3cf This little creature now lives in my back yard. It's a fox squirrel. We have a preponderance of grey squirrels, but this is the first fox squirrel I've seen here, and one of the few I've ever seen. They usually live way out in the woods, far away from civilization. But this little fellow seems right at home living near the Yellow House.

This is the last day of deer hunting season in Alabama. This morning, Sophie and I saw two beautiful black-and-tan hounds running through the neighborhood. I don't know if they were tracking deer, had become lost from their hunters, or just celebrating the end of having to get up before dawn on cold winter mornings. But I hope they found their way back to their people.

The encouragement I felt after yesterday's diagnosis of my back problem as shoulder blade tendonitis, is fading fast. The Motrin aren't helping so much during this damp, cold weather. I have been resting, I haven't been using my left arm any more than necessary. I guess it just takes patience, a thing I have never had a surplus of. (Yeah, I ended a sentence with a preposition; so sue me.) There are so many things I want to be doing. The list doesn't include lying on the couch watching "The Nostradamus Effect." 

Tomorrow, if I can still type, I'm going to do a book review here of what might be the most important book of the 21st Century. Be sure to check back.

Addendum: I was wrong Tomorrow is the last day of hunting season. Maybe those hounds were celebrating early.


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On 01/30/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi my friend!

Not to second guess your doctor, but I suggest you try Aleve or Percogesic as both of those do me more good than Motrin. I couldn't guess why, but they do and of course, both are over the counter.

Perhaps a pad of paper for quiltie ideas and a look thru your quilting books would be a lovely way to deal with the boredom and/or jazzy Mamma Mia on the DVD payer.

Praying for a cure with you!

Hugs!


On 01/30/2010, Kai said ...

I thought of Vann when I heard about Pernell's losing his battle with Pancreatic cancer. And strangely enough, I thought of Mike Landon when I first heard that VANN was dealing with it. I have been way too wordy on your blog & it's a wonder you still allow me to comment. But I will email you soon and share something re: Michael. Love you!


On 01/30/2010, Deb Price said ...

Wish the Motrin would work for you...I always felt best when I was on steroids, but I have very bad side-effects from them...so I just make do :) I really happen to love your pic up there on your Facebook box...Hot Lips, huh? I always wanted to be a nurse if I could be in that MASH unit with Alan Alda! I hope you have a restful weekend...
Hugs from a sunny, but cold Indiana


On 01/30/2010, CarlaH said ...

Hello Susan, greetings from a still bitterly cold Quebec, but at least I didn't have to go out today. Sorry to hear that you seem to be in a one step forward, two steps back situation with the pain. Living next to a wooded area of a golf course we have all too many squirrels (brown ones) - they do have their cute moments but they are destructive little buggers - they eat buds in the spring time as well as young birds and forget about having a birdhouse (we do feed the birds but only if we see a window of opportunity with no squirrels in sight. As for the cancer - let us all hope that a cure will be found one day and give what we can to help fund the research. The husband of a dear friend died of it years ago and that was the first time I had heard of this particular deadly type of cancer.


On 01/30/2010, Donna said ...

Susan, You would think the doctor would give you something better than motrin.
Hope you begin to feel better soon. It is snowing right now where I live northeast of you. Hopefully when the weather warms up we will all feel better.
I hope one day there is a cure for pancreatic cancer ... all types of cancer.
I love to watch squirrels scurrying around the yard and I am glad deer hunting season is over here tomorrow.
Take care,
Donna


On 01/30/2010, Susan Burton said ...

i LOVE TO READ YOU BLOG. I FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS MISSING OUT OF MY DAY WHEN YOU DON'T POST.


On 01/30/2010, Susan Burton said ...

Boy do I need to reread my posts before I send them. Sorry for the mistakes.


On 01/30/2010, Debra Spincic said ...

OK, should we have a contest to see how long you rest? *wink*


On 01/30/2010, Deb said ...

Thanks for the news item on Pernell...I hadn't heard. I can remember many a Sunday night I'd zoom home from church so I'd not miss an episode of Bonanza! I just told my husband about it after I read your blog, and he said he didn't know who Pernell was! Oh my!
I do hope you get better soon!


On 01/30/2010, Deb said ...

Thanks for the news item on Pernell...I hadn't heard. I can remember many a Sunday night I'd zoom home from church so I'd not miss an episode of Bonanza! I just told my husband about it after I read your blog, and he said he didn't know who Pernell was! Oh my!
I do hope you get better soon!


On 01/30/2010, alexandrine said ...

I hope you get well soon.
I cut my rabbits !!
Bonanza
XXX


On 01/31/2010, Kelly@CharmingChatter said ...

Cute squirrel! I do hope that you are feeling better soon!


On 02/03/2010, ramey said ...

The fox squirrel is so cute! Actually, he (or she)rather resembles you! You must name him (or her)Foxy!

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Friday, January 29, 2010

Who Asked About Noah's Ark Quilt?

6a00d8341cbb0053ef01287714d292970c-320wi  Somebody, in a comment, ask about the pattern for the Noah's Star quilt. I can't find which comment it was, and you know my memory isn't going to tell me. The pattern is from the book Quilts for All Seasons, published by Oxmoor House and edited by me back in the early 90s. The book is now out of print, but I checked and Amazon.com has used copies listed for as little as 1 cent and new ones for $3.95. Click on the Amazon link to see for yourself. Hope this helps. 

Here's another version I found on line of this quilt. 

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I settled on stitching my blocks with different colors of floss. I have five rainbow colors of floss: red, blue, orange, green, and purple. I will stitch one block in each star with each color, e.i, each block will have one red, one blue, one orange, one green, and on purple embroidered square.

 


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On 01/29/2010, Rae Ann said ...

The Noah Ark's quilts are simply adorable. I will definitely have to stop by Amazon. Thanks for sharing!


On 01/29/2010, Melinda said ...

I have a grandson named Noah in Sweden and I made him a Noah's Ark quilt last year. I really like this one with the combination of piecing and embroidery.


On 01/29/2010, valerie said ...

This is absolutely beautiful


On 01/30/2010, Patti Koosed said ...

These quilts are so nice! You do such beautiful work Susan.


On 01/30/2010, Deena Warner said ...

I wish I was as talented as you. I do strip quilts but so far that's it..

Love your Noah's Ark


On 01/30/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

Cute quilts! You know the 3-triangle blocks that form the star points? They make the greatest border when placed side by side. Quick and easy to make, too.

Isn't it wonderful that different fabrics or different placement of lights, mediums, and darks makes quilts look completely different even if the pattern is the same?!

We have about 8" of snow in our part of Virginia, intermittent white out conditions, and it's still coming down. We're staying home and loving it!

Hope you're feeling better and better.

Hugs!
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Ouch Ouch, Ouch Ouch Ouch

Trapezius_Gray409.PNG Yesterday, while my daughter and I sat in the doctor's office for three hours, we talked of all kinds of things to blog about. But now the only one I can remember is the subject of how long we had to sit in the doctor's office. 

After we finally got to see Dr. N and he gave me his opinion of what my problem is, I forgave him for making us wait. Although I'm still hurting like crazy, Dr. N thinks it's not a problem that will require surgery but tendonitis in my left shoulder blade (scapula). He prescribed 800 mg of Motrin three times a day. My daughter prescribed rest. So maybe if I obey both of them, I'll be feeling better in a week or so.

Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes. They're working. 

And thanks for the additional comments on health care insurance. The prize for the most interesting comment has to go to Kai, whose insurance wouldn't pay for her Pap Smear because they claimed it was cosmetic. I don't even know what to say about that. Where do those people buy their cosmetics?

And I continue to be amazed by the comments from our Canadian friends. Apparently there are few problems with their health care system, unlike what we've been being told by some people. My Medicare coverage (govt-run health care) so far has been much the same. I admit I haven't had it long, but I've experienced no problems at all with it. I don't see why everybody in the country couldn't have access to Medicare, as Joanne suggested, paying for it on an income-based system. But I guess that would put the insurance giants out of business although it would help our citizens immensely. Hmmmmm.

Well, well, enough of that. Some of you asked where to go to make a donation to American Cancer Society in Vann's memory. GO HERE! And remember, all donations are appreciated. Every dollar goes into a big pot with other dollars and it all adds up. So if you want to donate a dollar, go right ahead. And if you can't donate right now, or if you've already given through another source, please sign Vann's guest book. Thanks.

Uewb_09_img0625  If you haven't heard, Mr. J.D. Salinger died on Wednesday at the age of 91, I think. Not only have I never read his one and only novel, Catcher in the Rye, but I also thought he was already dead. Sorry J.D. His other claim to fame, beside writing Catcher is that he looked an awfully lot like Sgt. Joe Friday (right), Images  don't you think? Anyway, I've decided I will finally read this classic, if for no other reason than to find out what "teenage angst" is. (Is that the condition that makes teenagers act like rabid ferrets?) Catcher will be my next Kindle read, after I finish Three Cups of Tea.

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On 01/29/2010, Tina said ...

I'm glad your back is nothing more serious although tendinitis is very painful it is also very cuarble. REST REST REST. I know that word is not in your vocabulary so I thought I would provide you with the definition. From the Miriam Webster Dictionary: a bodily state characterized by minimal functional and metabolic activities
2 a : freedom from activity or labor b : a state of motionlessness or inactivity
Now maybe now that you know what it is you can do it. Love you girl and still praying. :p


On 01/29/2010, molly said ...

Ditto what Tina said!! REST and READ(and maybe fondle fabric if you absolutely must).

I loved Catcher, read it when I was about 15 or so and again in my 20s.


On 01/29/2010, Nancy said ...

Rest, rest, rest, and more rest...Do what the dr says...
I too thought JD Salinger was already dead and I think he looks more like a young John Forsyth in the old TV series Batchelor Father. (not showing my age, cause Batchelor Father is shown on RTV (retro TV)) LOL


On 01/29/2010, Wanda Foster Nott said ...

Just found your blog & love it already - the book reviews are a bonus! I have roots in AL., quilt & listen to audio books (multi-tasking?). I have had issues with both shoulders, + a pinched nerve in my neck. I highly recommend a good chiropractor, immediately following a full body, 1- hour massage! The term 'relax' doesn't seem so difficult afterward and your body can heal itself. Feel Better!


On 01/29/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

OUCH indeed! Wonder why that area decided to get inflamed now?

Be sure to have some food in your tummy when taking Motrin. Your stomach will thank you!

In that photo of J.D. Salinger, he, my father, and DS1 look very much alike.

Enjoy resting and not reaching far with your left arm.

Hugs!


On 01/29/2010, Debra Spincic said ...

Sounds like you better listen to the doc and get some rest; not that we haven't been telling you the same and for free.


On 01/29/2010, Deb Price said ...

I am so glad that your shoulder is nothing that requires surgery...I know that tendonitis is nothing to laugh at, but it could be much worse...just rest and don't lift...I know that is easier said than done! Make sure you eat with that Motrin...I try that for my arthritis and after about 2 days, I have to take a break from it...stomach doesn't like it! Anyway, I think you will like Catcher In The Rye...I am SO jealous that you have a Kindle!! Do you like it? Is it the same as holding a book? I really need to see one and hold it...I just don't know if I could NOT have books!Sorry I've rambled...have a good night!
Hugs from Indiana


On 01/30/2010, kayellen said ...

Take Care Susan~~
Did you talk about physical therapy? I am wondering if that would help you a couple times a week?

Hugs,
Kay


On 01/30/2010, Kai said ...

Tendonitiis is definitely a pain in the ... well ... in the wherever it IS on the body! Mine was in my right shoulder. That was years ago but I haven't forgotten being unable to get dressed! They gave me a shot of steroids in the area, & after about three days I could function again. But it took nearly a week to really go away altogether! So be veeeeery aware of how you move in the meantime. No sudden movements if you can avoid them, and the same old same old - REST. Debra is spot on - don't take the Motrin on an empty tummy! Re: J.D. Salinger - I loved his writing because it was really 'out there' for the times. Today it would probably not be considered anything worthy of banning, of course, but THE CATCHER IN THE RYE is still a relevant book. I loved it! Holden was a character I'll never forget. Finally, I have to confess that I DO have a mouth on me when someone says something so completely ignorant I can't let it pass. When the receptionist told me that day that I would have to PAY for my PAP smear because my insurance considered it cosmetic, I said, "Well, OBVIOUSLY that decision was made by a MALE. I want to see him climb up on the table, cram his feet into stirrups, and bare HIS ... soul ... to the world, only to have the doc come in and poke cold instruments where the sun doesn't shine. Let's see how COSMETIC it feels THEN." GRRRRRR! That was Aetna insurance, by the way in 1988. I think it has been changed since then, but not certain!
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Thursday, January 28, 2010

Good Afternoon, All

Barbara's quilt

I really was interested to read all of your comments on yesterday's post. A little surprised, I guess, that so many of you agree, at least partially. I was very sorry to hear that some of you are also experiencing heartbreaking problems with medical insurance issues. We'll just have to keep hoping and praying a insisting that Congress do something. As the president said last night, "We won't quit."

And if you haven't read the comments from yesterday's post, I recommend them. Pay special attention to the comments from our Canadian and British friends. Obviously, the things that some are trying to make us believe about these countries' health care systems are just not true. Makes me want to consider moving to Canada if it weren't so darn cold.

The gorgeous quilt in the photo above is a creation of my friend Blogless Barbara. Isn't it pretty? Barbara thought the background might be a little too busy, but I don't think so. She's going to add a border; maybe she'll show us again when it's finished.

Some Opportunities to Give

My friend Debra at Debra's Design Studio is sponsoring a project to make and send pillowcases to soldiers in Afghanistan. Debra asked that the fabrics have a dark background that won't show dirt easily as the soldier don't have a lot of laundry ops. And since the majority will go to men, I wanted manly prints. So I started going through my embarrassingly large stash. In all that fabric, I found two small pieces that would work for manly pillowcases. Most of my fabrics as definitely girly prints and juvenile. 

But yesterday I had to make a trip to Hobby Lobby to purchase embroidery floss, and guess what I found? A fabric sale. I found these fabrics to use for pillowcases. Many of them are patriotic, and the lighter one even has the Pledge of Allegiance printed on it.

Pillowcase fabric

Pillowcase Fabric 2

Please consider getting involved in this fun and worthwhile project if you can. Just click on the link in the paragraph above for more details and to see some great pillowcases. You'll even find a free pillowcase pattern if you don't have one.

Vann & Soph  Here's another worthwhile cause. If you aren't already involved in an American Cancer Society Race for a Cure, you might consider helping me reach my $500 goal in memory of Vann. All donations are, of course, tax deductible and all gifts, large and small, are much appreciated. I'm trying to figure out how to put a button on my sidebar for this link, but haven't succeeded yet.

I filled the front porch with boxes of donations for the Exchange Club, a local charity, this morning. In fact, the truck is here now loading them up. Can't you hear Sophie barking.

This place is finally beginning to show some progress from my decluttering efforts. (Thanks to my daughter Andy for all her help.) I don't feel that discouragement and hopelessness that I felt for so long. I really think I'm going to reach my deadline of the end of the year.

Thanks for your suggestions on the coffeemaker. I'm going to research them all. strangely enough, my Gevalia was working fine this morning. I think I'm going to take Melzie's advice and run some vinegar through it. Duh. I knew that, but it never dawned on me that could be the problem. I'm sure it is though. Thanks, Melzie.

Got to go now and shower and get ready for my doctor appointment this afternoon. Pray that he has a solution that doesn't involved surgery.


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On 01/28/2010, Joanne said ...

I think the E.C. truck went from your house to mine, or vice-versa, as I notice my bags are no longer on the porch. I sent, among other stuff, a long red winter coat that I've only worn once, that cold day we had back in 2005 or '06.

My suggestion yesterday that everyone should be on Medicare was stupid, of course. It completely left out provision for sustaining the precious insurance companies' riches. I'm not qualified to think up a good health insurance plan, but I hope somebody, or group of bodies, is.


On 01/28/2010, Teresa/MarieSews said ...

Susan, count me in to help you reach your goal in Vann's memory. Won't be a lot but I can kick in $10.00. Just let me know where. Reading the comments to yesterday's post was quite enlightening. I didn't realize how many of us really feel the need for a better system. I'm in favor of a single payer system myself but I don't think we can get there. When I think of how much money I have paid in insurance over the years it amazes me. I would have been better off putting that money in a mattress and saving it for a rainy day.

Take care. Good luck at the drs. appt. Will be thinking good thoughts for you.


On 01/28/2010, Ruth Landon said ...

Susan, I hope the news from the Dr. is positive and that your pain level can be much decreased.
Ruth


On 01/28/2010, Debra Spincic said ...

Thank you so much for posting about Operation Pillowcase. We still need to support our fine men and women heading over to Afghanistan and this is a simple way to cheer them during their long stay.

You can also count on me for a donation -- we also donate to the ACS in memory of Wes's mother who died of breast cancer.

Good to know you are finally beginning to see good results from your decluttering. It's going to take awhile. It took awhile to collect it all! (even if you did have help collecting!)


On 01/28/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

Hi! Thanks for posting my little quilt. It does have two more borders now.

Love the idea for pillowcases. I made my 1st foray into pillowcase making just before Christmas and was disappointed in the results because I used a bleached muslin for the pillow body and Christmas quilt cotton fabric for the cuff. The fabrics were of different weights and it made an unpleasant difference. I recommend not doing that!

I'm wondering what the doctor told you. Hope it was good news!

Hugs!


On 01/28/2010, Donna said ...

Love your friends quilt.
Our co-pays go up and precriptions go up without an increase in our pay. My husband commented today that he needed a generic brand instead of name brand Lipitor and I don't think there is one. So many people are doing without their drugs and it is so sad.
I love the idea of the pillowcases for soldiers. I am going to visit Debra's Design Studio right now.
Blessings and I hope you get a good report from your Dr.
Donna


On 01/29/2010, Kai said ...

Barbara's quilt is gorgeous! With or without a border, it's just plain HAPPY and I love it! I know you SOUND as tho' you feel better just from getting some of the decluttering completed. (Blessings on you, Andy! Good, good daughter!) And I will, of COURSE add to your Race for the Cure funds! Will send something ASAP! May not be a lot because I just added to two other friends' funds. Both are relatively recent cancer survivors! Let us know, please how the appointment went! WE ALL LOVE YOU & WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE DOC SAID!


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On 08/11/2010, NFL Jerseys said ...

Won't be a lot but I can kick in $10.00. Just let me know where. Reading the comments to yesterday's post was quite enlightening. I didn't realize how many of us really feel the need for a better system.


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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Taking a Stand

Andy
 

I don't know how you feel about the hulabaloo that's going on in Congress these days about the need or lack thereof for reform in our health care system, especially as regards health insurance companies. Heck, I'm not even sure how I feel about the whole thing.

I know that it would cost money, lots of money, to make sure that everyone in the richest country on earth is able to afford quality health care. And I hate excessive taxes as much as the next guy--probably more than some of your more liberal guys. See, I'm sort of a liberal conservative--or maybe a conservative liberal. Or maybe I'm just confused.

In the past year I have definitely leaned to the side of fixing our health care system, but I haven't really leaned far enough to fall completely into the fray. But a couple of things have happened in the past few days that have pushed me over into frayville. If you disagree, that's all right. That's why God made lots of opinions--so everyone could have one. Here's mine.

Health care costs lots of money. So does war, and we never have this kind of ruckus going on when there's a war to be financed. Damn the costs; drop the bombs. Now that's sort of a simplification, maybe. But not much. When do you remember a year-long battle in Congress over financing a war? Well, war is necessary, you might say, to protect us. I won't comment on that, but isn't health care necessary to protect us as well?

Here's what has brought me to this lowly state of dipping into politics here at Blackberry Creek. I'm very upset over two things. First, a friend of mine had her insurance company refuse to pay for her antibiotic that her doctor says she needs. Second, my daughter has had to drop her health insurance. She is a single mom who has a job, works hard, pays her bills, and votes. But the insurance company has raised her premiums and lowered her benefits to the point that she can no longer afford the coverage. The premiums are now sky-high, but she has to pay for her own doctor visits and prescriptions--and there are huge deductibles and co-pays on everything else. So it's either pay the rent or pay the insurance premiums. Which would you do?

I've heard it said: "I don't want the government deciding health care issues for me." Well, me neither. And I also don't want Blue Cross-Blue Shield deciding health care issues for me. I think that's the domain of me and my doctor. My friend whose insurance company refused to pay for her antibiotic will either have to suffer with her infection and perhaps have permanent damage, or she can fork over a big chunk of money herself, after paying her premiums and expecting coverage in return. I have another friend who lay in bed once for a week, vomiting and having severe stomach cramps and weakness, while taking a drug that was not going to help and might possible do more harm because her insurance company said she had to take that one before they would pay for the one that the doctor said she needed.

Isn't this insane? Doesn't this sound like madness to you? Is it just me?

Well, I would never say that I'm positive I have the right answers about everything in this confusing world of ours. But I have made a decision and I'm sticking with it. I will not ever again vote for anyone for any office who has taken a stand against repairing this broken system--it doesn't have to be President Obama's plan. But anybody I vote for from now on has to be for fixing this. I know our health care is one of the best in the world, maybe even THE best. But I have friends in Canada and England and other countries who have public health options; and they think their systems are just as good, and in some ways better, than ours. That's from the people who use them, not the politicians.

I hope I don't lose any of my treasured readers because of my opinions. I surely don't mean to imply that you have to agree with me. And if you can give me a logical reason, even one, why I should not feel this way, I might change my mind. But don't give no stories about fictitious death panels or stipulations that would insure the family dog or standing in long lines to get an MRI. Real stuff, please. Facts as to why the richest, most privileged country in the world can't afford to see that its citizens have access to health care and why their doctors can't be the ones who decide what treatment they need. Thank you.

Coffee Pot On a lighter note, I've had a death in the fambly. This morning, my coffee maker drowned. You know that gurgling sound a coffee maker makes when it's finishing up its dripping. Glub glub glub glub glub. Well mine glubbed for an hour this morning. I guess it's time to replace my freebee Gevalia. Anybody have any suggestions what kind of coffee maker I should purchase?

Addendum: And I failed to note that my other child, who also works hard and is an accomplished craftsman in her field, has not been able to afford health care coverage in her adult life.


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On 01/27/2010, Andy said ...

Thanks Mama.


On 01/27/2010, Loribelle said ...

The difference between single and family insurance premiums at some companies (that shall remain nameless) is over $650.00. That, to me, is ridiculous! Personally, if I had to pay $700/mo in premiums I would expect there to be $0 out of pocket expenses, period. I currently have and am very greatful for an HSA plan. This is my third year in this plan and it has worked out very well for me. There has to be a better way...for all who are eligible...and I pray somebody figures it out. Just my two cents!! Love to you, A & J.


On 01/27/2010, Wendy said ...

Amen to everything you wrote on health care. We gotta get this done. Coffee makers--my next one (when this one gives up the ghost) will be a Cuisinart DCC 2000. Check it out...cuppa coffee on demand, no glass carafe. With a Bed-Bath-and-Beyond coupon, could run about $85. (No, I don't work for BBB!!!). Enjoy your day.


On 01/27/2010, Susan Ramey Cleveland said ...

Vann was paying over $800 a month for his insurance when he died. I was already on Medicare. Since going on Medicare, I have had zero problems. No treatment has been refused, no drugs, I haven't had to wait any unusual length of time for treatment or appointments. And it's a hell of a lot cheaper than $800 a month. (And no death panels have convened that I'm aware of.)


On 01/27/2010, Sandy said ...

My husband has been out of work for over 13 months. His unemployment earnings are $290 a week. His insurance is $400 and mine is $329 a month. You can do the math! I don't know what the solution is but I do know somebody has to do something! Anything!! Guess we could all just become wards of the state or maybe use the ER as our doctor's office like some do. I just don't know.


On 01/27/2010, joyce said ...

Here's my input, for what it's worth, to your question "...why the richest, most privileged country in the world can't afford to see that its citizens have access to health care and why their doctors can't be the ones who decide what treatment they need." The answer to that on, as I see it, is GREED!!!!! And who was it that said the love of money is the root of all evil? I doubt this problem will ever be fixed as long as money is one of America's gods. We are in a sad state of affairs, and I feel lots of compassion for the victims of our system.


On 01/27/2010, molly said ...

Mark and I can't afford insurance and his company doesn't offer it. I've not had a pap test in 11 years and I do have "issues". We pay @ $130 every 3 months for my regular blood pressure check-up/rx renewal appointments and Mark pays @ $200/yr for his asthma doctor to write him new scrpts. I pay $30/mo for my meds, Mark's are about $150/mo. Our kids are on the state's program, thank God. My last hospital stay was close to $10K(which we'll make pmts on til the cows come home). Can't imagine if we had something "really bad" happen. I'm ALL for health care/insurance reform!! Bring it!!


On 01/27/2010, Debbie Price said ...

I can't complain too much about the health care my husband and I have...we are retired military. But where we live no one knows how to file properly or will listen about how to file. Needless to say, many hours on the phone for the last 11 years. Anyway, I think the only thing I have to say about the health care bill, is I want to make sure all of the people that need care, get care. I am afraid that the people on Medicare and the people that are already having stuggles to pay for health care will have a bigger problem than they have now. And I am not to sure that we as reitired military will not lose our care. Kinda scary...Anyway, sorry to hear about your coffee maker. We have the WORST time with them in our house! I do know that I will NOT recommend a Mr. Coffee to anyone! Just got one for Christmas and have already wrote the company complaining! They are sending a new one, free of charge, but that is NOT the point! I really think I am going to find a percolator and use it...hubby is not to happy about that, but I am really losing my patience with coffee makers! Now that I have had my fit, I will sign off!! Hope you are feeling better today..
Hugs from a cold,but not snowy Indiana


On 01/27/2010, Marla said ...

Amen, Sister, to Health Care Reform. Like you, I don't know the
best way to achieve it, but both myself and Jerry have had issues
with our "Cadillac" plans. He was advised that one of his medi-
cations would no longer be covered and sent a $10.00 coupon
for an over-the-counter substitute; and I was told that if I wanted
the MRI my Dr. requested, I would have to pay for it myself, and
up front. Both were BCBS plans, and as union workers, we bought
and paid for our plans with union dues and wage concessions.
I, also intend to research my vote to make my little voice heard.
Altogether, our little voices can drown out the hired lobbyists.
Remember, the only things politicians want more than money is
the chance to stay in office.
I'll get off my soap box now-and send you my sympathy on the
loss of your coffee maker.


On 01/27/2010, Nicole said ...

Great post Susan. I went back to Urgent Care yesterday about my eye, and the doctor was hopping mad that I had not been able to start taking the antibiotics I needed. He started up an IV right there in the office and gave me the meds I needed. He tweaked the prescriptions a bit, and had me fill them there at the clinic. It cost $7 instead of the $289 the pharmacy wanted for the pills the insurance wouldn't cover. Believe me, the doctors do not like the insurance company drones throwing up roadblocks that prevent their patients from getting the treatments they prescribe.


On 01/27/2010, Jan said ...

You are definitely right Susan ... the powers to be need to resolve the health care situation once and for all and soon. Premiums are sky rocketing and too many necessary procedures and medications are not being covered ... then, of course, there's all the folks who don't have coverage; and I'm so sorry your Daughter is one of them. These are some worrisome days for so many folks; and along with the ever so important health care, there's a lot of things that need fixing in this great Nation we live in. I'm glad you're feeling a bit better :) Your blocks below are wonderful and I adore the quilt you'll be making for the Nursery :)


On 01/27/2010, Jocey said ...

Hi. Lurker here. I am from Canada and I read these stories and shake my head. I don't get it. In Canada we do not have "options". Everyone is covered and some have benefits from their employers that cover extras like drugs, eye exams. I end up paying 495.00 per year on my taxes for health care in ontario. I have an awesome family doctor and when I have surgery, mri's, ct scans, xrays I don't pay. And if you cannot afford your medication there are places that you can apply for help to. Is it perfect? Absolutely not. Would I want the system the States have? Absolutely not.


On 01/27/2010, Courtney Short-Prudhomme said ...

you already know I agree with you.. we may be in the same boat before long - a trend going on in the local refineries is when renewing contracts - getting rid of medical coverage. So far we still have coverage, but the premiums go up and up and so do our copays and deductibles.. I don't know what we would do.. ppl don't realize that aetna being in charge of your medical care is no worse than the government.. and medicade and medicare is government run.. and honestly - when I was a single pregnant mom with Jas - and on medicade - that was easy and trouble free.. with some of the BEST doctors.. I went to the same medical clinics with medicade that I went to once I had private insurance.

Coffee Makers.. mom got me this one I really like.. It's a hamilton beach brew station... no caraffe - it brews in the maker and you can dispense it the same way water dispensers work in the fridge.. I am really pleased with mine.. it' brews up to 6 cups at a time.


On 01/27/2010, margot said ...

I wish I knew what the answer to more equitable healthcare in America was. Our personal coverage is with BCBS and we have never had an issue with them - but others have. I hear tons of complaints about Medicare (our nation's original government funded insurance plan) but other people love it. Many people want government run healthcare much like Canada's - again there are good points and bad points. It seems like we should be able to take the positive things from these plans and come up with an incredible alternative that would satisfy the needs of the majority of the populace - but that isn't what is happening. I'm not sure how the problem was created - greedy doctors?, greedy lawyers?, greedy patients? fraud?- but, with our aging population, a solution is going to have to be found.


On 01/27/2010, Rachel said ...

Susan, I'm right with you. Your analogy about war and how we don't discuss that for a year (or for fifty years or more that's been going on) is SO true.

Glad to read your friend's dr got her antibiotic situation taken care of. Go Doctors!


On 01/27/2010, Teresa/MarieSews said ...

Susan, I'm standing with you. DH & I are self-employed. A third of our income pays for our health care. Some months it is a long stretch to pay that premium. If we don't make that stretch each and every month, we lose our coverage despite having paid it for years. Thankfully our co-pays for doctor visits are reasonable but heaven forbid we have a serious medical issue requiring hospitalization. Then we will be drowning in medical bills. I, personally, wouldn't mind some government involvement in my health care. Better than the insurance company making the decisions. Thanks for allowing us all to speak up.


On 01/27/2010, Teresa/MarieSews said ...

OH...yeah. My sympathies on the coffee maker. Don't have any suggestions as I drink tea. Good luck finding a great replacement. GREAT post. I think you should send it along with the comments to your congressional representatives.


On 01/27/2010, CarlaH said ...

As a Canadian, I read your post and the comments and shake my head. What in the world is it with politicians - do they forget that they were voted in by the people they so obviously care little about. Our system isn't perfect, I feel that the problem lies in the lack of professionals rather than cost - we are fortunate enough to have a great family doctor but dread the day that he decides to retire as there just aren't enough replacements out there to fill the need. As a resident of Quebec you are required to have either private insurance or participate in the Provincial drug insurance plan (I think the cost is about $450 per year)and most prescriptions are covered. To date all of the tests our doctor has ordered have either been covered by our Quebec Health Insurance plan or by my private insurance (provided through my ex employer for less than $50 per month for both of us).
On the subject of coffee makers - have you tried a French Press? Makes a good cup of coffee in 4 minutes after the water boils and I use a thermos to keep the rest of the pot warm.
On another note - thank you Susan - your parcel was at my door when I got back from the Gym this afternoon - WOW 100 cookie cutters take up a lot of space. I'm going to use the numbers to make cookies to take to my Quilt Club meeting to celebrate one of the members birthday (I hope she'll forgive me for revealing her age). I enjoyed a first peek at the cookbook and magazine with a cup of tea. The accompanying card is lovely (even my not so observant husband commented on it) and the heart is hanging beside my desk.


On 01/27/2010, Molly in Sumner, WA said ...

I completely and totally agree about the need for health care reform! It's about darn time we do this.


On 01/27/2010, Kai said ...

My crummy insurance refused to pay for my last pap smear. They said it was - get this - COSMETIC. Uhhhhh - I was FURIOUS! They ALSO didn't pay for my mammogram because I didn't show any history of breast cancer. WHAT? Guess who no longer HAS that insurance? Or, for THAT matter, ANY insurance? It was all I could afford. I paid CASH for all my medical bills (and you KNOW what I went through last year) AND for a ridiculous ER visit in August. THAT one cost over $11,000 to tell me I have Benign Positional Vertigo. THAT'S why I have to work so many, many hours. Does our health system need fixing? YOU BET! I am SO with YOU! Now! In the past I've had a Gevalia, a Hamilton Beach Brew Station (which I loved but which wore out too quickly for the price) and a Black & Decker which I LOATHED. I now have a Mr. Coffee for which I paid a mere $20 and it's lasted me 3 years already & makes good coffee. Hope you get a coffeemaker SOON! I love you, and I CANNOT imagine anyone turning away from you because you expressed your opinions. If they DO, we should look into getting them some MENTAL health care insurance. Ooops. Naughty Kai.


On 01/27/2010, Linda said ...

I completely agree that our health care system needs reform but I haven't heard anyone say what I think needs to be done. They need to keep doctors from charging so blooming much. Tests costs are skyrocketing. When are they going to investigate why costs are going up and services are not up to the standards they should be.

We give way too much money away in this country. Look at the presidential palace in Haiti. Who do you think paid for that. I'm sure us taxpayers did. The money we sent surely hasn't been used to help the people there.

Before long we'll probably see a new palace and people still living on the streets. I always heard charity begins at home. Let's fix this country so we will be able to help other countries.


On 01/27/2010, Ruth Landon said ...

Another Canadian here. If an outsider can comment, I'm in total agreement with you Susan. I can't imagine having no coverage or having to shop around for it . My husband has had 2 sugeries , Chemo and radiation in the last 12 months all at no direct cost to us and with no hassle.
Even if you are out of work your healthcare costs are covered. We're alright as long as the Government doesn't go broke.
Ruth


On 01/27/2010, Alathia said ...

Our health insurance (me & DH)is more than our house payment per month. That doesn't include our prescriptions and we're both under the age of 40. I think "affordable healthcare coverage" is an oxymoron. I have a problem with government interference, but I can also see how one serious illness/accident could bankrupt a family. I don't know what the answer is.


On 01/27/2010, siobhan toner said ...

Hi, lurker from England - I am totally horrified when I read some of the experiences and the costs you have to pay. We are always whinging about the care we get with the NHS but yet we don't ever really think about the costs.
The normal rate of income tax we pay is 20% and it is 40% for income over £37000. This is going to cover all goverment expenses including the social system as well as health care. There are other local taxes and on certain goods eg cigarettes.
There have been some instances of issues where some expenses drugs have not been approved of the costs and people do sometimes have to wait months for non critical operations. Smear tests are offered for all woman over 25 every 3 years. A prescription costs £7 (maybe 2 or 3 weeks worth of drugs) but for lower incomes theses will be free.
I have never ever heard about anyone not going to a doctor because they worried about costs.
I think the profits and salaries that are being extracted from your system is the root cause of why it is so expensive. Our doctors I am sure are not paid as much but they are on a good salary reqardless.


On 01/27/2010, Joanne said ...

I don't think we'll ever get an effective national health-care plan. It would take an administration that would not bend to the lobbyists and drug companies. Instead of starting all over, we should use the system we already have, which is Medicare. If everyone were on Medicare, and everyone paid a moderate income-based premium, everything would work and everyone would be happy except the drug companies and their lobbyists. But as long as we have that greed factor, I don't think anything affordable will work.


On 01/27/2010, Jane McCarthy said ...

Susan, I am completely with you on this issue! Good for you to put it on the table on THIS day! It is so important that we don't lose sight of the big picture and what reform will do for all of us. Every family has pre-existing conditions of some kind and, as we age and as our families grow the conditions keep developing! Think of how many people don't dare to change jobs for fear that their pre-existing conditions won't be covered under their next insurance plan. It's the insurance companies who are the problem, in my opinion. Profit, profit, profit is their mantra. Health reform will help protect us from their greed. Let's not throw out the baby with the bath water---there is still much in the health care proposal that is worth saving and fighting for!


On 01/27/2010, Kim said ...

Susan you know I am applauding and right there with you on this!


On 01/27/2010, hunnybunny said ...

Susan as you know I live in MA, we have to have health care. You get penalized on your taxes if you can't provide proof of insurance, the state has options to buy insurance through them. The cost is determined by your income, we bought their insurance before my husband took this job. Mr. Bunny also has insurance through the VA. We are fortunate, and I think the way our state is doing it works. They need to tweek it more to have the numbers work better. That's fine that's how it is with everything new. I agree with you though, and I am surrounded by people that don't. It boggles my mind, but the reasons I've heard are selfish and don't even make sense. I'm sure that some people have good reasons, but I haven't heard one yet.


On 01/27/2010, sherry said ...

Hi Susan. Sorry it's been awhile since I dropped by to say "hello". I'm so far behind on reading my fav blogs. I agree with you 100% on the healthcare issues and for all the reasons you stated!


On 01/27/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

Haven't read any of the posts above but ....

As a nurse for 30+ years, I'm really upset about having no insurance since I can no longer work due to lupus. I had insurance while I worked but it ended on the last day of my employment. No fair! Now I cannot meet an employer's attendance policy. I cannot help it. I have a chronic illness but I don't look very sick. I want some health care that isn't linked to one job. I worked at 5 hospitals and day surgeries in those years, but now have no insurance and have had none for 7 years. Stinks, doesn't it? It's scary, too.

And now for something completely different ...
I suggest a Filtron Cold Water coffee system. It makes concentrated coffee from whatever kind of coffee you put into it. The coffee concentrate is kept in the refrigerator and one ounce (more or less to taste) is put in a cup or mug and hot or boiling water is added for a fresh cup of coffee every time. The coffee concentrate keeps in a non-metal container in the 'fridge for a month or so. We've had ours for more than 30 years and buy filters for it occasionally. The kit comes with a carafe and everything else you need - except the coffee. We buy Folger's French Roast or Columbian but are just finishing Godiva Creme Brulee that we got for Christmas. The coffee this system makes is smooth, non-acidic, and delicious. AMIL has used it for 30 years and we gave a set to my parents because they reheated the morning coffee for lunch and for dinner. Yuck! They enjoyed the fresh coffee at every meal so very much. I don't sell this product but am a very satisfied user!

Hugs!


On 01/27/2010, Linda said ...

Teresa's suggestion of sending your blog along with all the comments to your congressman is an excellent idea. I agree... it is not just the price of insurance. It is the skyrocketing costs for the meds, labs, docs. But what makes my blood really boil is that the insurance companies are allowed to intrude into/control the medical care provided by the physician. And we pay the insurance companies to do it!!! How stupid is that?!!
We raised 4 children with only sporadic health care coverage on a missionary budget --but the medical costs in those days were much more affordable. Not like today.


On 01/28/2010, Beverly said ...

Susan, I completely agree that we need to fix health care. I don't know a solution either, but I do know we spend a lot of money paying people that should be able to come up with good ideas. And, I work in the health care industry, so I know the impact of this from more than one side.

One of the things that bothers me is that Congress can vote in a plan without our buy in. I know they were each elected by us, but this is a big thing we are talking about here. I think several plans need to be put up for the popular vote, and really let the people decide.

On another note - about a coffee maker. Keurig - hands down. I have had mine more than five years, and I would purchase it again and again and again. I LOVE it.♥♥♥♥♥


On 01/28/2010, Julia Wood said ...

I so agree that our health care system needs some attention. But I don't believe Obama's plan is the answer. There's too much fine print and crap in it. No, I don't have facts for you. But I've talked to my doctor and my brother (who is a surgeon) about it. It seems to me that some doctors need to be involved in trying to fix the system, instead of just politicians. We need a solution, but this is not it, and I'm glad certain politicians don't vote for it if they believe it's not the right solution either.

By the way, my brother has never turned down a patient. He's a colon rectal surgeon who routinely treats colon cancer. He doesn't charge those who have no insurance. And he even forgoes copays for those in need. He is divorced and has full custody of his three kids. He and the kids moved to another house 4 years ago and his other house has still not sold. So he struggles with two mortgages, He must have an almost full time nanny to help with the kids since he is often "on call." The oldest child will be going to college in two years. So he could use the money he turns down. Too bad there aren't more doctors like this.


On 01/28/2010, Pam said ...

I really like your comparison to the money spent on war - too true and so tragic.

It makes me so sad to read about all the problems people have because they don't have adequate health care. In Canada we don't even really give it much of a second thought on most days. Sometimes it takes a little longer than it should to see specialist - but that is mostly because our population is so small -- just 10% of the population of the U.S at 31 million - that we don't have the number of specialist available. And with more women becoming Family doctors there is a decrease in the number of hours that Family doctors are working. But I think that Health Care in the U.S. is such a big and profitable business -- most insurance companies are listed on the stock exchange -- I think it is going to be a difficult change to make. The insurance companies must think of their stock holders first and they will not be open to any changes that affect their bottom line profits. I hope the President is able to make some movement to help the people who need help.


On 01/28/2010, melzie said ...

did you try running vinegar thru the coffee pot?
:)
xoxo melzie


On 01/28/2010, Pat said ...

I worked in benefits/insurance for many years and before HIPAA saw all the claims with PPO discounted amounts; and most recently claims on myself with the huge discounts. I'm thankful for a great insurance with the ability to make this possible. But those discounts - what about the medical providers who don't discount? The premiums are even higher, the providers absorb the costs and/or bill for the balances, which is like not having coverage. We pay high premiums to cover the cost of others who are sometimes less fortunate and don't have coverage, or take advantage of emergency rooms that can't refuse treatment. Therein lies the root of the problem - the medical industry, for which I am thankful, don't get me wrong - has to recover costs and way too often they are looking at profit. Prescription drug costs are outrageous. It's the Dollar. How can government "fix" it when many of those in office don't have the same worries about paying high premiums, co-pays, or take only half their medications because they can't afford to take the full dose? Health insurance used to be for catastrophic reasons; I have had such a good plan and am thankful; and I think those without coverage either suffer or depend on the mercy of high premiums paid by others, so that providers can recover costs. The answer isn't easy... Do hope your ortho visit went well. And your coffee maker recovered with maybe vinegar treatment?


On 01/28/2010, Anna said ...

Susan,
Here is yet another Canadian viewpoint. I just don't understand how people can be without health coverage( well I do when I read some of the previous responses and shake my head at the costs) I live in Western Canada and sometimes it is difficult to find a new doctor here. Sometimes you do have to wait for services but the government does not tell me who is going to be my doctor. A couple of years ago, my son's then girlfriend slipped on a piece of black ice and broke her ankle badly. She was in the hospital for 10 days and had almost no out of pocket expenses. She had just moved to our province and would not have health coverage from her former province. It was all covered including visits to the physio therapist for 10 visits . I would hate to see what the bill would have been if she would have had the same accident in the States.
There are no perfect systems but I know that I don't pay the equivalent of a mortgage payment each month in order to make sure that my health needs are met- I hope that someone is able to come up with a solution so that your fellow countrymen and women's health needs do not bankrupt them should they find themselves with a serious illness.
Regards,
Anna


On 01/28/2010, Laurie said ...

Susan, I just bought a new coffee maker and we love it. I did a lot of research on it and it's gotten very good reviews. We love it because the coffee comes out HOT. I also love the gold filter so you don't have to buy paper ones. Here are the details: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000N22JPE/ref=ox_ya_oh_product


On 01/29/2010, Beverly Sheehan said ...

Hi there. I am Beverly from Whidbey Island, Washington. I to have become very frustrated with the healthcare systen in the U.S. Am I asking too much to have the same coverage as congress or the senate? Big business owns both houses. They don't care about us. Unless the Baby Boomers are willing to unite and vote these people out, nothing is going to change. I consider myself an independent. The republicians will NEVER agree with our president. It is no longer WE THE PEOPLE. WE are stuck in between the right and left. Thanks for listening. You have gained a reader (me) not lost one.


On 01/31/2010, Karyl said ...

Looking at Spiritual Sundays and went looking at whats new on your blog. Healthcare needs something I agree-- But what the Government wants to do from What I Have Heard (and I could have it wrong) is to "make" people pay a penalty for not having medical insurance and if you do not pay the penalty fee you would go to jail. WEll if people had the money in the first place they could afford the insurance coverage so I do not agree with our Government trying to put fees on what they cannot afford in the first place. I do not have any answers and am without coverage for sometime now-- have went the free clinic route and that is not the answer either because only one symptom at a time gets treated. Yes our system needs the insurance companies held responsible but our Government is not the answer. Socialism is not the answer. History does not need to repeat itself. Could go on but will stop on that note.


On 02/01/2010, Jen in NY said ...

Please don't blame the doctors. Most of them got into medicine to help people, and they have to battle insurance companies every day in order for their patients to afford the treatments they need. I hate when people blame "greedy" doctors. Not that you said that, but others have. That is just so not the case. We live in a fabulous country, one that is so generous...look at all we're doing for Haiti, and rightly so. I for one recognize that there are problems but there is no way that I want socialized medicine. I know people who live in England and have to wait for treatments and have many other limits. So I'm glad to be here.
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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Santa Fe (Taco) Soup Recipe

  • SANTA-FE-CORN-TORTILLA-SOUP
  • 2 lbs 93% lean ground beef
  • 2 large white onions, chopped
  • 2 pkgs dry ranch dressing
  • 2 pkgs taco seasoning
  • 1 small can green chiles, drained
  • 1 - 16 oz can kidney beans
  • 1 - 16 oz can pinto beans
  • 1 - 16 oz can black beans
  • 1 - 16 oz can diced tomatoes
  • 1 - 16 oz can rotel tomatoes
  • 1 - 16 oz cans white shoepeg corn
  • 1 - 16 oz can yellow corn
  • 2 c. water (I use 1 c chicken stock and 1 c beef stock when I have them)

  • Garnishes:
  • Sour Cream, Green Onions, Black Olives, Shredded Cheese, Tortilla Chips or Corn Chips
  • Easing on Down the Road

    Sou[You know what's good for anger management? A nice bowl of hot soup. Here you see some of the leftovers from my Italian Meatball Soup that I made on Saturday. It's true what they say: Soup really is lovelier the second time around. Or is that Love? Well, it's true of both.

    Thank you all so very much for your love and support. I'm quickly getting over the whole thing. It has been a series of events, and with each one it gets easier to accept and move on. The hardest part is accepting the dawning knowledge that I have to consider these people out of my life. It's just not that easy to cut out people I love.

    I've had a couple of very good days, with no back and shoulder pain. But it has returned, so I'm very glad I didn't cancel my appointment with the orthopedic surgeon. I'll be seeing him Thursday afternoon. Until then, 800 mg. ibuprofen and the heating pad are my friends.

    Sophie Block Yellow Monster  Noah's Star Wanta see what I've been doing? I finished my "Happiness Is..." center block representing Sophie. I have to give her some eyes now. She'll have some borders added, at least one pieced border, to make her more interesting and bring her up to the challenge rules size. Every time Sophie has a grooming, her groomer sends her home with a little bandana, always a different print fabric, often seasonal. I've saved all her bandanas and will use some of them in the borders.

    Last night, I worked a little on monster block #4. That's him in the photo, the yellow fellow with green limbs, nose, and spines. 

    Several months ago, my pastor asked me if I would make a wall quilt for the church's nursery. I said I would, but since then I haven't had any inspirations as to what to make. Last night I remembered this fun Noah's Ark quilt in a book that we published at OH when I was editor. So that's the one I'm going to make for our nursery. This quilt was designed and made by Carol M. Tipton.

    As you can see, Carol embroidered all her blocks with a deep blue color. I'm thinking I might use a different color floss for each of my blocks to go with the rainbow theme. Maybe even make each star a different color. What do you think?

    And finally, yesterday afternoon Sophie and I walked up to see our friends Maria, Gene, and their son Mike. Mike has been battling glioma for over a year now and I thought they could use some comfort food, so we took them a container of Santa Fe Soup. Maria surprised me with some gifts that she had made for me. Among them was this gorgeous kitchen towel. (The batteries in my camera died before I could shoot the other goodies, so I'll show them another time.) Thank you, Maria, my good friend.

    Towel
     


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    On 01/26/2010, Debbie Price said ...

    I am so glad that you are back!! It is hard when you have to no longer talk to people that you care about...even harder if it happens to be family...I know...I think we have all had to do that in our lives, but there are just times when we need to make that decision...sort of like a survival thing...anyway, my daughter and I LOVE the Sophie block! It is SO cute! We have a dog that looks just like Sophie, except she is lighter colored...did you design the block yourself? It is a great idea to use all of bandannas that you have from her groomings...wish I would have kept all the ones we had! Is the recipe for the Santa Fe soup on your blog? I know that this weekend we are making the White Chicken Chili...can't wait! Hope you have good news on Thursday...you have my e-mail if you ever want to talk!
    Hugs from a snowy Indiana


    On 01/26/2010, Ruth Landon said ...

    Hi Susan, that soup looks sooooo good, I have to try the recipe.
    Love your Happiness Block, I knew at once who it was! Does Sophie recognise herself?
    Hope you have a great day.
    Ruth


    On 01/26/2010, Wendy said ...

    Always a nice way to start my day...looking at your fun pictures and reading your blog. That Noah quilt will be so great, and I vote for rainbow floss. Love Sophie's block.


    On 01/26/2010, Joyce said ...

    Susan, I love the Sophie thing. So cute and captures her personality. BTW -- Soup is the name of the game in this nippy weather. I'm headed to the store now to purchase some "soup" ingredients and looking forward to warming my innards with it once it's made.


    On 01/26/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

    So happy to hear you've been feeling better and that you'll still see the doctor in a couple of days. It would be lovely not to have how you feel and what you can do at the mercy of the weather!

    It is sad to have to step away from family who have chosen to become toxic to you. Whether it's from grief or greed or some mix, it's still sadly wrong of him or them.

    I LOVE Sophie's block!! Hope you can capture her sparkling black eyes full of love, hope, and occasional mischief.

    Your monster du jour is so cute. Wonder what eyes will add to his personality?

    I vote for a variety of colors for the embriodery floss, too. Years ago there was a an applique pattern with lots of animals that said "All God's children have a place in the choir" I never did much applique but also never forgot that wall hanging.

    Okay, now I completely have to raid the pantry for soup ingredients. That looks seriously yummy and today and the coming days will be just right for good soup.

    Since I've written a book, I'll close with a HUG for you!


    On 01/26/2010, Marilyn said ...

    Pain and all you sure accomplish a lot......and that Sophie
    block is just lovely. Actually all of your creations are.
    Glad that you are moving on , it's the best thing
    you can do for yourself. Each day you will feel
    better about your decision. It always seems to me
    that the hardest decisions in the long run, turn
    out to be the best.


    On 01/26/2010, Pat said ...

    Always amazed at your creativity. Love the Sophie block! The Noah's Ark quilt is so pretty; I'm sure yours will be just as nice - I like the idea of different colors, too. That makes the eye wander around to see all the differences; great for little ones.


    On 01/26/2010, alexandrine said ...

    sophie is wonderful!!!!


    On 01/26/2010, Beverly said ...

    Susan, I agree that it is so hard to accept things about people that disappoint us. It surprises me just how hurtful some people can be.

    Take care of yourself. I hope you find a solution when you have your appointment.

    You are a good friend to so many.


    On 01/26/2010, Teresa/MarieSews said ...

    The Sophie block is totally fantastic!! What creativity. That is happiness, pure and simple.

    Your soups are making me hungry! Maybe that's what we'll have for dinner.

    Love your blog. You are an evocative writer and great storyteller. Thanks for sharing so much. Take care of yourself.


    On 01/26/2010, sophie said ...

    Me, too. I love that charming Sophie block ... it's plenty interesting already ;-)


    On 01/26/2010, Lavender Dreamer said ...

    When life it hard, it would be nice if everyone around you were more considerate but so often that's not how it is. What a shame to let people go....but that's the only way to move on. I love your beautiful quilts and the soup looks yummy! HUGS to you! ♥


    On 01/26/2010, Rachel said ...

    Sophie's block rocks!


    On 01/26/2010, Rian said ...

    Maybe it's Love is Soupier the Second Time Around. That Sophie block is awesome! How cute is that--you ROCK! Glad to see things are looking up.


    On 01/26/2010, Joanne said ...

    Glad you had a couple of pain-free days, and wishing you many more.
    Wow! are you going to embroider all those blocks? It would take me about five years.
    Love your soup--I made bean soup yesterday, and plan to heat up a big bowlful for my supper.
    Love - Una


    On 01/26/2010, Kai said ...

    Soup! Yes, indeedy! The Chiken Soup for the Soul books were spot on! I made homemade chicken noodle soup Sunday & it was even BETTER yesterday! Wish I'd made a bigger pot! I could eat soup every single day! Oh! When I saw the block with Sophie, I knew immediately who that was! Sooooo cute! And your newest monster is darling! I think you ROCK for doing all you do despite the pain! Hopefully, your doctor's appointment will result in some kind of relief. I LOVE YOU!


    On 01/26/2010, Deb said ...

    Hi Susan ~ I think you are amazing...doing all this stuff when you're in pain. The Noah's Ark quilt will be great...going with rainbow floss seems quite appropriate. I love the rainbow prairie points around the edges, too. Noah's Ark was the theme of my nursery for a few years, and I still have fond memories of all the animals and rainbows in there.


    On 01/26/2010, Deb said ...

    Hi Susan ~ I think you are amazing...doing all this stuff when you're in pain. The Noah's Ark quilt will be great...going with rainbow floss seems quite appropriate. I love the rainbow prairie points around the edges, too. Noah's Ark was the theme of my nursery for a few years, and I still have fond memories of all the animals and rainbows in there.


    On 01/26/2010, Linda said ...

    Sophie's block is so cute! Love the pattern choice for the nursery quilt. Lots of fun things to work on. We had black chicken chili tonight because the pantry was out of white beans. tsk! Actually, it was quite good with the black beans and they didn't discolor too badly.
    What would we do without things like ibuprofen and aspirin!
    Blessings!


    On 01/27/2010, Lynette said ...

    What a beautiful kitchen towel, you are so lucky to have such a dear friend.


    On 01/27/2010, Ruth Ann A. said ...

    Don't forget to add the "flying geese" somewhere on the Happiness block.
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    Monday, January 25, 2010

    As Popeye Would Say, "Enough Is Too Much."

    Scraps
     

    I've had a couple of good days, painwise. Felt good enough to go to church yesterday, even though it was raining cats and schnoodles outside. After church, I had lunch with Lori, Greg, and John at our favorite Mexican restaurant. Fun, fellowship, and feasting.

    The day was looking good; it had even stopped raining by the time I got home, and Sophie could finally go out for a walk. I was looking forward to a quiet afternoon of reading, when what to my wondering eyes should appear but a big SUV delivering a piece of equipment that had disappeared from my house.

    I thanked the deliverer profusely (I was very happy to get it back) and was rewarded by being told I was a crazy woman who needed help. Among other things, he implied (no he didn't imply, he said) that I was doing wrong by writing about my life on my blog. It was my property, taken from my house without my knowledge, that he was returning (although I'm pretty sure he isn't the one who took it). He was in my driveway. I was nothing but gracious and grateful (although Sophie was putting up her usual rude barkfest). But I'm the one who got the insults and ugly treatment. He continued his tirade about what a horrible person I am. He ordered me to stop bothering certain people and stirring up trouble. I guess he meant that asking (nicely) for personal property to be returned is stirring up trouble. I don't know. 

    But I do know this. This part of my life is over. I've endured insults, disrespect, slander, and treachery for over four months, and I've had enough. Time to move on. I have a house to get in order, family and friends to spend time with, quilts to make, a dog to take for walks, a body to heal. I don't have any more time in my life to play ridiculous games when I don't even know what the rules are. The stress of the past sixteen months has worn me to a frazzle. This is me, turning a new leaf.


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    On 01/25/2010, Debbie Price said ...

    Oh my goodness...who would do this to you? I wish I could be there to help you...and someone TOOK something from your home? Oh my goodness...I am sitting here trying to think of what to say to you...oh my, oh my...how cruel can people be? I am so upset that someone treated you like this...wish I could be there to give you a hug and help with what you need help with...I understand how this could be too much...it's too much for me and I am a total outsider! Oh my...if you want to talk, please e-mail me...
    Tons of hugs from Indiana


    On 01/25/2010, Ashleigh Burke said ...

    Well if you didn't know your neighborhood family loves you more and more everyday (even those who are now out of state). I sure you On-line family adores you too! So if you ever need a hand in fixing the "wrongs" you know we will help :)
    Love you and i check you're blog every day.


    On 01/25/2010, Lisa D. said ...

    There are no words for some people. You really don't need this stress in your life, you have enough to deal with. Hugs.


    On 01/25/2010, Nicole said ...

    Nefarious deeds, for sure. You do not deserve that kind of treatment Susan.


    On 01/25/2010, Barbara Anne said ...

    Holy Smokes! That behavior is appalling, inexcusable, hateful, mean, cruel, self-centered, and WRONG. He acted like a total jerk and I hope the deliverer reads this. The very idea of such arrogance makes me want to come and knock some sense and some good manners into his head and I am almost never prone to violence either.

    If some folks have been playing nice all of this time only to stop now, well, you're better off without them. It's their loss. Here's to that new leaf!

    Hope you can regain your serenity and enjoy today and the days to come. Perhaps you should call a friend and go out to lunch together today or have her over for lunch. Food, a friend, and laughter would be just the right antidote. I'd come and bring lunch if it weren't so far to drive.

    Glad you're feeling better!

    HUGE hugs!


    On 01/25/2010, Karla said ...

    Wow! I don't know what happened but certainly this person is in the wrong. It is your life and you can blog as you please! What is wrong with some people? Why would someone give you such crap (sorry - let's just talk straight here - esp. if the deliverer is reading) when you are going through so much. Your blog friends love you Susan!
    Karla


    On 01/25/2010, Donna said ...

    Susan, I am so sorry! It's your blog and you can say what you want to say! Tell them to leave you alone. It was in your basement and it should not have been taken without asking. You should be left alone and go about doing what you want to do.
    Blessings,
    Donna


    On 01/25/2010, Rian said ...

    What a despicable person to say such cruel, hurtful things. Try not to let his vile words damage your beautiful spirit.

    I am sorry this happened to you.


    On 01/25/2010, Sandy said ...

    Good for You !!!!!! sometimes it is better to just move on..you don't have any control over other people..but it is terrible for you to have endured all the insults...being upset takes a lot out of our "old" bodies, emotionall and physically.....that said --- bless you,, hope you are feeling better everyday....


    On 01/25/2010, Courtney Short-Prudhomme said ...

    isn't that amazing..someone takes something from your house without your permission.. you were kind enough NOT to report the theft which you could've rightfully done.. and while standing in your yard, verbally abuses you.. the deliverer deserved to have a chunk taken out of his hide by Sophie - she knew he wasn't being nice.. after all you have been thru in the last year - even if YOU WERE crazy (which we know you aren't) - wouldn't you deserve some human understanding and courtesy? I say that if he doesn't like what you blog - DON'T READ IT.. this country affords us freedom of speech.. if you don't like it - MOVE TO ANOTHER COUNTRY.. and I would say if they don't lay off of you there is gonna be a whole posse of us (your friends) showing up in Alabama looking for him.. u just keep truckin and doing what you are doing.. we care about you and wish u all the good in the world.. all the rest can go to.. well you know where ;-)


    On 01/25/2010, Jan said ...

    Oh my gosh! I can't believe that!!! It sounds like you are not going to let him "steal your joy" tho, so I'm sitting here applauding you my dear :) People can be so cruel and heartless but they win only when we allow them to get to us. Congratulations to you for for not allowing that to happen :) I do so hope that you get to feeling better soon! The pain you've had to endure, both physically and mentally, makes my heart hurt. Please know that my prayers will continue to be with you :)


    On 01/25/2010, Debra Spincic said ...

    You are right to turn your back on any behavior that doesn't serve you well. You have to take care of yourself & if that means letting go of those that have the ability to continually hurt you, well, that's what you have to do.

    We are here for you so who gives a flying crap what that kid thinks about your blog?

    aaarrrggghhhh--joining Sophie in a growl.


    On 01/25/2010, Melinda said ...

    It is unbelievable how some people act towards others. You don't need people in your life like that. I am glad he returned the missing thing, even if he didn't take it he had no reason to talk to you like that. Just be happy you have it back and forget what he said - obviously he was speaking without any consideration of you and your feelings. I hope he is someone you can cut out of your life. You do not need to put up with this kind of behavior.


    On 01/25/2010, Ruth Landon said ...

    Hopefully that person is out of your life for good. Lucky for him that you didn't get the police or a good lawyer, or maybe you did.
    Its hard to understand that someone could be so mean and thoughtless, not to mention down right rude. I would say good riddance to bad rubbish.
    I am with the rest of your friends, Susan right behind you with my love and support.
    Ruth


    On 01/25/2010, CarlaH said ...

    Susan, I think that you have taken the right step by putting that person (those people?) out of your life - sometimes we don't know a person's true nature until it's too late. Glad to hear that you have gotten your property back, it obviously means a lot to you.
    Continue to get a little better every day - hope the visit with the surgeon goes well.


    On 01/25/2010, Chris said ...

    Hi Susan
    Yours is the second blog I've come across in blogland that has had this kind of reaction to their blog...was the deliverer of the goods returning them to their rightful home, voicing his own opinions or those of another... its like TV or any electronic device if you don't like whats on... there is always an OFF switch..so he doesn't have to read your blog...
    Enough of this TOXIC person, there are plenty of lovely people out there in Blogland to compensate for one bad apple...
    In appreciation and thanks, take care and look after yourself...
    Chris...Wellington...NZ


    On 01/25/2010, valerie said ...

    You go girl!!! I am proud of you. I, too am also to that point. Why can't everyone just be happy?


    On 01/25/2010, Kelly Ann said ...

    Good girl.....


    On 01/25/2010, Kai said ...

    Remember that song, "It's my Party" - popular in the 60s? Well, you should have told that insufferable JERK that it's YOUR blog and you will write if you WANT to! Grrrrr! I could chew him up and spit him right out. I'm so proud of you! Enough of him and people LIKE him - all the naysayers & fulltime grumps! You are a ROCK STAR and I just LOVE you! P.S. I'd suggest Sophie bite him but she may catch something NASTY from his disposition!


    On 01/25/2010, Pat said ...

    I read the first part twice to catch on... So sorry. It is your blog!! Glad you got your whatever returned. Something worked! Glad you got your BGPs on! lol


    On 01/25/2010, Linda J.W. said ...

    All I can say is i am sorry that you had to go through that.You know what stress does to your body and you don't need this JERK talking to you like that and I am trying to be nice.When I was younger I would set back
    and keep my mouth shut but not now.I wished
    that I was close by he would't be walking very good wright now.Don't let this get to you my DEAR FRIEND the stress is the worst
    thing for your health
    Think happy thoughts I know I do for you
    BIG HUGS from TEXAS
    Linda W.


    On 01/25/2010, hunnybunnyknits said ...

    Oh my goodness Susan, that is insane! I've had toxic people in my life as well, but never anything so bold. I can not believe someone would treat you that way, it's unacceptable. I wish I was there with my horrible Boston attitude!You have enough going on without someone else's problems and poor choices.
    I hope that you are keeping your local friends informed and getting all the support you need.


    On 01/26/2010, Laurie said ...

    Good for you Susan! I would have punched him in the nose. Well, no I wouldn't, but I would have wanted to!


    On 01/26/2010, WendyC said ...

    Hi Susan, Put the bad stuff behind you and close the door on it. Tonight, cuddle up with Sophie and tell Van all about it, tell him you are going to forget the last months and remember the good times instead. Tomorrow have a look in your fabric stash and find bright cheerful stuff and make something to celebrate, if you don't have any happy fabric go on-line and order some. No-one can take away what you had unless you let them. Slam that door hard xx


    On 01/26/2010, Sharon said ...

    (((Susan))) I can only echo what others have already said here - - and no one needs to put up with toxic people in their lives. Focus on what is positive in your life.
    BTW - I LOVE that little doggie applique - brought a smile to my face!


    On 01/28/2010, Carol said ...

    Good for you Susan...you have taken the absolute right stand. You need this stress out of your life...you need to take care of yourself and get YOU feeling good again. Just wrong, how some people think they just deserve things...that entitlement thing...makes me nuts....and that they think they can treat people any way they want. You take care!
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