I'm sorry to report that Vann is back in the hospital. He had stopped being able to eat and was getting weaker and weaker. This afternoon when we went for chemo, Dr. L admitted him to the hospital. The good news was that his blood counts were very good, and his abdomen wasn't distended. His blood pressure was excellent, no temperature. But plenty of pain, weakness, and nausea.
They did a series of x-rays this evening as soon as Vann was settled in. I hope we'll hear what they showed tomorrow. They aren't letting him have anything by mouth, not even water. That makes me think that they could be thinking "surgery."
I wanted very much to stay with Vann tonight. But I slept about two hours last night and about the same the night before. My entire body feels like it's on fire and I'm totally exhausted. I'm afraid if I don't get some rest and try to get the fibro pain under control, I won't be able to take care of Vann when he gets home. Amy is staying the night at the hospital, dividing her time between Vann and her mom. It's sort of convenient that they're both in the same hospital. I just wish neither one of them were. Amy is really being a trooper and doing everything she can to help us and her mom. Andy has been a great help too, but now she has come down with some kind of respiratory thing and really needs caring for herself. I think this family needs a complete tune-up.
Calls continue to pour in from friends and neighbors with offers of help. God has blessed us richly with good friends and family.
Please do keep us all in your prayers. We need them now more than ever. Hugs to all.
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On 08/24/2009, Donna said ...
I have been thinking about you and Vann. My family has had some very tough times in the last few weeks. Hospitals and such. My prayers are with you all.
Donna in Attalla
On 08/25/2009, ~Tonya said ...
Oh Susan, I do hope that Vann will remain strong and that there is good news in the morning.
I pray for Vann, you and your family. A very difficult time for all of you. You get rest too and take care of yourself.
Many Blessings,
~Tonya
On 08/25/2009, Marie said ...
Sorry to hear that Vann's back in the hospital and that you're feeling worn out. i'll be praying for renewed strength for both of you.
I love the image you used for today's post. True hope really only does come one way!
Also thanks so much for sharing the video of Lynda Randle & the Gaithers. I love that song!!
On 08/25/2009, Linda said ...
I'm praying for you and Vann and family. Excellent signpost. Keep on the Hope Road.
On 08/25/2009, Connie W said ...
Will keep your family in my prayers too. Hugs
On 08/25/2009, Alison Gibbs said ...
Susan my thoughts are with you and Vann. Sending positive thoughts your way, look forward to good news tomorrow
Alison
On 08/25/2009, Amy said ...
Stay strong Sus. You relax (I know it seems like a foreign concept right now) and try to work on getting your fibro under control. I'll be keeping Dad company and can do all the housework and such. Just let me know what else I can do--I know you're exhausted.
Love you!
On 08/25/2009, Molly said ...
Oh Susan! When it rains it pours doesn't it? You, Vann, Amy's mom, Andy and everyone else are in my constant prayers!! Take care of yourself please, you are right that you'll be no good if the fibro flares any more. Let us know what's going on today if you can.
Molly
On 08/25/2009, Joyce said ...
Susan, your email makes me so sad for Vann, you and your entire family. Please read Isaiah 43:1-7. It is a scripture that has carried me through some tough times. I am going to the Lord right now to petition His mercy, grace and healing for Vann, you and all your family. Also, didn't my friend (Charlene) from the Healing Rooms send you a CD of healing scriptures? If so, please pray it continuously in Vann's room so that he can hear it and be bathed in God's promises. Blessings to you both. Joyce
On 08/25/2009, Sandy said ...
So sorry to hear Vann is back n the hospital...we will continue to pray for him and you.....
On 08/25/2009, Barbara Anne said ...
Dear heart,
I'm so sorry that Vann needed to be back in the hospital but am elated there was no distension and that his blood counts were/are good. Hope today's news is good, too. Hydration, nutrition, and pain can be handled at home when you have assistance there.
Daughters are the best in saving the day, aren't they? So speaks this daughter, of course!! Hope Amy holds up and Andy gets over this annoying bug.
Take good care of you, sweetie. Hospital chairs and long hours away from home all feed the aches and bothers. Give yourself permission to tend to yourself with a long bath, nap, or whatever it takes so you can feel as good as possible when you're with Vann.
Hugs, blessings, and continuing prayers ...
On 08/25/2009, Laurie said ...
We're praying. Take good care.
On 08/25/2009, CarlaH said ...
So sorry to hear of this newest setback. You must feel as though you are on a roller coaster of emotions. Here's hoping that the news today is good. Take care of yourself, my thoughts are with you and yours.
On 08/25/2009, Lisa D. said ...
Prayers going up for you and for Vann, Susan. I hope you get some answers today.
On 08/25/2009, Carol said ...
Lots of prayers and good thoughts for you and Vann. Take good care!
On 08/25/2009, Melinda said ...
Susan - I am thinking of you and Vann and praying for to get better so he can be home with you. Take care of yourself so you can take care of Vann. I wish I was closer so I could help in person.
On 08/25/2009, Lallee said ...
Susan, I'm continuing to pray for the well being of each of you! I'm keeping track. Loved the song so much. Very touching story about the young neighbor's essay. We never know who is watching us.
Hugs,
Lallee
On 08/25/2009, Beverly said ...
Susan, I am at a loss for words. Everything I can think to write seems so cliche. But, please know that I am holding you all very close to my heart and in my prayers.
Be strong, dear one.
On 08/25/2009, Bonnie said ...
Oh Susan, I hate to hear the latest news. My prayers and thoughts are still with you all. You have to take care of yourself too.
God be with you and your family,
Blessings,
Bonnie
On 08/25/2009, Joan said ...
My thoughts are with both you and Vann. Keeping you in my prayers.
On 08/25/2009, Penny @ Lavender Hill Studio & The Comforts of Home said ...
I am keeping positive thoughts....please take care of yourself too Susan...
xo
Penny
On 08/25/2009, AwtemNymf said ...
Hugs & Prayers for you and the family my dear! HUGS!!!
On 08/25/2009, ceramicnut said ...
Oh Susan,I am sorry that Vann is back in
the hospital.You take care of yourself you
don't need to be in the bed next to him,ok
at home but not there.
My prayers are with YOU and VANN
GOD BLESS YOU BOTH
Linda from Texas
On 08/25/2009, *karendianne. said ...
Today...the tender leaves of hope, tomorrow blossoms. My thoughts are with YOU and VANN and the entire family and friends that encircle you with love and faith. Thinking of you with light, love and the richness of prayer.
*karendianne.
On 08/25/2009, Karyl said ...
Susan Take Good Care of You as well!!! You need to be good to yourself to be good for Vann-- God's Blessings to you both!
Karyl
On 08/25/2009, Jean said ...
I'm am so terribly sorry for all you are going through. I'll for sure keep you and all of your family in my prayers. My husband had a stroke four years ago (he's ok). The one thing I had to learn to do was accept help, in whatever way it came. From mowing my yard to gettng me a milk shake. When people ask what they can do it's so easy to say, "Oh, I'm fine. I don't need anything." When in fact, you do need help and they lovingly want to give it to you. Take them up on it. It'll make you and them feel so much better.
May the Lord's angels wrap their wings around you in the dark corners of your night to keep you safe and warm.
On 08/25/2009, Lavender Dreamer said ...
I am keeping you both in my prayers. God bless you and keep you.
On 08/25/2009, Elaine said ...
I am keeping both of your and rest of your family in my prayers. Praying for good news in the morning!
On 08/25/2009, Mary on Lake Pulaski said ...
Prayers for all of you.
On 08/25/2009, Kelee Katillac said ...
Dear Susan:
I am sad that this is the experience of your life right now. And for Vann and the family. I know you feel worn out and probably are having a hard time keeping up the pace. I affirm for you right now:
"God is holding you tight and you feel His compassionate presence. You are being Divinely renewed and strengthened. You will hear the right and perfect guidance in every moment...giving you the ability to see life through. And God's highest good is unfolding for all of you right now. And you will have the courage to embrace the eternal good."
love, kelee
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